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    Good afternoon--

    My wife and I are interested in chastity.

    I have looked at numerous devices in all price ranges. I purchased the JB sizing rings to ensure I got the correct size.

    For a first device I did not want to spend $350 to see how much or if we really like it.

    My issue is my size. With rings I am:

    base ring: 2 1/8"
    Circumference ring: 1 3/4"
    Measured length: 2-2 1/2

    Not sure if it matters but when erect I am 7 1/2" long and 6.5" in circumference.

    The only device I can find that would fit me is a top end device.

    Any suggestions?
     
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    Correction: 1 1/2" circumference ring.
     
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    @pinayhubby Measuring yourself is ok but until you are fitted into a cage it's difficult to know the precise fitting. With all the cheap Chinese cages available , it doesn't cost an arm and a leg to just buy and try. The base ring is the key fitting and this should be tight and snug but still reasonably comfortable. Good luck.
     
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    I’d check your circumference again. 6.5” girth divides by pi is 2.07. That is something they can not change. When I’m flaccid I’m 5.5” where my skin bunches up behind my head ( I’m circumcised and a grower) and I’m at 1 3/4 with my measurements.
     
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    Amazon especially if you have prime is the way to go for cheap cages. Both of mine are on Amazon and are under $30, one is the metal one pictured in my avatar and the other is a knockoff holy trainer (which so far I really like).
     
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    Thank you all.

    I ordered one off Amazon. We will play with it for enjoyment and fit.
     
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    Which one did you end up getting?
     
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    The same one you did. It had the largest base ring.
     
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    That was my concern. Though I am not a fisherman I do know I need a bit bigger base ring. Lol.

    The one that was suggested also has a 2” base ring, but I like that the cage is smaller and should fit.

    If we love chastity then I will pop for a Jailbird. I purchased their sizing rings and played with those.
     
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    25643DE4-9EE0-4F55-BDFA-EBCED22148F9.jpeg View attachment 15919 We have been playing with it for a few hours at a time. I know I enjoy it—a cage and panties is fun. Lol.

    No soreness for the limited time. I will sleep with it tonight and see how that goes.
     
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    That looks like the base ring is way too big, it’s hanging halfway down your balls and penis. Hope it works out for ya.
     
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    It seems like most of the pics I have seen look like that. I am able to barely get a finer in under neath the ring-based upon what I have read.

    Please educate me.
     
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    Nicoftime—I did read that article.

    I purchased an off the shelf unit to see if we like do it. If we do, then I will move to a custom.

    Since your comment I have moved to the 1.8” ring. It fits much better, but there is still some slippage just now when I got out of the hot tub.

    I will learn as I go and ask others like yourself who have been down the road.

    Thank you.
     
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    You bet, hot showers and that kind of stuff will make things loose, it’s temporary and adjusts to your body temp again.
     
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    The base ring does look a tad big, early days though.

    Try trimming your pubic hair where the ring sits. I try and not lube the ring at all as this makes the ring and cage more likely to slip. You could also try right underwear especially at night to stop the cage slipping.

    Looks like a great start though!
     
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    You have a good attitude about all this. Keep patient and acclimate yourself to wearing the device.

    You want a comfortable fit. You shouldn’t be in pain. At first it’s hard to judge. But you should be able to wear it under clothes and forget it’s there, eventually. My custom cage becomes a part of me during the day.

    You’ve got a lot there to contain.

    You may want to check out the Adaptus, which is a clever semi-custom offering by MaleChastityNow.com that adds a custom base ring to the Captus, which someone else mentioned above. Besides getting the cage length and diameter right, I found getting a good fitting base ring extremely important for health and comfort.

    With the Adaptus, You can customize the ball gap as well as the ring diameter. Mark, the owner, will also make a top mounted post on the base ring...

    I don’t have an Adaptus I have a fully custom Contender. But the base rings are the same hand-made design.

    I’m squished into my Contender cage but am very sensitive to how much room I have at the base. I started out in a wide 2” base ring with a small ball gap to prevent slipping down. But I ended up in a 1-3/4” ring ovalized to be 1-5/8” by 1-7/8” with a wide 1/2” gap and that top mounted post.

    For me it allowed me to have a shorter cage, but let all that skin have overflow room in front of the base ring, behind the cage. I bulge quite a lot when aroused but I don’t get pinched.

    Not having those two little stabilizing posts on the top is a plus for me. My keyholding wife can press fit an “eager” caged cock down on that post and lock me up without help. With the stabilizing posts I need to provide an extra hand to prevent pinching.

    And for what it’s worth, I ended up getting a PA hook added to my Contender. If that’s in the cards for you, MCN is a good option there too.
     
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    I have moved down to the 1.6" ring. It is tight, but fits location wise much better. It takes lots of lube to get it in place and I can only fit a finger between the ring and my body with lube.

    I can feel it and some pulling sensations--but nothing unpleasant. The only time I had pain was with the smaller ring when I started to get hard. I had some pain at the rear of my cock/testical area--I would not have an issue with it--just un pleasant.

    The cage has a 3/8" gap--this seems tight and has a lot of "spillage". I am not sure if this is due to a too small diameter of the cage, not allowing me to have the movement needed inside the cage (normal expansion/contraction.

    Work in progress that is fun.
     
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    So minor new development--I took my cage off.

    When I got hard--I would feel some discomfort based at the read of my cock and testicals. The discomfort was that feeling men get when the balls are treated too rough--i could feel it in my stomach.

    I took it off cause I was looking at some adult entertainment (bbc sissy cuckold stuff-lol) and my cock tried to get hard. lol

    Then my balls turned blue.

    Now--is what I am feeling and the literal blue balls normal for this? If it is--I don't have an issue--or do I need to change something??
     
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    Having used the same cage as you and having trouble with rings as well. Tighter is not always better. That pain in the base of your balls is what happened to me everytime I got hard for longer than just a second. It's bearable until you get a night time erection then it's super painful. The medium one might work best with containing slipage and pain. I would recommend if you guys decide you like it and want to move forward with chastity looking into the anatomical rings (they are more oval/squarish shape). The holy trainer knockoff I'm wearing is shaped like that and I very rarely am woken up with painful balls in the middle of the night. You would have to get the large size though the standard one does not look like it would fit.
     
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    I learned a lot with the cage.

    First off--the mini pins to prevent rotation--are now called the teeth of satan. I have so many little bite marks from them trying to get the cage on quickly while trying to avoid getting bitten--lol

    I learned a lot about sizing--both needing a smaller base ring than I thought---and i feel a larger diameter cage than I thought.

    It took a tremendous amount of lube to get everything on as painlessly as possible. I will have to look into how to minimize the lube.

    We enjoyed the brief time playing with it.

    I will look into other options to play with the size before we most likely pop for a custom cage with an oval base ring.

    I appreciate the comments and information from everyone. Thank you.
     
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    @pinayhubby I do hope that you eventually find a well fitting cage but may I suggest that you pop your pictures of them in the gallery and then add a link to the picture in your thread. That way will insure that the forums are not inundated with pictures of willys in ill-fitting cages. Thanks :)
     
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    that adaptus looks like one of the ones i suggested, except the real one... i have been looking for that, thanks!
     
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