How long have you been married or together?

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    First date was 12/19/2008...married in 2010. Will be 8 years this may. Started playing with chastity some around two years ago solo and introduced my wife to it a couple months later. Still a work in progress.
     
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    We are together for about 6 years.
    Chastity was part of our relationship right from the beginning as we both have been into some kind of BDSM before. Deciding to (slowly !!) start a FLR right from the beginning it's been only logical to include chastity as well as it's been something we both had been in contact with before.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    I have never been married to my sub at all. We were together for a year or so though long ago and for that period we were more or less vanilla. When I became his KH he had been as ex for quite a time.
     
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    16 years together married 10
     
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    We've been married 17 years and together 20 femdom from the beginning. I'm a full time house hubby and we just began the chastity journey at Christmas. Wife got me a holy trainer for Christmas. It really has made me even more docile and willing to serve as each day goes by.
     
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    Married 21 years and more in love every year been playing with chastity for quite some time but the last two years serious no release or time out for me any more .my wife likes me to cum only from anal stimulation
    Never been happier and sex life is great like I said more in love every year
     
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    Dated for five years, married 4 months. In chastity for 3.5 months. Was out shopping at a "store". Seen a cage in the display shelf. She thought it was pretty and thought it would look nice on me. It does and I have to admit it's made our relationship better.
     
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    Married for 13 years, playing more consistently with chastity for the last three years or so.
     
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    El Guapo Ladies First.

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    My wife & I got together in '93 & married in '99.
    So ... lemme do the math on that ... 25 years.
    I was the one that brought TND to the relationship.
    She like to play at it while I wanted the lifestyle.
    We found a very happy medium.
     
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    madamsboy Looking for a special female

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    we've been married 20 years, been playing with chastity on and off since about 08. recently started getting back into it. she currently has a boyfriend on the side.
     
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    Dated 2 yaers,15 years married.
    I explored BDSM for 25 years and narrowed my scope to chastity.
    Started solo and gradually introduced my vanilla wife.
    It has been taken a while, but now I'm under her control :)
     
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    Married 30 years
     
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    We’ve been together 24 years and it’s our 19th wedding anniversary coming up in a few weeks
     
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    Married for 40 yrs. In Chastity for the last 1 1/2 yrs.. A great change in our lives.
     
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    7 together years before marriage. then married for 24. 10 years in started playing around with chastity. Got more serious about 5 years later. So it's been a long time now.
     
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    Ha I just realized I neve said how long my mistress and I have been together. We've been married just over 7 years and we're together 6 years before that. She is an incredible and beautiful woman, I'm so glad she chose me :)
     
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    And locked for 3 years.
     
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    Began dating 20 years ago, been married for 16 years.
     
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    Surrendered to Bec Property of Bec. SLRN 281-606-394

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    Bec and I started dating in highschool.. 26 years ago. We've been married for just over 22 years now.
     
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    My wife and I have been together for 36 years married for 32 It was kind of a cooperative interest in the lifestyle you could say
     
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    Started dating in High School, Been married 47 years.
     
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    We have been married for 15 years and we are very happy together. Chastity was my idea (as it seems to be with most folks here). I feel naked when unlocked, but my KH is very passive about the whole thing. I am hoping that will change for the better.
     
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    Happily married for the past 5 years, which isn't bad out of the 34 years we've actually been married! The last 5 have been the happiest, since we became honest with each other and found that an FLR was for us!
     
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    Married 26 years. I introduced chastity to my beautiful wife 2 years ago. Mixed results so far. I bought and started wearing a new metal cage (had a cb6000 previously). She seems much more intrigued by this one so I’m cautiously optimistic that she will be much more engaged moving forward.
     
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    Been together 32 years, married 22. Began chastity last year off and on. Still getting our footing. I discovered it one day surfing the net, looked at some stuff on tease and denial and saw mention of chastity cages. Intrigued me, so I ordered a knock off cb6000s. Put it on while wife was at work and surprised her when she got home. She, of course, thought I was crazy but we fooled around then she had me take it off and we finished. Since then it's been off and on at her request. Longest has been 18 days without an orgasm. Am locked again now for the last week, with no talk of release.
     
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