Are you a lifer?

Yes I think so. Chastity is really addictive. Even when you are let out you soon mis being in the cage and want to be locked again

 

Yes, will be involved in chastity for probably the rest of my life (I am 39).

After being kept chaste for a few days, a strong submissive feeling comes over me, and it is just wonderful. And the longer I am denied, the more I want to remain denied. It is such a thrill.

Even being self locked can be enjoyable (I do have a keyholder, but was self locked many years back).

So considering how much I enjoy it-yes, I will be a part of this lifestyle for a very long time.

 

Phase and bored

 

My Mistress wished me a long life, ..........

 

its beautiful Owner has recently taken to calling it "Her" lifer so the answer to Your question Mistress Lucy is yes.

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It's still pretty amazing when we look back even at where we were a year ago let alone over 3 years ago (when the transition from play or spice to more lifestyle happened.)

There have been a number of things we got up the nerve to explore, found we liked but thought was more of a stage that we'd tire of. Surprise--many of those "stages turned into building blocks growing the changing dynamic of our relationship.

Will it last forever? No way of knowing. We let things happen rather than trying to make them happen (although one of us is awfully good at pushing things along at times.) Our opinion it truly is a journey to explore, enjoy and grow together on--not a destination.

 

For sure , our relationship is totally committed to flr based on my sexual satisfaction after the last after 15 yrs of having very or any satisfaction in bed. Cuck has relinquished to the though of being able to satisfy me sexually and encourages 100 % to be happy. We love each other so much and I get off knowing that he is committed to chastity for life.

 

I don't know if I am a lifer. I think I will be but there are so many ups and downs in life you never know. I will say I'm loving the locked life, and each time I break my record, the more I love it. Mistress is great at keeping me locked no matter what, so that's a good thing.

 

I will be locked denied and controlled by the lady currently in my Life until she bores of it.. which she says won't happen.

After that I will probably take a break for a while and I'm pretty sure return to self locking.

Though I am not ruling out the possibility of someone else and I entering into a relationship within which male chastity would once again a feature ....bearing in mind my age and my current RL social circle I find the likelihood somewhat reduced.

 

It’s a phase I go through from time to time. However if I lived with the right partner, who knows.

 

I am in permanent lockdown and it does not appear I will be out, of course, that is up to Her. The dynamics are such that I really do not want out either. Things are more natural when you know the expectations and your role.

 

I’m not there yet
But I’m getting close
I expect soon I will be

 

I will be locked on and off for the rest of my life.

 

Not all of the time, but I do hope and think this will be a large part of my life. Chastity feels so right for me.

 

I think I will remain locked for the rest of my life. I enjoy it.

 

Wow, that is such a great question. Given how enthusiastic everyone on CM is about chastity, it’s been interesting and a little surprising to me to see the non emphatic replies to this question. Having said that, I’m in the same camp. After two years at this, it’s been an overwhelmingly positive experience, but I’ve been unlocked for close to a month now, mainly for health reasons, and I’m of two minds as to whether I want to go back to it.

My wife is ambivalent about it, she does it for me, so if she doesn’t prompt it, it’s unsure where it goes from here. Although I do suspect that if I was to lock up and hand her the key we may find ourselves back in the swing of it. Maybe a periodic break is just a normal and good thing.

 

Well, I wish to be permanently lock, but as I don't know what will be my future, I don't know if that dream would come true.

And I don't know if it's a phase... yet. As I'm single (so self locked), I, sometimes, get bored of wearing a cb. In rare occasions, I did remove it, but after a few days, the feeling of being locked was missing me.

This is why I consider you, couples with then man locked, to be lucky to have someone who can take charge of the chastity belt by teasing and denial...

I hope I'm understandable. I'm tired and when I am like this, my English become badder. French is my natural language

 

Whatever is right for you is the right thing to do. Life in chastity doesn't have to mean never unlocked after all! I suspect Mrs Chaste may disagree with me .

 

I find my relationship with chastity complicated. Being locked is both a physical and mental struggle. So often it becomes too much all you want is freedom. You think about giving it up but deep down it feels a part of you. You start to feel incomplete and get drawn back into the cycle. Does it ever end? I expect it all depends on the scernarios life throws at you and if something else manages to fill the empty space. There are certainly a number of concerns to consider if I end up commiting to the kink for life. For now I prefer to focus on one wave at a time and see how it goes.

 

Chastity is addictive for me. It depends if I will find a girl who doesn't like it, so I will stop. If not, I will keep locking!

 

That is the plan as I see it right now.

 

I would love to read more women inputs on this subject!

Personnaly, these past years I've experienced both chastity and non chastity lifestyles. Although I'm not sure how the future will be like, my personal interest for chastity always came back.
I don't see why it would stop.

Of course, when we talk about a lifelong lifestyle, it's better to have someone to share it with. And that's why a lot of you guys said that "if my partner is still okay with it and wants it too, it will be for life". I find it very true : more than anything I want to share this fantasy with someone.

But in my case, I'm quite sure that chastity will always be in my head somewhere during my whole life. I've always felt the need to come back to it when I was hiding it.

 

I am 62 and my wife and I began this lifestyle only 2 1/2 years ago. I expect I am a lifer and this will be the norrn for the remainder of my life. At some point though, keeping the little guy locked up will probably be redundant, lol.

 

I'm young but I can't imagine a scenario in which I would be unlocked for any length of time. I think my penis will remain locked for the rest of my life, with intermittant and brief moments of freedom for various reasons as necessary.

 

My wife could be done with it tomorrow and not really miss it. I long for the attention she gives me when I'm locked up and miss the control when I out of the cage.

It has been two years and I hope we'll go long beyond that but only time will tell.