4 Weeks, 30 days, or All of January?

I’d say the 1st













Day of 2019

 

I’m not locked so please take my advice with a pinch of salt but I say that as you’ve come this far you should at least aim for a complete “dry January”. Once you’ve achieved that as L-u-c-y says you could aim for another month if you judge that the dry January has been of benefit to you//those you are in social contact with, i.e. has improved your life, overall. On the other hand if you think that overall you’d benefit from a release on 1 Feb., go for it! It’s your life. Best wishes.

 

Leave it up to your key holder if you have one

 

I’ve not done a year, but I think you’d do it the same was as you’d eat an elephant

 

I'm somewhat in the same predicament. Self-locked since 1/1 with no specific end date. Originally thought 2/1, but here it is 2/4 and still locked (minus the cleaning and occasional tease). Seems like I might as well continue until I do something that deserves a reward.

 

I tend to agree with a lot of people who have published their opinion on this if this is your first denial period since you found yu could wear the device for week witrhout issues then you should be honest with yourself and your partner. How long do you really think you can do .. your best shot at it... how long?

Double that. Really shows your KH you are serious.

If ever your release date falls on Valentines Day her or your birthday or christmas always tell your KH that you would rather not have your release then as that is a special time which you would rather devote to her pleasure.. its a lot better if you really mean it of course.

 

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I agree with this. Try for another month. Just tell yourself you're halfway there already.

Vicky x

 

I’m half way to 300 days. If I get to 300 I’ll nearly be at a year. If I can go one year then 2 shouldn’t be a problem.......

Chastity is a slippery slide

 

Hey @filltee ,
Funny you should mention the Valentines gesture. I've been locked and denied any O for almost two weeks and my Bride speaks of my next release and orgasm on Valentines Day. I have been desiring and thinking about how nice it would be leaving the cage on and offering her my continued orgasm denial at that time. And of course, I truly mean it. The problem may end up being though, that She really wants me for PIV, and that will be difficult, because She will not take no for an answer, and I will struggle with not letting myself go. But deep down, my desire to make this commitment is truly there, and I hope She will cheerfully accept and willingly want it.

 

I would suggest that you tell her you too would really like PIV but you would still like to try and not orgasm so if she does not mind you would like her permission to withdraw whenever you feel in danger of letting you both down. Becuase you want to make the experience all about her ..and it will be. Then simply do that everytime you feel you are getting close ...withdraw gently and continue with whatever other actions on your part will adequately ( or better) maintain both her interest and enthusiasm. Fingers tongue even toys..whatever floats her boat.. Calm youself down then return to PIV when you feel you a re going to last more than a couple of minutes ... rinse and repeat. in all honesty you can keep this up for literally hours. You will get better at it with practice and If your lady is ok with this and in my experience most if not will get there in time then you make a very pleasent rod for own back, but do get lots of practice. She will usually more often want you do this without any relief for yourself. Personally I love it but some guys might just feel frustrated. Its another case of ..each to their own.