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    #26 Vicky Locked, Jan 22, 2018
    Thanks. Happy to see so many people living the same things.
     
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    #27 Vicky Locked, Jan 22, 2018
    Thanks. I have a feeling that she is starting to love my mouth more than my cock. My wife is not aware of my love for dressing up and I know for sure that this is a turn off for her. So I will stay in the closet. We have not yet used strap-on and I’m a bit scrare that she might like it. Good luck to you.
     
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    #28 Mistress B, Jan 22, 2018
    @Vicky Locked Better late than never. :) Welcome to the Mansion, enjoy.
     
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    #29 Vicky Locked, Jan 22, 2018
    Yes, so far so good. It’s the first time in the past 3 years that I feel that the lockup’s will become longer and longer. And I think that the breaks will be really short. I kind of love it right now even if i’m so horny.
     
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    #30 Vicky Locked, Jan 22, 2018
    My wife always liked oral stimulation and most of her orgasm comes from this. Most of the time spent is oral and PIV last for a short time. The cage only comes of when it’s time for PIV. So yes, it looks like PIV is slowly fading. I’m not sure how I feel about it yet since I really love PIV but my submissive side takes over and her pleasure become my priority. And lately I know that she is using her vibrator quite often so I think that this is why I stay locked.
     
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    #31 Vicky Locked, Jan 22, 2018
    I’m definitely getting used to my device since it is very comfortable and no, my erections are not. I know that my wife has and his researching regularly on chastity and I’m scared that she might be reading lately on denial and permanent wearing. We do have good communication and we always talked about how happy she is with me wearing my device and all its benefits but we have yet to discuss long term chastity. In the past year she did on purpose denied me a few orgasm and her reason was that she was tired. Its now been 20 days without PIV and this is the first time this happen and its a weird feeling. I did give her oral stimulation last Saturday in our jacuzzi but that is it. I think that we will need to discuss this soon since I would like to know what is her plan.
     
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    #32 filltee, Jan 25, 2018
    Well I always found it to be a sensible thing in the early days to have preset discussion times. Allowing either of you to bring up any subject. Just so you can get things running smoothly without beon gon each others case all the time. Slowly increasing the length of time between each one until you get to point where you can communicate without stress, without appearing to want to run things but know where you both are and some idea of your parameters and for some to even work out what the dynamic of your relationship was, is and where it might be going.
     
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    #33 jemmi, Jan 26, 2018
    Discussions?...lol... its goddess choice..
    I have no say
     
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    #34 SaraLovesChastity, Jan 26, 2018
    It does appear that you are experiencing some apprehension. I do hope that you can work through that and arrive at a place that is suitable for the both of you.

    Personally, I am in accord with @jemmi. As a slave, these choices are made *for* me. However, we do have routine discussions to ensure that both of our needs are being met.

    I wish you the best on your journey.
     
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    #35 Chaste J., Jan 27, 2018
    Yeah, but it IS fun!!! Well we think so.
     
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    #36 Vicky Locked, Jan 27, 2018
    After deep thinking I have decided that no discussion is needed. I have asked for this and knew that there was a good chance that my wife would become more and more strict and demanding with me. The minute I introduced chastity to her I have promised to never complain or ask for release. I can honestly say that my frustration regarding not having an orgasm lately did not last for long. I’m now back to be focused on pleasing my wife and spending my time on chores and being the best chaste husband. I like the way my wife has become more dominant with me. I just need to understand and take it all in that my time wearing my cage and the orgasm denial are under her control more than ever right now.

    I can honestly say that I’m quite happy about everything right now.
     
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    #37 SaraLovesChastity, Jan 27, 2018
    Congratulations, Vicky!

    It sounds like you've really turned the corner and you are embracing your new role and your place serving your wife. It is a wonderful feeling when the control is accepted and the descent into submission begins.
     
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    #38 Vicky Locked, Jan 27, 2018
    I have a question. Should I create my own chastity journal? Or I should continue with updates on this writing?

    I would like to write updates and get all of your most welcome comments, suggestions and opinions.

    Thanks
     
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    #39 SaraLovesChastity, Jan 27, 2018
    A chastity journal is a fantastic idea. It's a wonderful way to chronicle your journey and track the subtle changes happeningto you.

    There is a forum here on CM where you can do that.
     
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    #40 Joan.t, Jan 27, 2018
    Yes, please create your own chastity journal.
     
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