Hi, New member, so posting my first message to say hello. I’ve joined the site to get advice / encouragement on incorporating long(ish) term chastity belt wearing in an otherwise vanilla relationship, and to share some of my experiences along the way. I currently have a Behind Barz belt, which I will write a review of shortly. Best wishes Houdini
Welcome and enjoy. BehindBarz is also a member here and there is a subforum specifically on the BehindBarz belts. Worth also exploring the new forum on chastity in vanilla relationships. Does your other half of yours hold your keys? Best wishes
Thank you for the welcomes. Haha, not exactly - without the key to my Behind Barz belt there is no escape! Thank you, will have a look at those forums. Yes, my wife has the keys. Typically locked Monday to Friday, which is a good start. She seems to like having me locked during the week, but I think she’d let me out if I asked. Need to work on that
Easy. Kitchensafe. Can make keys inaccessible for any period up to 10 days max, more if the batteries are taken out! And if she gets two of them, and a separate lock for one of the ones you have so it now needs two separate keys to unlock you..............all sorts of possibilities. But it's what she wants that should decide. You do not need to be topping from the bottom.
I’ve got a couple of emergency keys locked away in a similar way. One in a mastersafe lockbox - a photo of the combination is stored in the Photo timelock app on my phone. It’s on a 100 day countdown (extendable) and my wife has the PIN. The other one is locked with a masterlock Bluetooth padlock. Again my wife controls the padlock with her phone. The main key my wife hides and gives to me when she wants me to lock or unlock my belt.
Looks an excellent setup to me. IMO she should join CM! Seems to me only uncertainty you have is whether if you asked for release midweek she'd agree or deny. Various ways round this one. Something in writing probably the best one.
Great Name it will be good to see how you get on, just take it slowly and build up gradually it is a marathon not a sprint. Enjoy.
Would be nice to get her on here, but probably too soon to suggest it just yet. Could be a lot of fun if she got talking to some other female key holders!
Thanks for the welcome. Locked since August! I think you might be able to offer me some advice. My review will be up shortly - would love to hear your thoughts on an issue I’m having.
Was just my thought. Why not just mention to her you've joined? And tell her your user name here. No more just now, She can then look around as a Guest first if she like. And decide for herself.
Thanks for a great belt - I owe a lot to you! Good point on taking it slowly. I’ve made a slight change to my review I’m putting up shortly