So after struggling with how to bing up the subject and my wife shooting it downa few weeks ago. Guess what firday night i got locked up! Took the wife to dinner after work and she nervisly brought up the subject. By telling me she has been thinking alot about it since i brought it and her mind had changed. She is stil on the fence about how far it can and will go. However i was right about a lot of my points i had brought up and that was ready to exspet it and give it a run on her terms. So after dinner when home and got me all locked. After clicking the lock shut she lafted and told me there is no hope of bein unlocked until our anversery in july. Then left me to ponder just how far this all will go.
Congratulations. I know it was difficult to approach my wife about chastity. She still worries about it but she does participate. Hope you enjoy.
Way to go, @Mousey ! Now you are in a tenuous area. You asked for it and now you got it! Be careful not to be complaining or begging while locked. Try to focus on Her needs now and do not, under any circumstances, be "topping from the bottom". She will soon realize the full benefits from Her controlling you and, after you adjust to that, you will be on your way! It's the best thing that ever happened to me and our marriage. Best wishes on your journey!
Thanks, i did spend alot of time thinking about it before asking her. I really think i have the right mindset coming into it this time around. Now its just a matter of being smarter about it.
All journeys start with the first step and often that is the most difficult one! July, that's not far away!
@Mousey i hope you am ok and if you dont keep thinking bout it and counting days and that it will soon go and be July and then you can ask Her.
Starting out with 4 months is pretty strong. It took my awhile to get used to being locked and the first time I went 2 weeks it seemed like forever. Enjoy. Hope you have a cage that is comfortable for such a long sentence.
the days will pass quickly enough when you realise and understand you are doing this for your Mistress and it is an honour to do so.
Well its been a few days and i doing great hell we doing great. Its been weird wearing my cage at work but im getting thru it. Since my lock up we have just kind of let things be while i settle. Tonight my wife wants to i guess lay down her rules sort of speck.
The title to your post is "Perfect" if your wife is strong willed your in for a very interesting 3 months. What @DonnaSue says is very important. Your wife has taken control of you as You asked her to. Show her as much love as you possibly can. These next few month can be some of the most intimate and rewarding days of your relationship or it could be very frustrating it all depends on your commitment to making this lifestyle work or not.
Well lwts just say we are off to go slow start. Im doing my part and being more attentive and she deciding on what rules and such i will have to follow. But im already going nuts in my cage lol.
Yea with my wifes evil streak i could be finding myself in trouble, but i opened the can or cans of worms so ill deal
Years ago pretty much the same thing happened to me. I had to actually do it twice. My wife was not really into it, and my first device was a CB 3000. I found out that I could escape and even put it back on without unlocking it no matter how tight the rings were. So the idea fizzled out. Then I discovered the Mistress Lori’s site. After getting a PA piercing, I bought one of their devices. I discovered without my wife’s knowledge that not only were her device escape proof, but also comfortable enough to wear forever. I presented the idea again, but again her desire to be my key holder fizzled out. Good Luck! Things are changing drastically though. I will have my own post about what happened yesterday.