W/who here already now that they will not be un-locked for Christmas or New Years this year? Mistress Sage laughed yesterday when Her slave asked Her the question about being un-locked for the holidays and after She stopped laughing She told it: "Maybe next Christmas"
I know that Ian will definitely be locked up for the twelve days of Christmas. My g/f, who has ownership and control of the other key, suggested the idea last night. Ian will not find out till around midnight on the 24th. It will be a change as we don't go for preset lock up periods. We now have a bit of time to construct the list of things "our true love does to/for us" in line with the song (suggestions welcome!). Our idea is the printed list will be pinned on the wall and we will both award marks based on performance. The higher the marks the better his prize, which is also as yet undetermined.
I have already been informed by my wife that that will not happen. She is very hardcore about keeping me locked up.
I hadn't been locked for a while, and then my wife decided to lock me back up yesterday morning. I asked her just now if she was planning to release me for Christmas and she laughed in my face. I'm guessing not...
Don't know yet. My Miss stopped offering suggested unlock dates some time ago. When she wants it unlocked she tells me at that moment and it gets unlocked. Otherwise, it stays locked. Holidays seldom play a role regarding getting unlocked or not. Usually stay locked thru most major holidays as Miss needs me on top of my game, helping in kitchen, to keep up with daily house work, looking after our guests, etc... My Birthday seems to get the most consideration so far.
What are my chances of being unlocked for Christmas. Let me put it this way. My chances are about as good as the temperature being warm enough to be outside with nothing else on but my cage. The odds of that are 0%. Christmas in Canada is always a White Christmas ( or Red )
My Mistress has allowed me to be unlocked over Christmas, family reasons, but I am not sure if it will be a blessing or a curse.....I will have to use every bit of will power not to touch "her" property!
Seriously over 5 years.....I presume you are let out for cleaning.....any relief at all, ruined or not?
it does not get un-locked nor does it need to be for cleaning as it is locked in a Mature Metal Jailbird which is an open cage design. it is not permitted any personal sexual relief of any kind, however, it is un-locked for only medical exams that require x-rays to be taken and for a surgery it had this past August. it is immediately locked again after exams and upon its return home after surgery.
Not gonna lie, totally trying to bribe my wife for Christmas for an orgasm - bought her a pair of louboutin shoes to surprise her with in hopes it will happen lol
I'm sorry but I don't understand " Family Reasons " unless your playing strip poker, sleeping with family or nude swimming. Why does your cage have to be removed? I've been around family and hundreds of other people in public for years while locked and no one has ever reached out and touched my package or even suspected that I'm wearing a chastity cage. If your cage fits properly and is sized correctly it not nearly as noticeable as you may think. If you could explain this more it would be appreciated. Thanks
That's the beauty of open cages, they don't need to be unlocked! No way will I be unlocked over christmas, or anytime soon. Only Mrs Chaste will be cumming over the festive season.
Different strokes for different strokes. For some there is too much going on in their head when in the cage and the break is needed. If the relationship or sexual dynamic needs a break or change, then it should come off along with whatever other elements need to be paused for the moment. This can be in the mindset of the cager, cagee, or both. We ourselves play in this manner often together and the issue is not about the mechanics of the cage or its visibility. Quite obviously this isn't the case for all.