Helping your wife/Partner at home with the household jobs.

Yes, I do all shopping and prepare almost all meals. It is my responsibility to keep the Kitchen clean regardless of who cooks. I bring my wife her coffee each weekday morning at 6:30 and breakfast in bed on the weekends at 8:00 unless instructed otherwise. I make the bed every morning and I'm supposed to do all the laundry, but in reality I'm probably at about 80%. I'm also responsible to see her water bottle is filled daily with a slice of lemon or lime. I take care of waking the kids, feeding them and getting lunches and snacks ready. We don't iron, I send my aloha shirts to the dry cleaners. We have a house cleaner and yard crew that both come every 2 weeks, so I have help on that front. Her only real "chore" is driving the kids around and doing some general clean-up or straightening up around the house.

 

I define helping if you are doing something she normally does , so it’s one less things she must do.

We haven’t written down anything but I clean the bathroom I use, she cleans hers...if I were to “help” I would clean hers as well.

 

Loaded question!

 

No I do not Help my wife with the household chores. I do them. The one household chore that I don't do is laundry.

A few years ago I use to help with household chores and laundry, than one day our washing machine broke down again and she asked me if I could fix it. I could have fixed it, I am very hand that way. I told her "No " I'm not fixing it. She gave me a stern Look which I responded by saying " let's go shopping ". At the appliance store I simply said "Pick the one you want " and to this day I don't even know how to turn the new high tech thing on.

I do everything else around the house because I'm home more than she is , it also makes her happy when I do these things and I Like it when she's Happy.

Does that kinda answer your question

 

I try to do more but I know it's not enough, she's in control and I'm her gofer.

 

Another phrase I dislike is I babysit my kids...your a dad, it’s just called being home with them.

 

Yes I help out with all domestic tasks . It has now gotten to the point where I do most of the cooking . Most of the supermarket shopping and do a lot of the laundry . I’ve never been asked to do it , it’s not a condition of chastity as my wife tolerates my chastity but doesn’t really have much interest in it . I do it because I love her am am happy to do it , that way she gets to kick back and chill out . Being naturally submissive and interested in femdom I guess it’s just come natural to me .

 

Yes I do. We share that work as much as we can. Doing it together is always the nicest way to do it.

 

I try to be the very best wife I can be. There is no discussion of helping, I simply do all those things that my wife used to do when we were first married. She doesn't like to shop, cook or clean, so I do them. I like doing the laundry, and do it pretty well. If I fall behind on doing the dishes she helps me with them. I don't yet bake, but I'm learning to sew.

 

I do everything but that's just fair as I am out of work and have been for a couple of years due to various personal problems. When I do go back I'll still do the majority if not all of the chores, we used to have a plan for what gets done every day and what needs done on various days of the week, I'm sure that'll be coming back.

 

I don't know if I would call what I do "helping" her. It's more like she tries to help me. I do almost all of the housework. It really has nothing to do with femdom or FLR, I just get things done faster and better than she does and I find it 100x easier to just do it all myself. She does usually manage to get a few loads of laundry done, but even then I still do most of the laundry (with a household of 7, we do a TON of laundry).

 

When I get to look after my Grandson. To me I'm not babysitting him I'm having the priveledge being Grandpa. I totally agree with you

 

Ebb and flow. I try and do as much as possible but when I start slipping she picks up my slack and vice versa.

Luckily our kids are getting old enough that we are able to have them do things, taking (albiet a small amount) of the day to day house work.


Adulting is hard.

 

yes i do and its my job and as well on a Saturday nite i babysit so Mistress friend Sarah who is a single mom can go out for a bit.

 

Here, my wife works and I do all of the household chores. I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, wood chopping, grass cutting, everything. I have tea ready for her when she gets home, park her car under the carport and tend to any need she has. I do everything I can to make sure she never has to lift a finger around here other than her work.

My wife works very hard and should never have to worry about the house. It would be very tough to me to do all that I do if I had to work though.

 

yes i don't think i cud do all i do if i had to go out and do more work as well.

 

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Yeah, it keeps me busy and off the streets. lol I love shopping and cooking fun meals.

 

We have evloved over the years. When the kids where small my queen work part time. I worked full time plus on call, which could mean 80 hours a week some weeks. She did all the house hold things. I was hardly home. At this stage don't like any outdoor tasks. My wife does the mowing and meases with horses. I shop, cook, do laundry and clean somwhat. We end up sharing the cleaning alot.
Our life just works for us this way with or without chasity or flr..
It's the other things like packing her lunch, getting her wine, making her poporn that I consider at her thing that I do and those are to show submission. She a doer so atfirst it was hard for her to have me do those kinds of things for her, but she enjoys it's now. She rarely picks up her plate or dirty cups even to dump them in the sink. I clean up behind her. It a good reminder of who the boss is.

 

Steve-O is right, this was a trick question and I see your point. What has developed for us is that I have taken over much of the day to day responsibilities my wife used to do in order to provide her more leisure time. I don't see it really as helping her as much as serving her. We both work from home and the other day she texted me a breakfast order and expected it to be ready when she walked in the door. I love watching her sit and read a book or newspaper while I'm toiling away. I feel like I've provided her something special.

 

At our place everyone does his part with parts varying a lot. Beeing on business trips for 1-2 weeks on a regular basis it's hard to do any housework.
Beeing at home however most of the chores are mine as i have home office and it is therefore easier for me to arrange my time around them.

 

I suppose I'm lucky that I wasn't raised to view 'housework' as solely a woman's responsibility. I was shocked to learn, as an adult, that there are grown men who have never done a single load of laundry. I had a friend in college that I admired until I found out that he brought his dirty clothes to his mother every couple of weeks for her to wash for him because he wouldn't do it on his own. That just seemed so pathetic and I lost a lot of respect for him, if not all. Like, dude, does she wipe your ass for you, too? It's laundry, not fuckin' sorcery!

I don't help my wife because it's not her sole responsibility in the first place, it's a mutual effort. And in fact, much like @Shepherdsflock , I do nearly everything, nearly always. I have never viewed it as helping her and she's never felt guilty for 'not fulfilling her womanly duties' or whatever.

 

Until recently, the first one to arrive home would do his/her utmost best to finish all the jobs before the other would arrive. Some rough years affected this too, but we're back to where we came from. After 22 years, the first one still opens the door while dancing for the other upon arrival.