Oh boy here we go.... I don't know why but at 13 or 14 I started tying myself up. I saw shows and movies that had people-girls especially in bondage and I was interested. I started with belts and straps from my school bookbag. I did some rope but got caught in a hogtie using lassos that I almost didn't get out of. I had my first orgasm hogtied with a belt at wrists and ankles connected with my shoulder strap from my bookbag wearing a t-shirt and underwear. I bound myself in the bathroom and was going to inch my way all the way into my bedroom. Those little tiles on the floor did something to me down there and all of a sudden I started bucking around out of control and there was something new and wet down there. Back in the 70's there wasn't much to do but use what was around and I did. Moving forward a bit I happened to be looking at a Penthouse magazine and saw an ad for a sister publication called Variations. I was living on my own and had a PO box so after purchasing a few off the shelf I subscribed. A whole new world made itself known as I read of others with unique interests like mine. In Variations I discovered a company called Centurian and my collection of bondage toys began; mostly leather. Being by myself I had to buy things that I could use myself but I still had lots of fun. Each year I would buy catalogs and wait for the end of year Annual Sale and then buy a large enough quantity to get a good discount. My trunk locker was filling up. I didn't have much luck meeting girls so I joined a dating service and met my wife. At the time we were both virgins and after I dated her a while I introduced her to bondage by having her tighten up a belt around my wrists. This started a fun activity for us both. She would tie and tease my with my leather toys but we never got naked. She would bind my wrists behind me, install a ball gag and take me for a walk at night with a collar and leash. Noone ever saw us. Sometimes we would go parking in my car and she would handcuff my hands to the steering wheel. I was in heaven. We have been married almost 27 years. We took care of that sex thing after marriage and I'm pretty sure my 2nd child was conceived with me spreadeagled on the bed in a neck-wrist spreader bar,ankles in a spreader bar, and a tight leather gag. Moving ahead to 1998 I finally got an Internet capable computer and more fun began. A whole new collection of places to shop!! I currently use: Extreme Restraints, Sub Shop, Discount Handcuff Warehouse, JT's Stockroom,Martin's Rigidcuffs, SM Factory, and Locked In Steel. One day during cruising the Net I somehow ended up at Altairboy's (chastity) website. I thought my pants were going to be torn I got so hard. I had previous experience with cock rings and such down there so I had no problem moving into a CB2000, then the CB3000 cage, and finally (so far) the Exobelt X1. I either get locked up from Friday afternoon till Sunday afternoon if not working or I do a week long chastity stay at home vacation. For some reason other than being lusty all the time chastity makes me want to be bound for some reason. Maybe my body wants to be restrained like the male part down there. Mrs Keyholder likes the game too. She gets my attention; no problem since I'm an animal. I like all natural Viagra, hehe. I enjoy bondage and gaggage. My recently purchased toys are a Sensory Deprivation Hood, a MEO Self Bondage (ice) Time Lock, the SM Factory wrist bracelets I'm wearing now (without the rings), Clejuso middle weight handcuffs with 10" solid bar between, purple denim straightjacket, Martin's Neck and wrist stock, Martin Rigid Fiddle, Martin spreader bar for wrists and/or ankles. A gaggle of Darby type cuffs that started with me just looking for a Darby collar. Also a nice set of Fist Mitts the Mrs likes for some reason. I've accumulated thousands of dollars worth of toys during my 37 years in this hobby. My trunk locker in the closet, my top drawer full of cuffs, and a pile under the bed. Have to wait for the kids (2) to move out before a dungeon comes next. Right now I enjoy bondage in the bedroom, cellar, and garage (love those tinted windows-I look out but noone can see in). My body build down there is compact- high and tight as the chastity sites say. Getting into a chastity device for me is sometimes difficult so this winter and spring I worked mucho overtime and bankrolled and am now awaiting my Locked In Steel (real) chastity belt. Hopefully I will be in chastity more often not being concerned with a ring of any type. I find bondage to be extremely relaxing and fun. I don't drink or do drugs. I don't know why bondage hits that special subspace and lust switch in my brain and I don't care. I actually feel sorry for vanilla people as they're in more bondage than I. I am free to do what I want. I enjoy unique people. Vanilla people are boring and predictable. Oh well........ My saying is" During the Course of Your Life don't forget your Fun'N Games......."
Hello, and Welcome to Chastity Mansion ! Your early years sound a lot like mine. In fact, based on your timeline, I believe we're the same age. I also remember reading the "letters" in Penthouse magazine, and tearing out the kinkier ones. What a revelation they were for me. I wasn't the only one after all. lol I recall wishing there were more kinky letters in each issue. Or better yet, all kinky letters ! Then came Variations. A dream cum true. And what a shock the Centurians catalogs were. I didn't purchase from them until many years later, because, as you said, I learned to make do with what was available laying around, and then began to make my own equipment. Well I could go on and on, but nobody wants that. Thanks for the trip down memory lane. Kinkish1
Hummmmm.....I think alot of us are going to be showing our age with this post LOL My hubbie and I started with those Variations magazines years ago also. What fun stories they always had, I would always look at the table of contents first, scanning for a story of bondage!! Loved that book! We had an adult toy store in town but I would always send hubbie to check out a new toy here and there, I wouldnt be caught dead in one of those stores back then. Now, thankfully, I can buy to My hearts content...Online Mistress Michelle
Welcome! Dolly remembers those magazines too, including one called Bondage Life. Those were interesting days, and dolly began in bondage too! You have a terrific guilt-free philosophy of life, though maybe the only ones who would understand are the ones on sites like this. What confusion and head-scratching would ensue if your trunks of hobby stuff were discovered! It's wonderful to have found a fellow traveler in your wife. Welcome! Curtsey, dollyanne
Thanks for the replies. Didn't mean to make us feel old. I think the point was that bondage and chastity fun was just a natural thing that happened. Yup, I have a bunch of Harmony magazines. They were quality stuff with great articles in the Pre-Net days.oh:
Awesome introduction Richie. I like how you get high on kink (more specifically, bondage) instead of drugs and other things. Maybe we wouldn't have to build that fence between us and Mexico if there were more people like you. Have a great day! ~*jamie*~
Hi Jamie, Thanks for the nice reply. I think I'll find a different place here or start a thread of how my weekend chastity ended yesterday. Still a bit new here as this place has more features than the other forums I frequent. I also now have decent batteries in that crazy digital camera so maybe I'll start some pictures of my scenes. My face is usually buried in a gag and blindfold or hood of some type so what the heck. Very nice and fun people here I would say. Rich...........
Richie... welcome! I love your intro post, its really put me back in the mood for a bit of action just because it's so obvious that you are comfortable with the "real you" and your wife is the same. What a wonderful couple, I'm so pleased you found us.