No release

I like finding new ways to figure out my lock up duration. My fiance and I played a game last night where I was tied down with a hood on and a dildo gag. She would ride my face and give me a hand job and I was to stop her every time I got on edge. It had already been 2 weeks since my last orgasm, so needless to say I failed miserably.
I only made it to 4 edges before I went over the edge and had a super frustrating ruined orgasm. So for my failure to hold back I automatically got 30 days locked up plus a day for each successful edge. So I don't have a chance at another orgasm until February 26th, which she can deny for as long as she desires.
Additionally I will remain continuously locked until her birthday, February 6th. So absolutely no release from my cage for 13 days. This was determined by a random number generator app.

Usually I can convince her to let me out because of some discomfort and then I tend to stay out for days at a time. This is my first time locked up in about 3 months. We agreed that we want the real deal this time. So we decided I will remain continuously locked (besides a couple minutes once a week for cleaning and the times where she's feeling generous and want to release me for a tease) until our wedding day, which is in the middle of September. So this is going to be a long, frustrating, and fascinatingly pleasurable year for both of us.

I would love to hear some of your stories and ideas on how you set you durations.

 

She is definitely nice to me. But she is still getting used to being cruel to me, which is what I requested when we started. I think she'll get more demanding and strict. I told her my hopes is that some day she makes me regret asking her to deny me. 85 days is a very long time. my longest time denied was about 3 months and I was an achy mess. I long for that feeling again. I told her my goal is to one day make it an entire year with only teasing and prostate milking and very few ruins. I want to be an achy, desperate, sub.

 

We actually spent a few hours today coming up with a long list of punishments to help her decide which punishment I get, so I'm confident I won't get off as easy next time.

 

I want to rush in. I want it all, which is for both of us. I want the rush and the ache of being ruthlessly teased and denied and for her to selfishly want orgasm after orgasm on top of massages and foot rubs and anything else she desires. I want the full Chastity lifestyle.

 

We have this idea as well. We numbered all the punishments and task. We are gonna put a number for each pie slice of the wheel and give it a spin. She can add or change any at that time if she feels like it, that way she still has control.

 

Here's the list we've come up with so far. We are gonna separate them into categories such as tasks, soft and hard punishments. It'll all get fine tuned with time
1. Be naked all day
2. Do chores naked
3. Exercise naked
4. Wear a gag for x amount of time
5. Dress up in an outfit of her choosing
6. Stay in a certain position for x amount of time
7. Spanking
8. Penis Slaps
9. Ball Slaps
10. CBT session
11. Sleep in bondage
12. Bondage somewhere outside
13. Cock and bball e-stim
14. Icy hot on penis/in cage
15. Icy hot on butt plug
16. Icy hot on both
17. Needle wheel on penis and balls
18. Ginger root butt plug
19. Plugger for x amount of time
20. Sleep while plugged
21. Sleep bound and plugged
22. Eat cum
23. No teasing for x amount of days
24. Sit on a chair with a dildo for x amount of time
25. Be used as human furniture
26. Be put in a dog cage or chicken coop
27. She sits on my face while watching a show or something like that
28. Balls tied uncomfortably
29. Run errands while plugged
30. Clothed pins on body
31. Cold showers for x amount of days
32. Wear women's clothing
33. Deepthroat dildo/strap on
34. Dildo attached to bike seat, go for bike ride
35. Jog while plugged
36. Pegging
37. Be a human sex doll/ no moving
38. Naked tasks
39. Predicament bondage
40. Suck on cum ice cubes
41. Suck on pee ice cubes
42. Masturbate and edge in front of her
43. Anal play in front of her
44. Forced breath play
45. Water breath play
46. Find non- sexual items to be used as butt plug
47. Enema
48. Bladder control/ no peeing without permission
49. Bladder bondage/be bound with a full bladder and be forced to hold it until released
50. Be a pet/ walked on a leash
51. Be the girl for the night
52. Forced pee drink
53. Bound outside when it's cold/winter bondage
54. Self bondage task
55. Cock hero task
56. Deepthroat dildo while being pegged
57. Put a smaller ring on my Chastity cage.

I'm open to ideas if anyone has any. I would like to make this list as long as possible.