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    So I've had a few private conversations land at my feet (what better place :)). Some of you appear to be either fantasising or even considering castration and/or penectomy. As much as I am more than happy to help enforce the journey to flaccidity and/or impotence, I do wonder whether the 'ultimate gift' is really ideal for a couple in this lifestyle. I'm not judging, each couple have their wants for their version of life and of course that is to be respected, but somehow I think the visual symbolic of the chaste male is such a powerful icon of female dominance and the sign of the power exchange. So overall for me, intact and caged would be my preference. A suggestion for those considering; make sure everyone's head is in the right place. Permanence really is a solid end point and gives nothing should a change in the dynamic occur. And over the years Myself and jack have been active, I would say change has been our friend. Yes I do know of those who have chosen this path and appear quite happy with the results, but as I said, there are not many places to go once executed. Goddess Lucy mused of a situation where control without caging could be possible, I think this could be really fun to achieve. An uncaged male, who can continue to be aroused, but not able to execute a release. This might be a really good alternative to offering your genitals to the chopping block. Make good choice :):kiss:.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    If I maybget all geeky comic book guy, it reminds me of the Superman theory. Some say Superman is the least heroic character because he cannot be hurt. He braves through nothing, no fear, and endured no pain or sacrifice. To me being chaste because there is no choice because of penis removal is similar. Especially if balls are removed which also takes away the arrousal.

    For me, it seems like a harder challenge if an intact male fought through the challenges, than removing all choice.

    As you said, to each their own, I just couldn’t help adding a Superman analogy to chastity.
     
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    Well Said. The only constants in relationships are that there are no constants. Have read some stuff about hypnosis but really can't separate the wheat from the chaff.
     
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    It's being kept in a state of denial and arousal that helps to make the power exchange work. Like a permanent state of courtship. I considered and thought about giving them up and also thought things would be more fun with them. To take them away is much more than just living in a FLR. Without them is a whole different psychological mind set and way of life, affecting a lot more than just yourself. Don't know that I could give them up just yet anyway. I know my Bride would not be happy without them to.
     
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    please Mistress, curtsy. To has them all chop off takes ages and ages. you has to go and see a doctor first and then he send you to a clinic and they tells you that you got to have hormone and be a girl for 2 year and then go to hospital and then having them off hurts horrible and its ooh a lot of bother and i dont like hospitals.
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    Or you do your research and get a flight to Mexico where most surgical procedures can be had for the right money. Then it doesn't take too long at all. Or you do the majority of the work yourself and just have it tidied up locally. I've seen a few who managed that quite well.

    I've had a few dreams where I was either in the middle of removing my penis, or had just removed it. I quite like the idea of it, and if I were in a relationship with an active male top then it's something I'd be quite happy with I think.
     
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    Couldn't resist: think that Superman wears a metal device - that's why he's called "Man of steel"! :D:p
     
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    Dont worry pretty girl, I'm sure those who really want this would get good support from everyone concerned. As I said, more fun to have with them intact IMHO.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    Thank You Mistress.
     
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    I'm going to be honest, of someone messaged me saying they wanted to be castrated so the could be chaste I'd suggest they get seek help from a mental health professional.
     
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    all the world's mad except me and thee. But not really too sure about thee....or me!:) One could argue, caging cocks is also another edge case, closely followed by pierced knobs. No judgements from me lolololol:D
     
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    None of that is permanent if you don't want it to be though.

    Castration is closer to amputation. If someone wanted to cut off their arm they would likely end up on a psych ward.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Perhaps a hotter fantasy than penectomy would be orchiectomy (removal of the testicles). Then, the penis would be good for nothing but urination.

    Example: one day I was telling my beautiful wife/KH that the only reason I'd ask to be released was if it hurt so bad that I thought I'd lose a testicle or something. She thought for a second and replied, "They're not really good for anything anymore, are they?" She then laughed and admitted it turned her on. I admitted it turned me on a bit also. She said(with a laugh), "Well, I guess we'll just have them removed someday. You should only be paying attention to my sex organs anyway."
     
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    Well can't deny your logic, but it really doesn't stop some males fantasising about it and some males doing it. But heres the thing; I'm not convinced that it's the actual act of castration that is relevant, more the desire to have a Wife/Mistress/GF/KH who if they were inclined, order them to be removed. More about the capacity to be mean and cruel, rather than the act itself. Power of the mind my friend!
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Absolutely! It's the capacity precisely. That the situation is that you can have them off him at any time if you choose and with no comeback and nothing he can do about it if you do. So he does as he does as he is told or else.:strong::strong::strong::strong::strong:

    But it can meanwhile suit you to leave them where are at least for the time being. Especially as while they are there there are so many things you can do with them by way of discipline to keep him in line( :eek: - :eek: )

    So you've got him every which way.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    So many things you can do with them ( :eek: :eek: )
     
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    well mine are just for show and to keep the cage on now any way .
     
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    It is better to still be intact and being deliciously neglected to utter frustration :kiss::kiss: than to have no arousal anymore.
    Would be game over! :eek:
    Not the path that we (wife and I) desire. :love:
     
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    Very nice post @Mandynjack as a sub who is locked all the time and has recently been told if I disobey my Mistress she has the right to remove her Property. The removal of any arousal could totally change our relationship. I believe she is using this as an Ultimate means of control. It has made me even more obedient to her wishes.

    I think if all hope of some kind of pleasure or maybe an Orgasm was totally removed the phycological change would be to much.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    That IMO makes the ideal basis. Especially if you both know she can remove without any comeback on her, and how. As you say, it's the Ultimate control and made you even more obedient. She's not the only KH has this arrangement with her subbie.
     
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    Maybe this is a correct opportunity to apply the 'instinct rule':
    1. check @Mash2214 history; suspicious? NO
    2. then maybe it might be:
    a) A fantasy posting a fellow member made (no problem there)
    b) A serious posting a fellow member made (and here you have no way of appreciating the rightfulness of the post)

    So @David.2k
    I don't consider @Mash2214 's post considerable for being a not legit post.

    My idea; of course!
     
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    Not criticising your POV, you are entitled as anyone to express it. But heres the thing, what may sound incredulous to you, doesn't mean its not true. Your perspective of a reality, is just that, your perspective. And you may reason that your perspective should be respected and why not! I consider the sex play of others to be their 'thing' and they own that. And if they are generous to share 'their thing' with others, on a site specifically set up to allow like minded to converse and explore, well may be some mutual respect is reasonable? One person's heaven is another's hell and vice versa.
     
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    Thanks for your support. I appreciate it.
     
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    Oh come on man, not worth the time?
    Like not worth the time to fill out your own profile?

    View attachment 15959
    Seriously?
     
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