Second Keyholders

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    So we have worked this space previously with Mandy's BFF Di. Di also had her husband in chastity and its been 'you do mine and I'll do yours' arrangement. It was fun for a while, but maybe too local! Plus Di and her hub now have the 'ultimate gift' relationship so have no need for chastity anymore. So, realistically, apart from the rare times that a mutual friend is involved, does the scenario of second key holding really work?
    Mandy and i have discussed this quite a bit recently and when she spends prolonged times at her boyfriend's, She likes to make sure I'm being 'managed'! Not that she doesn't check in, but would like to be able to just enjoy herself without having to revert to our dynamic.
    I am less convinced this has sustainability, plus additional complexity of on-line direction, let alone finding a real Lady who would find this attractive.
    Happy to hear any experiences out there.
     
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    That's the great thing about CM, there are so many different styles and practice's! Makes for interesting reading. A second keyholder, eeek! Our chastity lifestyle is very much our own and not shared (other than via CM). I don't think Mrs Chaste would do that, but who knows! I don't much fancy the idea either. Its great having Mrs Chaste control my penis but I don't want anyone else to! Still if it works for other couples then good for them. Must admit it sounds fun!
     
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    I think my Lady sees it as a safer way to expose our lifestyle to others. Plus it helps share the emotional load for her.
     
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    The what now?
     
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    Various ways of doing this, depending on what you want. One way is to have both keyholders with double lock on both husbands/bfs. Device keys go into lock box. One keyholder has the lock box, other has the lock box keys. So needs both for either of them to get any release. Or use a safety hasp which can be secured by a number of padlocks, so will need more than one key to release. Can be up to 6 or even more!:):)
     
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    An extreme form of chastity, I'll leave you to figure it out.
     
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    As some will already know we have a slightly unusual relationship, as we live (and love) as a trio. Both Janet and I have a key, and we act independently when either of us decide to use it. We agree with @jackcage that it has proved to be a great way of exposing our lifestyle to others, we both wear our keys visibly and to further reinforce the point all of us wear matching wedding rings, though obviously only 2 of us are actually married!

    We all feel that our lifestyle and relationship is to be celebrated, and we are proud of and love each other, so it would be hypocritical to pretend otherwise in public.

    Love
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    It sound like it would be a lot of fun. Something like this box would work great...

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    That would be ideal. Subject to check there are no spare cb keys at large of course!:):):)
     
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    Love the idea of multiple dependent key holders. Release would certainly be limited.
     
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    On my Jailbird I got the ability to have a second lock in addition to the screw lock. Originally I thought of it as a tag holder for fun tags or proof security tags. As a second lock to a second keyholder it’s much more interesting. Would love to hear about anyone who has done something like this.
     
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