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Femdomacracy!

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  1. I wish!

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  2. No, quite happy with Wifey/GF/KH/Superior of choice in our own space.

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  3. The first answer really, but She does come in here occasionally.

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    My contentions this; submissive men if given a choice, one wish, without recourse, no strings attached, would want a FEMDOMACRACY! A world where all females were the dominant species and men were their chattels, playthings, slaves. So let's really cut through the BS and be genuine. BTW, clearly aimed at men, please Ladies have your say and vote for what you really think they want. Enjoy it, the world needs debate.
     
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    I think it's far more than a wish, it's becoming a guiding principle, a yearning for a society structured in accordance with female authority and wisdom. It's already happening to a degree. As the patriarchy slowly crumbles, more and more male 'leaders' out themselves as being seriously incompetent and lacking in the cognitive skills required to helm a government. Intelligent empowered women are coming to the fore, which is a happy result for the long-term viability of the planet.

    And then there's the domestic reasons ...
     
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    The world should be ruled on a political level by women without a doubt. Threat level down. Compassion up. Men can be chattels, playthings and slaves now.

    Femocracy Fantasy: A woman could take a number of males, or none, but even if they didn't take any males they would still have full access to the playthings, men who were skilled at lovemaking and pleasing to the eye. Successful women would often have one or two slaves in a close emotional relationship with domestic service and chattels (livestock) might be exes who didn't make the grade either as a lover or a slave. For sale.

    The fear every day for the slaves is they have to tend the livestock and see where they might end up.
     
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    They need our guidance, that's for sure.
    But let's get real: submissive males and dominant women are not the majority of the population, as much that we would want women ruling the world that will always be in the realm of dreams, never to come true.
    I know that the world could be a better place if ruled by women, but women are not perfect, most can be fooled easily and accept to be ruled by the less adapt of the human kind: men.
     
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    The world needs Debate. In my experience with men and women in business it would never work if women were in total control. From my experience when a group of women are running an organization they have great difficulty dealing with each other. From my experience a Fem democracy wouldn't work.
     
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    Madam, just wanted to clear this up. Is the main question here if I would want a world where females are regarded as the higher sex?
     
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    No more wars. Just international “silent treatment”. :)
     
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    When is passive aggressive stomp around the house day where “nothing” is wrong?

    I would like to first see women to actually start voting. It still amazes me that the voter turn out is so low for women. To actually have a more female empowered society/government, would need to start with participation in change.

    The male chattel? Male slaves? Just as wrong as treating women that way. There is a very hot erotic fiction by Anne Rice, claiming of sleeping beauty, that centers around the classes and sexual domination. As hot as the story is, like any fantasy, real life would not be nearly as fun, practical, or even advised.
     
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    It's interesting to see threads such as these pop up. More interesting still is to see how it follows this recent thread of a similar nature and to notice how they've developed rather differently (so far).

    Insofar as I have submissive tendencies, I can relate to the desire for such a society: one where my love could have unfettered and legally enforced control over me and servitude to her comfort and happiness could be my only purpose in life.

    In my view, speaking now more realistically, such a society is not only unrealistic, but also not preferable. There's a lot more to my life than a submission or chastity kink, and being forced to live in such a way that affords me scarcely any freedom would probably not enrich my life.

    I'm fairly confident I'm not the only one who feels this way, so my answer to Mandy's question would have to be a resounding "no."
     
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    I think there would be less wars in the world...
     
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    My FLR is one in which I have an almost equal status as that of my Wife. Almost, but not quite. It is what Elle wants, she wants me to have an opinion and to use my initiative, to be supportive. Submissive, yes, but not weak. She gets the final say, of course, but that doesn’t mean she ignores what I think.

    When someone becomes a chattel or a slave then those elements are no longer available. The strongest relationships are ones in which the partners work together in harmony.

    I do think that men need to be a lot more respectful of each other, let alone women, and I don’t see that happening any time soon. So as far as the world turning towards a female led future becoming a reality I can’t imagine it occurring in my lifetime.

    As for women in charge doing a better job than men, Theresa May? I don’t think so.
     
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    Where ever your mind takes you hunny.
     
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    Less war, peace...reminds me of that scene in Jurassic Park when they are told that the dinosaurs are all female. “We bred them that way, so that they would be more docile” and then the guys looked at each other and smirked in disbelief.

    All joking aside I don’t think men have a monopoly on hostility or irrational behavior. I have stated on a similar thread about chastity in the mainstream being possible though. If it was mainstreamed as a status to be envied or sought after. Someone would need to spearhead the idea, someone global and beyond attack of character...say Oprah or a popular actress or singer. Once it becomes a status symbol, like diamonds, everyone will want to wear a key. That I believe is way more likely than creating a femacrocy. Heck once everyone is locked who knows how decisions might start to change about a lot of things.
     
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    Well this is already very interesting and full of tells! Vanilla rationalisation of a kinky scenario. How rational is the act of male chastity I wonder. What does that say of ourselves?
     
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    I think in response it is good as a fantasy, but real life would be interesting. Perhaps only women would be allowed to be leaders. It could make up for a history where much has been taken from women.
     
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    I think ideas can be powerful enough to change society, when we heard up and follow a leader or an idea, anything is possible.

    A cabbage patch doll was just a doll, Santa and the Norman Rockwell Christmas was a marketing ploy, even our “traditional” wedding rituals are less than a hundred years old. Traditions and expectations can change if pushed by the masses to do so.
     
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    Some male world leaders, naming no names, are as mad as a box of frogs. Some female ones are as mad as badgers! I believe in the best person for the job, but the best boards of directors have diversity of age, gender, ethnicity, etc in other to broaden the skill set beyond the traditional disciplinary roles of finance, production, sales etc.

    When it comes to relationships we are in the "equal but different" camp. Ian is under our control, so I suppose, the sub to our domme, but he is no worse for that, and the success of our relationship is down to our all working with and for each other to maximise personal satisfaction, both sexually and in what passes for real life.

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    Men need our guidance in my opinion,but is femdomacaracy really better?

    I'm not sure, in some areas, I can imagine it very well, but in the 'right' world, the qualificaton of the person should be the deciding factor, whether a man or a woman.
    It woul be fine if Femdomacracy makes the world better,but until now its a dream,i think.But maybe some day......

    So for me and @Bobbisissysub ,we live our Femdomacracy in our relationship.
     
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    My professional experience tells me something like that.
    I work with a group of men and women, almost the same number of each one, they complement each other, ideas flow better, men are more willingly to test new ideas, women are more on the cautious side and mixed together they have better results. I feel that the leadership of a woman in that condition works better than if it was of a man controlling, but I'm talking about a group of high expertise and knowledge, they accept well a woman on command. If the group was of blue collars I don't know if it would work so fine. My experience is limited on that.
    Anyway, total control leads to dictatorship, be it on a woman or man leadership, and dictators are not the best of the possible ways of ruling, be it at home, work or a entire nation.
     
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    Theresa may is a dissapointment when I saw her getting on the anti-russia bandwagon... creating fear in order to controll public opinion....

    But all in all, the world would be a better place with women in charge, most men just have egos out of controll, which is the cause of most suffering in the world....
     
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    Is male chastity rational? I don’t think so. We like having orgasms so why get excited by being denied an orgasm? It makes no sense to me. All I know is I get seriously aroused when my Wife takes control and says no. It makes no sense to my Wife either but she is past worrying about the why and is just having fun with the situation.

    Maybe it is rational to those of us who truly get it and get past the initial fantasy stage. It is after all still about reward. Instead of arousal being rewarded with an orgasm we instead get rewarded with an increase in arousal itself, plus an increase in the sexual exploration instigated by our partners.

    All I know is when my Wife asked me recently if I wanted to stop, after we had a conversation about how I missed being allowed to masturbate, my response was are you crazy?
     
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    She wanted Debate Ha Ha. Most of my experience has been in the blue collar trades ( now yellow) and personally I've worked with a lot of Engineers of both sexes. Some good and some bad. Working together male and female works the best as long as people respect other people's different view points.

    Respect works the best.
     
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    I voted for #2. I know bf doesn't want a Femdomacracy. He submits to me only to please me and help me with my concerns, but it's not full time and he's always made that clear. OK, I can p ut him in chastity for a few weeks here and there and can discipline him when he disobeys My Rules about pornography and masturbation and a few other things, but he made it clear he'd never submit to a FLR or making this a "lifestyle" thing. I've gotten this into as much of our lives together as I think I ever will.

    I'm not sure I'd want bf to submit to me in everything. It's a nice fantasy, here & there, but not to be made a life choice.
     
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    NOTE: I just had to call bf to get the names and to write down how to spell them. Those Greeks had some hard to spell names back then.

    Before we started with Chastity and Discipline, bf took me to see an old Greek play. He's the one with a fancy education (but he chooses to work with his hands). The play was written by someone called "Aristophanes" and the name of the play is "Lysistrate". He says it's about 2500 years old. Anyhow, these women all over Greece decide they're tired of war (at one point, they're even complaining the dildos are no good and they want the real thing--I can sympathize with that when bf's in Chastity, but I MUST be STRONG!). So they cut off their husbands and bfs and even the prostitutes won't let the men have any, which makes the men agree to peace.

    I liked the idea of the Ladies having an major effect like that. My bf told me I can buy the play in a book or he'll buy it for me.

    Sometimes when bf wants to be funny, he'll tell me I'm sitting on my best asset.
     
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    A balanced whole, made up of its parts. None by class or title of gender superior. We make up more by natural cohesion and balance than any form of arbitrary oligarchy.

    Here fantasy and reality do not blend well.
     
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