Practical uses of chastity

Don't know if this helps but I was very much the alpha before chastity, now I am not as aggressive when debating everyday tasks / chores. so Taming behavioral tendencies / traits is the biggest for me.

 

Also if i may say, it helps ensure that the toilet seat is left down.

 

(1) can be considered a subset of (2).

 

Surely 1 through 4 are sexual?

5 to 7 seem manipulative which you've had issues with in other threads.

 

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I would say that non sexual benefits are those things that might include discussions of or limitations of sex, but not any actual sex of any type. So nothing that causes arousal as it's objective. For instance I give my Wife foot soaks and massages. Before chastity they were just her feet. Now they are definitely objects of desire. Therefore the benefit from chastity is a redirection of my desire away from sex as a goal towards a more holistic approach to my Wife's desires. It is a redirection of getting aroused by pornography and other women to a point where my Wife is all the fantasy I can cope with let alone desire.

For my Wife it has given her a safe space that actually lets sex be more likely. Before I was in chastity she would dread and avoid having cuddles knowing that I would probably get the wrong idea and want to take things further. Now she can relax and have those cuddles. As a side effect she then is more likely to take things further as she is the one deciding the pace and direction of what we do.

This safe space also includes somewhere where she can discuss the sexual politics of our relationship. Before my chastity we never talked about sex. Now we do. Not regularly, but with confidence and candor. It has improved our relationship hugely.

 

How about dressing male up as a human puppy and take him to the local spay clinic for neutering ? Not being nasty

 

- chastity humbles the male
- chastity denies unnecessary and unsightly disgusting erections
- ect ect, lol

 

I think these are all true!

However, don't 5-7 segue into FLR? And perhaps they need the rider, "more than is reasonable". For example, men should do our share of chores anyway, but chastity somehow nudges us toward being attentive to detail, and ready to leap into action.

The other things I'd add are all Chastity with FLR, for example "Helps with weightloss."

 

If I can add a drawback of chastity, the lack of sex means I have to find an alternative time to think up my mental shopping list!

 

Not chastity itself so much but

Certainly the wearing of a device gives frequent daily reminders that you are locked & are being denied ... both who by and who for.

 

2a might be "stops male from watching pornography". I don't like it when he looks at pornography. He gets spanked for it and often gets chastity for it, too. He says looking at pornography while he's locked up only makes it worse, so he doesn't.

It's had a practical use for me in that it's boosted my self-confidence and self-esteem, although I have to admit that dressing him and spanking him have helped in that, too. When he's dressed, he's very submissive to me.

My bf says its still better for him to be standing up when he pees. It's his house, so I haven't been able to get him to put the seat down under usual circumstances. I did get him to agree he has to put the seat down when he's in chastity or under discipline. If he forgets, it's panties down and across my lap. I did give him a caning once for it. I don't use the cane much since I'm afraid I'll draw blood and that's an Absolute Red Light Stop for him. i had a couple of pro Dommes who have clients in my hotel show me how to do it without drawing blood and I haven't made him bleed, yet, but I notice I have to give him at least a week with no physical discipline to his bare bottom after a caning.