headaches & prostate pain

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    so I have been abstaining from masturbation for a bit over a month now and been in a CB for almost a month now. My wife and I agreed that I am only allowed to orgasm at her discretion. so far I have been allowed 1 orgasm a week. all three have been by my own hand. to give you some idea of what this means, I have gone from 7-8 orgasm per week to a max of 1. what I have noticed is when I am allowed to orgasm is now when I ejaculate that I get a dull pain underneath my testicles and I get a severe headache for about 10 minutes after I cum. has anyone experienced this when starting chastity and does it diminish with time?
     
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    To be honest, the shift in your patterns is not so great. You're still orgasming once per week, albeit that's a lot less than once per day. But really that's not much of a shift. I don't think the headache is connected at all - that's just too random. The ache in the testicles again doesn't sound particularly problematic to me.
     
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    I think that you may have been over doing it. Try a little moderation and you never know....... your headaches might go and your brain might start to think about something other than your penis.
     
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    my mind was thinking about my penis for a long time while I looked at porn each day.

    I haven't looked at porn in nearly a month now and my wife/kh noe has complete control of my penis.
     
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    the pain you're feels my may have to do with having a build up of semen and fluids from cutting your masturbation to a fraction. Often times after a week of wearing a ball trap device I'll get a dull ache in my testicles and groin, if the device comes off it lessens the ache but it still there. The difference though is that when I orgasm all that ache goes away. You may also try not wearing your cage for a week and see if you're results On your ache differ or if it goes away. The cage you're using may not be suitable for you. The headache part I don't really understand and would keep an eye on to see if your headaches vary after each orgasm. If they get worse I would talk to a doctor about it. A good rule of thumb with headaches in general is to make sure you're hydrated, that can effect you so many different ways.
     
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    I initially thought it could be prostatitis, but you would probably be a bit more unwell (flu like symptoms). It is probably better for the body to slowly transition to longer and longer denial. A sudden change to anything with the human body can result in health issues, and mens bits are no exception. Personally, I think it is better for prostate health to have a milking or ruined orgasm every 7 days or so.
     
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    that's what I'm thinking. Mrs. B has something special planned for tomorrow night. she is aware of the headaches and pain when cumming and has said if it gets worse then we may reevaluate how my chastity arrangement will go going forward.
     
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    Also, your cage may be causing some trauma to your ejaculatory ducts or bulbospongiosus muscle.
     
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    I had a similar thing a few years ago that when i had an orgasm I imediatly had a terrible headache within seconds of coming, It only happened 3 or 4 times and never since. I did google it but didnt find anything
     
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    Don't know much about this but I would perhaps talk to a doctor.....the ache in your balls might be associated with masturbation but I don't understand the headache. Perhaps you should not be having a weekly O seems a little defeating of Chastity unless it's ruined....
     
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    I have also experienced the headache. It’s one of the reasons we agreed on permanent orgasm denial. Once I go a while without one, having one again makes me feel awful for a day or two.
     
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