Chastity and weddings

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    #26 MistressPhedre, Aug 23, 2016
    @bnd2plz that is a great story!

    My story is different. Although my husband and I had been playing with chastity for most of the time we'd been dating, I didn't want him locked when we got married. I had always wanted a partner for my husband, and I didnt like the symbolism. I wasnt about to promise to obey him, I wanted us to be equal partners in the marriage. To me, having him locked for the wedding felt like it would be saying I was "forcing" him to marry me.

    We did have him locked up for a month before the wedding. After the dress rehearsal I gave him the keys so he could unlock. I'm not sure if he ended up jacking off that night or not. I didn't care so long as he was ready for the wedding night ;)

    In retrospect, having him locked for the wedding night would have been great! I'm still very glad he was unlocked for the ceremony itself.
    (again, to each their own! not saying that's right for everyone)
     
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    #27 Kali, Aug 23, 2016
    I was locked for our wedding, but it was a very non-traditional event.
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    #28 bnd2plz, Aug 23, 2016
    My word-to-the-wise for my husband has become: "When you least expect it, EXPECT IT!!!". I think that's what keeps things new and exciting. Like I said above, neither of us expected or planned for my fiancé/husband to be locked up on our wedding night but it happened and out of the control of either of us. In the end, it was wonderful. I guess it's often the events that are unplanned that bring the greatest enjoyment.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    #29 Joroincharge, Aug 23, 2016
    And was a forerunner to you keeping him locked now!!!
     
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    Wolfeeh Chaste for a year

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    #30 Wolfeeh, Aug 26, 2016
    I could write a long story about this one as I can't find my old blog post about it but I'll just summarise it as I'm a bit busy at the moment and just taking a break from something.

    I was chaste for eight months before our wedding, wore it on the day under my suit and wasn't unlocked until we got to our hotel on honeymoon.

    My wife hadn't done anything with me for several months, no teasing beforehand, of any kind. when we got to the hotel she ran a bubble bath and got in, I was instructed to put in a butt plug, which I did, then bring the nipple clamps and cuffs into the bathroom. she cuffed my hands behind my back then put the nipple clamps on me.

    i had to kneel on the bathroom floor for two hours while she bathed. I got to lick her ass and pussy for a while when she stood up to shower off but she didn't cum then.

    when she got out of the bathroom, she lay on the bed, undid the cuffs and the nipple clamps but left the butt plug in. I was allowed to fuck her. If you can call it that. I was sensitive anyway from having been in the cage about a fortnight without being left out to wash or anything and I was now ridiculously horny from previously mentioned. I don't think I managed even three full (shallow) pumps before I blew my load. I got to lick up my mess and finish her off with my tongue. Told I was a disappointment. didn't get to fuck her again. anyway, some stuff happened at the hotel that ended up making us leave the next evening, early, when we got home I was told to put the cage back on, I did. In the three and a bit years we've been married we've had sex less than half a dozen times since, only one of them was a decent fuck.
     
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    #31 Jasmic68, Aug 26, 2016
    Not my idea of fun, but if that's what you enjoy, power to you.
     
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    Wolfeeh Chaste for a year

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    #32 Wolfeeh, Aug 26, 2016
    No indeed. not exactly mine either, though I do get off on it in a way. at the moment there's no sex in the forseeable future as I'm locked for an indeterminate period of time
     
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    #33 Jasmic68, Aug 26, 2016
    Well, so am I, but it depends what you define sex as. I only get to have traditional penetrative sex every few months or so, but most weeks I get stimulated to the point of collapse. I don't get or want orgasms but my Wife does. I consider it sex even if all she does is to verbally or visually tease me. I couldn't bear a lock and leave approach and it would bore my Wife as well.
     
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    #34 Wolfeeh, Aug 26, 2016
    It's more or less a lock and leave approach we have at the moment. It's very rare these days I even get to perform oral sex on her. It's not easy to deal with I will totally agree.
     
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    #35 bnd2plz, Sep 28, 2016
    ...like I've said so many times; in order for "Chastity Play" to really work, both players have to put in lots and lots of effort.
     
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    #36 Cornelius, Jun 3, 2018
    I plan on being locked on my wedding day in October, but if she wishes for me to be unlocked then I'm all for that. I'm assuming ghe sex we will be having that night will consist of either me using a strap on on her or me being numbed up with a couple condoms on. Would be a perfect night in my eyes.
     
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    #37 RangerCuck, Jun 3, 2018
    Imagine what it would be like if, as a part of the normal wedding ceremonies that go on every day, part of the ceremony was the locking of the husband up into a chastity cage.
     
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    #38 Goddess Gaia, Jun 3, 2018
    Oh my goodness, that was so charming, romantic, and adorable!
     
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    #39 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 3, 2018
    Not to my wedding, but been to a few others caged..... Wearing a kilt.
     
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    #40 Cornelius, Jun 3, 2018
    I bet this was exciting. Were you going commando?
     
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    #41 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 3, 2018
    Always
     
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    #42 maid julie, Jun 3, 2018
    Yes I have also been caged at other wedding that we have gone to.
    At the ceremony, not the caging part but making part of the ring ceremony part also include the presentation of the keys to the bride. Have them on a necklace that the groom places around her neck, so that the bride does not need to worry about a place to put them and they will be there for all to see for the rest of the day and will always be seen as a memory in all the pictures taken that day.
     
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    #43 Shepherdsflock, Jun 3, 2018
    No, but my wife did tell me once that she wished I had started wearing one before we got married because she thinks our wedding night would have been much more enjoyable for her had I been locked up.
     
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    #44 Chaste J., Jun 3, 2018
    I would have loved it! Shame it took another 20 years to discover chastity!
     
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    #45 Nicoftime, Jun 3, 2018
    We will see this summer. There really wouldn’t be a chance to “use” it during the event, and isn’t really a reason to remove it without it needing to be used. The only reason I can think of is to not want to have to go through the motions of unlocking later, wanting a more spontaneous encounter.
     
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    #46 Chaste J., Jun 3, 2018
    You can always make it a private unlocking ceremony on your wedding night! And being locked on your wedding day would certainly be different I think. I would have enjoyed being locked whilst taking my vows! Whatever you do enjoy your special day.
     
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    #47 RangerCuck, Jun 3, 2018
    And, if you're into cuckoldry, after the ceremony, your new wife could do the best man and the other groomsmen before she unlocks you and allows you to consummate the marriage.
     
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    #48 Chaste J., Jun 3, 2018
    Now your just being naughty! Funny but naughty! :)
     
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    #49 Chaste J., Jun 3, 2018
    And after all that action, she might be to tired to consummate the marriage! Stop it!!!!
     
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    #50 Mash2214, Jun 3, 2018
    I wasn’t locked on our wedding day but if I could go back in time to 1985 I would want to be. At our 25th anniversary we had a celebration at our acreage where we redid our vows. We had just started our Chastity life and I was locked before and during the entire celebration. Miss Shelly wasn’t very interested in having me locked at that time so when she realized that I was still locked for the whole event she was apologetic saying that she had forgotten about it. I reassured her than that I liked and wanted to be under her lock and key. It still took sometime for her to understand and except the change,but our 25th anniversary was the start of our life in Chastity and FLR arrangement. It’ll be 8 years this summer that we’ve been recommitted to each other. 33 in total
     
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