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    Do you unlock for teasing and edging and then lock it up again? I know some of you administer/recieve complete denial without any touching but I prefer to tease phsycaly and visually. I feel in our relationship that regular edging is important as it speeds up and increases the whole process. I also just love to torment it and edge it as I love the idea it's not getting any sort of relief, infact quite the opposite. I enjoy leaving it on the edge for as many weeks or months I desire. Does any one else incorporate or recieve regular edging and feel it an important part of denial?
     
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    She has grown to love doing this. The shower is her favorite spot. It drives me crazy.
     
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    fastened to the door or spread eagle on the bed are her favorite 2 ways to do this, or should I say places.
     
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    Edging is everything for us. Without edging, we would be like a lot of other older married couples that have stopped having sex.
     
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    That is how I see it. After a while it gets used to not having any sex. With edging that is impossible, as you're continually edging it and keeping it frustrated and topping up the edge on it.
     
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    of course I unlock and tease Him! Why would I just keep Him locked? It's orgasm denial that we play, not fun denial. And it is such a great fun to have Him tied to a bed and at my mercy :D

    And He's so fun to play with after few months of denial, that letting Him cum is probably not a good idea... why would I ruin all the fun I'm having?
     
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    From experience, being locked without any teasing or edging doesnt keep me on that amazingly frustrated denied rush. I end up feeling like a vanilla guy who happens to have a sheild on his penis. With regular teases and edges, not only am I constantly urging for release, but I'm hoping more than ever to be denied. I'm more attentive and am excited to please my kh in any way I can.
     
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    That's the whole reason I got into this. For me not to play with it defeats the object. The chastity cage is my reassurance that he will only be having an orgasm on my terms only.
     
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    I agree totally.
    And tying him or strapping him to the bed before you remove the chastity is a fav of mine.. making sure to lock him back up before untying him.
    You can sit astride and lower yourself on to him without losing control of the situation too.
    And when you see those telltale signs. you can kneel next to him and watch it bob up and down in the cool air ;-)
     
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    A glory of Mistresses discussing their technique. This is a thread to make the submissive truly fearful...
     
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    Is that the collective noun?
     
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    It it isn't it should be.
     
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    Then it shall be.
    I like it lester :)
     
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    Unless, of course, she is doing it on purpose, in which case you must accept and embrace your anxiety as a result of her growing superiority.
     
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    Whether she's doing it on purpose or not I'm gonna think she is. That should help keep me in a nice submissive head space
     
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    I don't tie him for teasing but I don't allow him to touch me or touch himself while teasing.

    Then I just use my mouth, feet, fin Gers, while wearing my sexiest skirt to edge him, and after a little while, I stop and command him to soften within 30 seconds by himself.

    Then, back to the cage, and on for some more teasing, rubbing myself against his cage with nothing under my skirt until he aches. After I'm done, we just get back to normal vanilla cuddling life :) Keeping him locked.
     
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    My Queen has never touched my dick or balls in 5 years.
    I wear a jailbird cage .
    When with her She has me remove my cage and as I am her house cleaner among other things , she has me naked ,and often tells me to stroke myself , once she notices my pleasure is increasing she commands STOP ! and I go back to work.
    Her pleasure is tormenting me by never allowing me an orgasm.( once in 5 years , and that was me masturbating then wiping the cum on my face and leaving it there as we went to Costco and I bought a membership and was photographed) )
    As My photo shoes ,my Queen loves whipping me and hearing me beg for her to stop , which she does only when she is satisfied.
    Her pleasure is having turned me into her sissy slave ,and taking me deeper into the depths her control.

    I at times loose interest if stressed by something else in life ,such as financial matters or relatives on their death bed. At times like that My Queen turns me loose until I come back on my own, sometimes months.
    She usually sends texts that heat me up by telling me what a useless sissy bitch I am , and that I never was a man, but only faked being one, and now we both know I was born to be abused as the worthless sissy I am.
    That is such a turn on It isn't long before I beg to return and be whipped for my absence .
     
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    Unlocked for teasing is very effective. Having your cock sucked on but not allowed to cum is almost torture. Being locked for teasing is very effective. Having a dildo pump into your bum and your testicals squeezed. Need I go on. The common thing is What?

    Tease and denial being taken to the edge in almost any way but not allowed to go over. It’s become what drives at least me to continue to please my Mistress
     
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    I am in my most subservient space when teased and denied and my least sub space when teased and finished. I always express my sincere gratitude when the cage goes back on without a release.
     
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    You have adapted to your new way of life very well. To have a release is almost a form of punishment. Good for You
     
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    I'm going to have to think about that one for a while. It's got me really confused.
     
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    It’s a difficult co concept. A lot of it has to do with the drop after an orgasm. Maybe it’s because I’m getting older but I’ve gotten to dislike the drop more and more. For me I would rather be kept at 80-90% of stimulation than to be taken to the 100% level and starting over.

    Maybe this is something you should keep private and not tell your keyholder about.
     
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    I understand this entirely. I've posted several times about my dislike of Day 1.
     
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    Last two weeks, before we are going to sleep, I have to unlock the cage and wait until Mrs. is coming into the bedroom.
    She gives me a hand or blowjob, sometimes I have to do a PIV.
    No cumming ofcourse, then she will lock me back in the cage after a few minutes.
    No need to tell that it's a "hell" of a time
     
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    We absolutely believe that teasing and edging is like the gasoline that keeps the bonfire at a maximum.
    In my case my Wife/KH, has outsourced this task to our masseuse.
    Twice a week I get Two hour sessions of uncaged teasing and edging..,hell/ heaven!,
    The masseuse has gotten to know me so good that she can perform extracting drop by drop of cum out of me ,giving me what she calls mini mini orgasms,but never ever a real satisfactory orgasm! really maddening!
     
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