Just curious here, whats the split of people who actively try to not get turned on while in chastity vs. those who get a kick out of the torture.
My key holder put my spike pull-out ring on when we go shopping so I don't get turned on by looking at other girls
I actually hate getting erections and that was why I found chastity appealing. My wife doesn’t like me having erections, either. So, it only makes sense that I tried to avoid having them when I wore a device.
I love being turned on when locked. Knowing I can't do anything about it (not that I would if I could). Another thing I like is when Mrs Chaste goes to the loo in the night then comes back and teases me until I get hard before going back to sleep! Deliciously frustrating.
Avoiding being turned on is flat out impossible for me. It's why I was a chronic masterbater pre-chastity. I don't spend much time actively looking for it. Just walking in on my wife while she's getting me dressed makes the cage tight.
Put me in the camp of LOVE being turned on and the struggle & tightness of my cage, so much so is that I'll take half a Kamagra (Viagra) on nights when I can serve @n2toys Pure bliss for me is servicing my wife while I'm straining intensely in my cage and after having a little bit to smoke; it puts me in such a horny and submissive mindset.
How can you avoid getting turned on? Last weekend my Mistress had me under her with my head below her pussy as she got fucked from behind and I was licking her clit and his balls ad shaft while getting my head slammed into by his big body. How could I not get totally turned n by that. Or something as simple as Mistress sending me a picture of her sucking her lover's cock while I am sitting in a meeting somewhere? God all she has to do is whisper "you are my little sissy bitch" and I get turned on. And why not?
I'm on the honor system and I am teased and denied multiple times a day. I love the feeling of being taken to the edge and denied. After about 10 days, it really gets good, but she usually can't wait that long before giving me a ruined orgasm. Bummer.
Because I use the honor system I find that I must avoid getting turned on to prevent any sort of oops/accident. That isn't to say I don't want to be turned on and/or teased - just prioritizing goals I suppose.
Love the feeling of my tight cage, aroused and submissive, denied and frustrated, making that time when She ultimately releases me all more worth the wait for everyone involved.
Like others here, I like the heavy feeling on my penis with the cage on and erect and enjoy the night time hard ons...
I'm limited in the porn I can look at, and the stuff I have saved, is limited to 20 items that reinforce my role in chastity. Without stimulation, I don't get nearly as turned on as I would unlocked and stimulated. The catch 22 of things is that one of my biggest, if not the biggest turn on, is chastity and denial. I'm locked 95% of the time, and my chastity contract boils down to "Your dick is just for peeing through from now on, and you may never get hard when unlocked". Basically I've hit a wall when it comes to chastity/denial fantasy, and in more of a "learn to accept it" mode. I'm also at the point after enough years of kink, that when I get turned on, I want to give pleasure, and don't consider my locked parts as being involved beyond sometimes being an indicator of the degree of arousal. Basically yes, i do get turned on in chastity, because I'm basically always in chastity. When i do get turned on, I crave giving, and not getting pleasure, so it's a weird kind of arousal.
A pulsing and denied cock is when I am most chaste. I love the feeling and it is one of the things I enjoy most about chastity.