The lure of being locked by a vanilla keyholder

Two answers: 1) I want my key to be held by someone I trust completely. In my case, its my wife of 37 years. 2) Wearing PVC or leather doesn't guarantee a particular level o kink, nor does the lack of same guarantee that kink doesn't exist.

My beautiful wife/KH have some WONDERFULLY kinky experiences, and no one else would ever know. She's never worn PVC, and the only leather she's worn is a very tasteful leather/fur coat.

 

goddess lucy is so kind to make use of the inferior male

 

Clothing that accentuates the female form is usually arousing to any male but wearing it is usually something women do to please men. Some of us here at the Mansion are trying to focus more on pleasing women and so clothing that is comfortable and doesn't cause their males to forget their responsibilities seems more practical. Of course after a few weeks or months locked many of us could get excited seeing their KH in a tee shirt and sweatpants.

 

I think you are walking on very thin ice with that comment as far as quite a lot of the women on this site are concerned.

It really takes you that long? Does your Lady know?

 

Would love a dominant one to have my keys are you very dominant as your only 15mins down road from me if in oxford I'm Wallingford so you can have my keys anytime.....

 

I vote for kinky dominate

 

I agree with @filltee's observation about this statement but will add another thought.

I've actually heard this musing many times: 'It's largely a myth that women dress up for their men. Lots of times, they're dressing up for other women!'

Has nothing to do with sexuality or expression, instead the judgement that's delivered by strangers and friends alike if someone fails to be 'fashion forward'. It's a strange world we live in sometimes, but I can't say I'm surprised when this comes through to reality.

In My opinion, while dressing sexy can be loads of fun, your partner should be able to retain the attraction and intrigue for you regardless of what you're wearing...

Dressed for a wild night out on the town or in work clothes covered with soil, the person within the package remains the same.

 

I like when my KH dresses the part. I’m like a raccoon, I like shiny stuff!

 

Guys thinking about images from their mental fantasy albums or real images that fuel their fantasies well I can't say I blame them until they know better.

Your partner your KH your Mistress or your Lady will... not counting formal occasions or business appointments etc ... at almost all times dress firstly to suit herself or perhaps to impress her peers and then others and then perhaps even other men, even if she is not interested in them she may be interested in checking that she can generate interest from them... then sometimes if you are lucky with you in mind ( whether it be to impress, attract, tease whatever.)

A wise man soon learns that her choice of attire is a good, but by no means certain, indication of her mood. An astute or observant man can learn to appreciate what in his partners case all (well most) those moods are (usually) and what possibilities those moods might present in relation to himself.

Then he reacts accordingly. Don't go reacting in the way you feel about how she is dressed ... learn how she wants you to react. Her attire is one thing her mood is another and the combination of the two can be strong clues or totally confusing so you need to learn. All of this will take time and effort especially when certain nuances can change the meaning of everything you thought you'd learned. It will however in time be well worth the effort and that you have clearly put in that effort will be noticed and appreciated even if not directly commented upon.

And just in case you had not realised just because she is dressed a certain way that you know she knows you think is hot do not be fooled into confusing what you hope she is thinking with reality. You have been locked and denied XXX long and may have little else on your mind maybe all day or all month, which never will dictate what it is she is in the mood for right now.

You are thinking... wow T&D and she is thinking .. I'm tired and want to rest and be pampered with no hassle.

Observe, assimilate and learn to interpret guys... you know it makes sense.

 

I was not aware there was a a CM twitter page Miss Lucy
I did once try having a twitter account
and I could not figure out how to use it.
I really did not try hard ....but it was not obvious

Does the CM one get a lot of interest?
Would the majority of that interest be from male or female twits? twitterers? whatever?

 

Ah.. good idea. Is there any indication it is working as intended?

 

What a keyholder wears is up to her. However, sexy tight shiny things are cool as long as it is just as much for themselves. As long as they feel confident dressed that way it is fine. If it is just put on and not an extension of their persona it becomes just for play in my mind. If it is regular attire, and is common-place to them...real...it is great.

 

This is very good and useful! Thank you @L-u-c-y for this. However, I would say that doesn't matter what a woman is wearing to make her dominant. If she's dominant she also doesn't need to make up funny cloths just to get male attentions. I think most people wish to leave chastity in a real scenario with a real woman.