My kh seems to only want to perform teasing and sexual activities revolving around my kinks. I want to just serve her in a truly non sexual manner, be her servant, but she insists on trying to gratify me. I enjoy many activities, why does she think I want her to try and make me happy with my kinky interests? She has turned simply serving in a totally non sexual way into something dirty and both enjoy. All I want is for it to return to me buying her things, providing labor, donations to her causes, without any kink, sexuality, or intimacy. I just can’t stand being bullied into all this. How do you get her to stop?
I know. It's so difficult, having to deal with all the 'fulfilling your kinks, keeping you horny, teasing and denying' all the time. Sometimes we just want to vacuum the floor in peace, dammit!
Maybe I just need to Send her to a pro domme to teach her to keep it all about service and my pocketbook.
Thank you @Nicftime for pointing out how tough it can be for those of us who truly just want to serve! It’s such a relief to know that I am not the only other here that isn’t just in this for some sick sexual thrill...
In fact I had not...I was going to ask here how to introduce the idea to her. Was going to start off by telling her every aspect she knew about me being a fairly sexual person was a lie, I had already bought her a knitting kit...perhaps I will give it to her on Valentine’s Day so it’s special for her.
Just don't try and force it on her. Why not browse some sweaters onlune and tell her you'd just love to have a sweater made for you by her. Be careful what you wish for!.
Thank you I will try to slow down, it’s just that I’m so eager for her to quit enjoying herself that I want it all right away. I know...I need to take my time. Be careful indeed, in time we might permanently both not be enjoying ourselves...and have a closet full of sweaters.