The essence of our female-controlled marriage is a complete power exchange. My wife has taken away all of the traditional male tasks and assigned to me all of the women's tasks, while she also is emasculating and feminizing me. Is anyone else living this way? If so, how has it been working out?
If she's taken away all the so called Male tasks. Who's doing them? As ore relationship has developed I've been given the responsibility of doing almost all of the female tasks as well as the male tasks, I also spend a lot of time serving my Wife/Mistress. Our relationship has been working Very Well. I will add that it has taken some time we didn't just wake up one morning and everything was changed. My Mistress hasn't emasculated or feminized me very much yet. My pubic area is shaved clean and I only wear panties, she has had me wear a Bra on a few ocations but that's as far as its gone so far. My cage doesn't get removed unless she wants it removed which isn't very often. I think that communicating with each other and having a strong loving relationship even without chastity has made a huge difference in our Success.
My wife is doing all of the male tasks, which she enjoys. I've always enjoyed performing women's tasks, so it works nicely. I am completely submissive to her, particularly in the bedroom, where she pegs me daily for an hour. I'm very happy with our arrangement and wish that we had adopted it from the beginning of our marriage.
Sounds Great. The words Male tasks or Female tasks are more for society that needs to be told everything they need to think or do. We're not the Normal people in society. Being happy in your relationship is by far more important. Thanks for your Responce.
If you'd asked my wife and me years ago, we would have told you that I was the dominant partner. But I come from a family with a long history of submissive males and dominant women and the role feels natural and comfortable to me. The more submissive I become, the more dominant my wife becomes. It is a lovely journey.
i am sort of offended that the concept that certain chores are better suited for one sex or the other. does that mean cooking and cleaning is a female chore. he was a far better cook than i when we met and still is. women are better with kids? actually he is much better than i am with kids. always was. we do our chores together. yard work, farm chores, gardening, house cleaning and shopping i have yet to find a chore the neither one of us can't do. he even breast fed the baby.( never the midnight feeding)
Depends on the household, I suppose. In ours, my wife took over all men's tasks as we have defined them and assigned me the women's tasks.
The way it has worked with us in the beginning is we shared all house hold duties or tasks from cleaning, cooking, laundry, yard and everything in between. But since we have been working in a FLR I have more on my plate then I use to I still do a lot of the heavy stuff but food shopping laundry and vacuuming dusting etc. Has now been turned over to me and yes doing more has its ups and downs and stress is up a bit but I think thats why we are who we are not every guy can say there cocks in a cage and only comes out to play when the wife wants. Its what makes us get up in the morning to be at our Mistress/Wifes beck and call and to serve the one we love in any way we can.
I do all of the household chores and, since I get to do them dressed in lingerie, at a minimum, I really don't mind at all. It just feels so feminine to strut around the house in heels and a housedress or skirt. I love it.
Sorry, Miss, I meant to say "doing all of the dusting, vacuuming, laundry, and cooking while being dressed and madeup as Donna." There's just something about the clicking of the heels on the hardwood floors that makes me enjoy the "strutting" aspect.
I agree. IMO it is for Dominants to decide what they want their subs to do and what they want to do themselves. Situations vary.
So how is that submissive if you're doing what you want? Wouldn't it be more submissive to do the male tasks?
The submission is in doing what your wife tells you to do. Enjoying -- or not enjoying -- is beside the point.