Breaking your Man

Don’t worry Ma’am I know that you wouldn’t do that and I’m not asking you to. But a different perspective on Chastity without the fetish would be interesting.

I only have the utmost of respect for you Maam

 

Were you able to reprogram him to suite the life that you had seen for you/the two of you? There seems to be a confusion here on what the term "break" is meant to be. The context is to "break" a mans notion on how he will behave and approach the relationship based on his terms, and be "broken in" to accepting her terms and her desires on how things will be.

 

You never know unless you try, right?

 

This is correct. Every relationship is different. Honestly, I had been "broken" to the will of my beautiful wife/KH before we ever thought about chastity. Chastity has added an element of intimacy/excitement to our relationship that we hadn't previously had. We both love it, because its fun and exciting.

 

Wow....just like my girl...but she is a bit tolerant, she unlocking me first, then she says..no more chastity(this point i feel sorry about making her mad)

 

My manhood has been broken as part of our female-controlled marriage and my feminization. I humbly and happily have become completely submissive to my wife and have accepted our power exchange.

 

As with most couples practicing chastity, the whole thing was my idea. She was happy to get into it but she hasn't really taken real control in the manner you refer to as breaking until recently.

I had a bit of a tantrum over something and she added two weeks to my normal release date. What with one thing and another, including travel and other obstacles, I was in for 5 weeks. This was tough, but the release was all the sweeter when it came. Then it was back to my normal 2-week cycle. Halfway through, I again annoyed her and she added another week. Then this week she docked me another week, which surprised me; I was a bit sullen. About five minutes later, when I failed to execute an order immediately, she docked me ANOTHER week! So I'm in for another 5 weeks.

She's definitely got my attention and I'm on my best behavior. Am I broken? For me the question is, has she really taken the reins? Time will tell. I hope so. In any case I'm extremely aroused by this development and have been giving her sexual service with great conviction, which makes her very happy.

 

so sorry to hear that, could you share details, if not too uncomfortable for you

 

LOL

 

I actually folow a woman named "ManBreaker" on fetlife. I won't go into her background, but she wrote this:

>> I see it this way.

Men crave sex. Even if you take away all the fetish and kink aspects, the vast majority of men are straight and want to have sex.

Women control sexual actions. We decide if they get what they want. We can say no. Of course men who continue against a woman's will are criminals.

We can make men work using their desires. Look at who typically buys who drinks? Or flowers.

As long as women are in charge of whether or not sex happens, we will always be in a superior position.

It's just a shame so many women don't realise this. <<

^^^ This is not so much "breaking" as it is establishing a position. Using a device is one approach, but the theme of "who is in control" is the same.

It all sounds easy -- like a parent "being in control of a child" but in practice shit is complicated, delicate, and requiring of personal skills.

 

Have You experienced anytime a situation when a male locked by You was really crying from frustration (I am not talking about leakage but real tears) during breaking new barriers in being locked? What was the most hardcore experiences if it comes to one of Your locked partner according to his frustration during the " breaking period"? Just curious.

 

Wank bait.

 

Not asking about sexual situation

 

Excellent post that brings to mind other animal training terms that apply as well...…..hence the "started" in my profile until such time as my Mistress considers me a "finished" male.

 

With all due respect Cornelius.....regret is a common phase but if a man can trust a woman enough to respect her wishes for keeping him chaste beyond his preferences he may start to see emotional (yes and physical) benefits to putting her needs and enjoyment above his own. Eventually his wishes can become her wishes and this can bring a world of emotional satisfaction to both.

 

So true.

 

In my statement the use of Regret was not meant to be used in a bad way, it's the best kind of Regret. The feeling of wanting to feel some sort of release so bad, but wanting to please her more than anything else because that's where your real desires lie.
If anyone hit true regret and wanted out then they would get out .

 

Great to read all the posted comments , again every bodies situation is different, you can read my previous post to find out why we live the flr lifestyle. Just to add to this blog .

Cuck's initial caging was a mutual decision and with out a time limit , he was very supportive of the idea from day dot , however it did not take me long to discover that the longer he stayed in chastity or denial the more polite, helpful and doting he became. Release from his cage is not seen as a reward for cuck more that he's been supportive and encouraging of my infidelities.

We first started playing a dice game to determine the the length of time he would stay in chastity. Throw or roll two dice the higher of the two number would determine the number of weeks and the lower number would determine the number of guys I could see in that time.

We use dice for lots of different scenarios now, to determine outcomes that neither of us want to take a particular direction in for cucks fate.

 

not if they were properly broken as Ms. Amanda has pointed out...….

 

I find my attitude improves when I'm always on my best behavior because I never know when or if. To put it another way, even if I have a date there's no reason my Mistress can't change it.

 

the best version of breaking in my experience could be called "falling in love"...…….

 

thank you Mistress

 

A similar breakthrough happened for us last year. She decided to break me, and test my limits.

I have not been allowed to beg, pout, or push since we started in 2014. It was her first strict rule. She decided to keep me denied indefinitely, until I started begging. I pleaded with her after eight weeks. She broke her own limits, and started finding my behavior “cute”. I’d furrow my brow, stomp, and plead. And she’d just laugh.

She kept me denied another two weeks beyond those initial eight. I was in an altered mental state, and she kept me there.

That’s when she found she had full comfort in her control. It’s also when she agreed to take ownership of my masturbation and orgasms indefinitely.

She’s completely blossomed since she learned she can take me past my breaking point.