Why do locked boys look at porn?

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    Someone asked me do I like National Geographic magazine. (I was reading one at the time) My response jokingly was that I also read Playboy (which I don't) too because I like to see places I'm never going to go. Sorry bad joke. I'm very into shemale porn. My GF knows this and she's kinda lost interest in the chastity thing but she's pushing me to wear panties and stockings, anything female I can hide under my clothes in exchange for a still undetermined release date. she still has the keys. I LOVE your attitude "Thatgirl". That guy is a lucky guy. I'll be looking for a new GF/KH soon. Bottom line...I watch porn trying to get her attention and pay attention to me good or bad. I spoil her rotten because I want to. She ignores me because she doesn't care.
    By the way after several cage changes and a weekend of arguing and a short time in more roomier steel cages I'm back in her favorite the evotions (knock off cage or she says she'll start posting on Facebook.
     

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    Right now me and my Toy are in a break of chastity . At the beginning porn was the issue until chastity and I wasn't mad about porn any longer, until he kept taking his cage off to be able to "sleep"better. He swore he didn't jerk it.. but it took away my power. Then he started following a couple on porn hub and wanted to watch them whenever we were having a session. He turned it off when he noticed i wasn't into it, no problem, but me and my chatty woman brain was upset . So after a fight about it, he took off his cage and said we would be vanilla again... So that's where we are at I'm bummed, but won't do it again till he is verbally interested . Don't know what else to do . I want to be more than his fantasy to fuck (his goddess)and I want to be more than a fuck while watching porn ( his goddess) . Id like to get the cuddling benefits, the talks, the rubs and I do, just reciprocated right away, not when I want him to ... I'm sorry for the rant, but porn took me on it;-)
     
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    Talk to him. Communication is key. Tell him you really like the chastity but you'd like to do it properly and control when he wears it. If that's what you want.
     
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    Already had that convo... Seeing where it goes
     
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    I agree, conversation is crucial. Chastity to me has always been about giving someone else control. It's a big part of my submissive nature. I love light lengthy bondage and teasing. We're not onto whips and chains or anything heavy, but we both work and weekends are the only time we get to do anything. chastity became a 24/7 thing. I could work and still be submissive. A little teasing and suggestive phone messages during the day made it fun. chastity is like giving a kid candy knowing he's going to want more. Chastity is my candy and I DO want more. Porn is my self teasing thing. Yes I get horny and while in my cage it reminds me of my submissive side and my situation. It's a personal thing as much mental as it is physical. Guys who wear chastity devices are submissive wether they admit it or no especially when they give or want someone else to have their keys and control. Being locked up is kinda self abuse. so is watching porn in chastity. It just makes the chastity more intense. that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Everyone have a good day!
     
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    I try not to watch porn like I used too. Not that it was a huge problem, but it probably was far more than necessary. Today, I seem most interested in seeing porn when I am locked and left alone for long periods of time. What has been made docile, I feel come back to life just a bit, as I do have a short cage. But, because I like to always involve my Bride in any fantasy I may have, my desire to watch porn is not what it used to be, and I think thats a good thing. Interestingly enough, my greatest desire surrounding porn is to actually watch with my Wife. It's a lot more fun to watch porn with someone else.:p
     
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    Locked boys look at porn because being locked does not remove feelings of arousal. You may logically know that you cannot masturbate, but that doesn't mean the need for sex goes away. In fact, the time that boys are least likely to be interested in porn is immediately after cumming, as the need has just been satisfied. Locking prevents this from happening, so the boys are now continually horny. Chastity prevents boys doing anything about the need for sex, but it is a myth that the need itself is locked. Locked boys have many advantages, but preventing interest in sex is not one of them. Instead of worrying about this, exploit it. You can focus this need on yourself and enjoy unlimited oral service. I would.

    Andy
     
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    Yes Ms.
     
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    That's really locked. Good thing your a loving KH
     
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    i think they looks at it cos theym very very naugty and thas why they do.
     
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    I look at porn to train myself to be a better slut. My wife is aware of me being a slut. My cock hunting trips to porn theaters, book shops or outdoors are fun outings that I love to do and I love seeing the guys reactions when they grab for my cock and get a handful of hard plastic instead.
     
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    Hi Thatgirl,

    I think it could be a mixture of things. The fact it is forbidden just makes it harder not to do! Think it is human nature, if you are told not to do something you get an urge to go and do it. I also think the fact he is horny and denied and cant do anything about it is another factor. Its not like he can jerk off to it is it? In his mind it may not be that bad?!

    If it is really annoying You then have a good chat and then a discilpine session. Maybe tie him up and force him to watch it constantly for 24 hours straight may be in order? Overload his dom fantasies!

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    I don't think he realized how much he didn't like to have actual control. The "idea" was awesome. But it seemed right around the time I learned I could dominant him, not by his suggestion, is the time he realised he wasn't in control. Silly arguments happened. I told him I thought he was in it for the fantasy for him and I felt like I was getting the short end... And I told him, I LOVE LOVE LOVE teasing him, playing with him, edging him, getting him off, even more
     
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    I lost
    I think thet when I told him I felt used, because I didn't think he fulfilled his end, it hurt his feelings, but I just wanted to be cuddled and talked with. He doesn't seem to want to do that unless he wants to, not when I ask... So there is our problem, control. I thought I had some, he's made it clear I don't. After the argument he locked away my outfits, his outfits, his toys, and even my toys!!! Saying we are vanilla now. I've asked a few time for him to put on his his cage he says no, he doesn't want me to feel used.... I just wanted him to put forth effort when he wasn't going to get played with right away.i guess it's too much to ask for.
     
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    some guys do like the fantasy of it all, and not the reality. Losing control can be a hard lesson for them. I'm sure if you give him time he will come back. The fantasy will creep back into his mind. Though that could take some time, maybe even years, who knows. On the other hand maybe he's testing you? Seeing if you will really take control, take charge and put him in his place? Hard to say. Only you two know whats really going on. I think this is also a perfect example of why us guys should never have access to the keys lol. We might rebel. Honestly though I think communication is key here. Talk with him and find out whats going on in his mind.
     
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    Mostly because I like it. :) Now that I'm caged this is less of an issue. Princess doesn't prohibit me from viewing porn and has subtly encouraged it as long as it's outside of her presence and I'm locked.
     
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    If I get too horny I'll lose control of myself - and do something dumb. So, yes - I believe he looked at forbidden images primarily due to raging lust.

    This is how I was eventually led toward using pain by my dominant. She gave me a chance to cum - but a greater chance of experiencing pain. As the relentless days wore on - I'd eventually become consumed with cuming and would do almost anything. It was always just a matter of time.

     
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    I look because i'm caged and it raises my frustrations even more, especially when my clitty cock starts to get hard and uncomfortable, reminds me of why i'm locked.
     
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    The simple answer is that we are perverts and cannot help ourselves!
     
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    I watch the food network when Im hungry, is that wrong?
     
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    I've been told by my KH to stop looking at porn. I do it anyway but not a lot. I enjoy the feeling of her cock trying to get hard.. and not succeeding. It's a pain/pleasure thing...
     
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    I watch porn with my girlfriend as part of foreplay. On the days that she wants me locked up she teases me with suggestive texts and pictures to see if I am getting aroused. Then later in the evening she likes to select porn and we watch it together. She will start teasing me and watching me squirm while locked up. It gets her very excited – and me too . After I have pleased her orally she will make a big production out of unlocking my cage so that we can finish with PIV.
     
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    I have just recently realized that my wife of 29 years is my goddess. I no longer watch porn. I am totally focused on her. I have read your posts and have learned that this is what is right for me. I would like to thank you all for your thoughts and posts. I have been married for 29 years and you all have taught me how to really appreciate my beautiful wife. Better late than never. Thank you all
     
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    I don't necessarily watch porn, although i do love to look at lingerie and fashion models. The combination of the beautiful clothes and the enchanting feminine shapes gives life to my dreams. As long as I'm caged, that can't be any more than that.
     
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    Just to be clear, everyone must do whatever they like on this issue. The below is just my opinion and standard.

    My sub has promised me not to watch porn unless it's animated or story based erotic literature. Or the photos I made for him. I consider watching porn degrading to women and for me it's not acceptable behaviour for a sub to lust over anyone but his domme. It's part of the package deal for me, my sub will not watch porn.I want him lusting only for me.
    If he would do it anyway, that would hurt my trust and self esteem. So it's a limit he has.
     
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