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Excellent resources on both counts.

 

Great infotmation. Thanks much

 

I thought that monetary considerations were expressly forbidden on Chastity Mansion. This rule has been instrumental in keeping CM a NON PRO-DOMME friendship/couple oriented community providing resources for those interested in this lifestyle. I totally agree with the comments, intent and spirit expressed by @L-u-c-y who originated this thread, but I see posts here by a few new members that apparently see the Mansion and many of it's members as "easy marks" for their financial scams! BEWARE, once this door gets unlocked it will be difficult to close.

 

I do not charge for keyholding, and I viewed this conversation as all tongue-in-cheek. If the moderators feel the posts are offensive, I'm sure they will remove them.

 

At first note, I found this reply a little pejorative. However, my optimist side feels this is intended to be a genuine concerned piece. I am confident that CM does its level best to ensure all are welcome and provide an area for those of similar tastes and desires. I feel quite good about having a pro domme as a best friend and another I am friendly with. I don't see pro dommes as a threat to CM, but that doesn't mean to say that some 'members' deal in a range of sub CM culture services under the covers. I understand if spotted, are invited to ply their trade elsewhere. As for chat regarding such things, well lets not censure buoyant debate.

 

I doubt whether any pro domme would earn very much from here, That's why most are only here, fleetingly.

 

Another great discussion!
The psychological aspects are very deep in re: sub/Domme.

The roster seems to polarize into two main types.
Those who take this seriously and those who take it less so.

When I got into TND/OD during college, it was more for kicks.
It didn't take long before I saw a greater value in respect for FLR & Servitude.
Once that solidified, it became a lifestyle rather than a fad.

I commit myself 100% to my relationships. So does my wife. We have found that to make this successful, it involves lots of discussion so that both of us get what we want/need. We have worked out the kinks (mostly) for 25 years and recognize that we have something we both want to continue.

It takes a lot of effort - but its worth every ounce! We consciously acknowledge our partners commitment & don't take each other for granted.

I have no illusions how lucky I am. I have never had to search for someone to be my Domme or Keyholder - I cant imagine how difficult or awkward that might be - for both the seeker & the sought.

I say 'seeker' and 'sought' with careful deliberation - because a sub & the Domme might 'seek' the other - but [apparently] not all that are sought are seekers. [i had never really thought about that.]

It amazes me that one would try talking another into doing something for them by methods just short of coercion. Where is the element for something 'lasting' in that? To me, there cant be ... the self serving nature is revoting.

The discussions found here have opened my eyes ...
- to some things I had never thought about before
- gave me a clearer understanding of things important to me
- to some 'real' people I have found here

Thanks to all who have made CM what it is.
And to the many that share their truths.
It is enriching my life.

 

i can see how people get desperate, it is hard when there are so few genuine Dominant Females and so many scammers on the sites who are hell bent on separating the sub from his cash.
i am glad i have found this place where things seem more above board!