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    Hello

    Wehave had some experiences here and there with chastity and through trial and error we found a way that is escape proof with no way out for me.
    Fast forward to today i hadnt been wearing the cage for some time as life just gets in the way and things like that busy here and busy there.

    As today my gf had to go out on busniesstravels i was home alone and was going for a shower and thought for some reason on that cage again.
    I deicided to put it on and see if everything still fitted and worked like i remebered.

    It did luckily but i still had the spare key he ( she has a key on her keychain ).... while i was wearing it for soem time the idea came to me what if i throw this one spare key away.

    She has the other one thats for sure and she will be back home in 1 week minimum.

    so i asksed what she thought and i did it ihave a movie of it but dont know if it allows us to upload movies here :(
     
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    this is the key gone:p

     
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    You should always have an emergency key, in case you are hit by a bus!
     
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    yes i had and i threw it somewhere over a building.... now my gf has the only key on her keychain .
    if i have a back up key myself i might as well not wear any cage at all.... or a toilet paper around your dick with the promse not to touch it or something ?
     
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    There is this thing called self control ;-)
     
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    oh ofc but if i wanted self control then i didnt need chastity BDSM or kink in general....im just one of those weirdo's
     
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    If you get hit by a Bus while wearing your cage. Where your key is would probably be the least of your worries, they can always cut it off you or wait till you keyholder arrives.

    An emergency key is more of a comfort blanket. It lets you know you can always take it off if and when you want. We’ve gone away from the emergency key along time ago. Mistress has both keys and I have No idea where they are. If I’m hit by a Bus she’s the first person that they would call.
     
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    Try replacing weirdos with unique individuals. It fits much better.
     
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    well this morning obviously everything is still locked on;) and it feels more real now as well to my gf she said.
    now there is only one key and its on her keychain.....and seeing she wil be abroad minimally for a week more this stays on;).

    What she will want when she comes back is a mystery,but we have done almost 4 weeks before so i dont think she will let me out soon.
     
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    Sound advice. Mistress has one key with Her at all times, the other is in a locked security box in the bedroom, secured by a 10 digit password.
    Its a compromise between safety and security. I can't unlock myself without Her. If She gets hit by the bus then I'll have a problem
     
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    i also absolutely didnt want to have any chance of any escape so the one keymethod seemed best to me even while she is abroad and me not having any acces to any key for 2000km's ;)
     
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    I used to have a key with me at work. Eventually I realised if I get hit by a bus they will cut the device off if they need to.
     
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    If I genuinely needed out when Mrs Chaste wasn't at home a text message would secure the keysafe number! Not a big deal as she can always change the number. If she was hit by the proverbial bus then I'd stay locked!
     
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    I've gone back and forth on the "extra key" issue. There are practical reasons for which you may need to remove it. My doctor asked me to remove it to do an examination, and I'm sure you can come up with others.

    So, my beautiful wife/KH and I agreed that there will be an extra key. We keep it frozen inside a cup of water in the freezer, so I can't get at it on a whim. Not that I've ever really wanted to. Which makes me wonder why I go to the trouble of keeping it frozen in ice.....As you can see, I'm a bit conflicted by the extra key idea.
     
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    I have number metal cable secure seal running through my integrated lock - so have a key with no issue - you have cut the cable to get to the lock
     
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    "Hit by a bus" was more proverbial. There are many situations where a cage may need to be removed quickly for safety, security, health, or preventing embarrassment issues. For example, work sends you on an errand to a company with metal detectors, or you have a stroke/accident and need an urgent MRI scan (metal chastity cage vs 3T magnet won't end too well). Personally, I think that keeping an emergency key, which can in a sealed envelope for example is essential for safety. However, saying that, due to my work, a 24/7 chastity cage is impractical anyway.
     
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    Rather than doing that, it is better top throw the key somewhere behind an inconvenient place stuck add behind a TV cabinet. For me, I have this big wardrobe that needs two people to move and to move it I need to remove my desk and bed. It isn't truly gone but it is very difficult to access.
     
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    well what would stop you from getting it back ? :)

    there is only one key and its on her keychain with her home keys car keys etc etc....everything important is on there ;)
     
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    So true !
     
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    You are totally correct. It depends so much on what you do for a living. Like you said with metal detectors. Their is really no right or wrong way just different situations like you say an urgent MRI scan. Were I live that never happens urgently it takes sometime to get one. Also how far away your keyholder is away can make a difference as to how soon the cage could be removed if needed. Sometimes it’s just not practical as you say that’s just the way life is and you learn to live with it.
     
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    I have a key on my key chain but
    I have cable secure seal that’s twisted metal wire and numbered so it take a bit to cut - this running though the locked-
    So that’s how I deal with emergency key
    Someone has to cut the cable then use the key - I can’t do unless I have enough time
     
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    well for me chastity has mostly to do with a loss of control when i have a key in reach i still have control wich i was aiming to loose.
    So in my situation this would not really work one key and in my gf's hand out of my reach...i sometimes even fantasize that she throws it away too but common sense stops me or her from doing that;)

    This device is not comming off without her exactely as we wanted and also she wanted it to be real no games ( with the cb6000 i once had we knew it was a game is i could remove it with a twist of the hand)

    So now lets see if it storms and rains today and the key will wash in the roof drains:D

    She is comming back home on sunday or monday lets see what happens then
     
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    Well the debate with or without backup key im very musch for the NOT having an backup key im solely in her mercy and none else ( not myself either).

    She will be commin back she said on monday but she has said that the first chance of unlock will be the week after wich makes 2 weeks so far....but she hassaid after we fool around net sat. then it could be a lot longer as she want me to lock right after whatever i dont know yet we are doing:p.

    if i think a bitthismeans minimal 4 weeks ill report back in if i know more;)
     
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