Ratio's of your wife or girlfriend's orgasms to yours!

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    What was the ratio of your wife or girlfriend's orgasms to yours when you first started and what is it now? How many days or months does it take your wife to reach that magic number now?
     
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    It was never about our number of orgasms. It has always been about giving pleasure to each other. However since I have a high libido while my wife does not, plus I masturbated almost daily while she did so 2-3 times month, and that when our girlfriend was living with us or visiting, I would get two orgasms minimum while my wife usually was done after her first orgasm. She gets satisfied very easily. Some days I would orgasm with my girlfriend, our girlfriend, my wife and still masturbate when I went to bed. Thank goodness for Viagra.
     
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    I was looking to see what others have experienced. It appears that you are not locked up if you have that many orgasms. Chastity is different for everybody however a minimum of 2:1 to as high as 100:1 shows a serious player in chastity.
     
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    I'd read up more on Vinny if that's your conclusion. He's been in this lifestyle for quite a while and is very much serious.

    Also, I don't mean to be rude but I don't know if any of us have the authority to say what serious chastity is and isn't, especially based off of a single metric. Your definition assumes that a woman wants to have orgasms regularly. If for some reason my GF only wanted one orgasm per year (hypothetical) and our ratio was 1:2(me having 2 per year) while someone else's gf wanted 5 orgasms/day and their ratio was 5:1(them having 365 per year), are they more serious than I am?

    I admire your desire to objectively and numerically look at chastity, but I think there is a nuance that numbers alone can't show.
     
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    My ex and I really didn't look at it that way. When we first got intimate I asked her what the most orgasms she had in a day and she said three. Being a bit ... well confident, I laughed. I then proceeded to worship her until she lost count. Now she can honestly say she has no idea how many orgasms she's had at one time but it's a very large number.

    She grew to enjoy me pleasing her until she was spent and exhausted (in a good way) by it.

    On the other side she grew to enjoy strap on sex more and more so the amount of orgasms I got was approaching zero as I wasn't allowed to masturbate and I was becoming the primary reactive partner.

    So the ratio was well over 100 to 1 to start then was more than 700 to 1 when we broke up as I got about 1 orgasm a week.

    One thing that frustrated her was that she was never able to milk me. Even having her female lover who was a Domme and who had milked me several times show her, she couldn't get it. Had she. I'm pretty certain I would have been denied all orgasms which would have made the ratio out of whack as you can't divide by a zero! Lol
     
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    Very good way to explain it. Time between your orgasms is also a consideration, not just the ratio
     
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    So true
    It's why believe it or not, some of us don't like to ocrgasm. The crash and loss of desire after cumming makes us basically useless. It's why I prefer to be milked for my rxeleases. It's also why my ex only let me cum when we were near the end of a session. I was only allowed to cum in her, and then made to worship her again. I'd have to clean her and bring her to a few more orgasms to finish things. It worked very well for us.
     
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    If I had to put a ratio to it it would have to be somewhere between

    50-1
    25-1

    That would be about me once a month and her o's of once or twice a day give or take a few days off for her visitor to come and go.

    Have never kept track of hers, but it's about daily and sometimes gets more than one...one clitoral and the other vaginal after she's warmed up.

    Unlike others, we had always had lots of sex, even before chastity we went at it every night. She has the highest sex drive I have ever been with.
     
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    about 4:1 for us so far. (just over a month). During that time, she's cum about 20 times to my 5, 4 of which were PIV, and one was from me masturbating while she watched. She still loves PIV sex, and I am well-endowed, so she will not give up PIV with me. (at least not yet!)
     
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    We haven't played since June but the count at that time was 241:3
     
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    A lot VS very little ;)
     
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    I'm on about 4:1 at the moment. Nothing too extreme.

    So she was getting 700 orgasms a week? Hmmm.
     
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    For Us I would say it is about 100 orgasms for Her for 1 of mine.....approximately.
     
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    I had no idea that there were so many nymphomaniacs around.
     
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    Some weeks much more. Some less. But yes it wasn't uncommon for her to say she had a hundred or more a session. And often 50 or more was Not hard to do. often I'd worship her in the morning and at night so 100 wasn't hard to do.

    Btw I've never understood how women count them that high but I'll take them at their word. Keep in mind I'm basing it on what she said, and what other women have told me.
     
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    What an awesome question!

    I have been tracking my orgasms but not hers. Shows how selfish I can be. Fixing that today.

    My wife is not frequently eager to orgasm so I suspect her ratio will always be closer to mine until something changes. It is 8:1 for the last month which before chastity would have been the reverse.
     
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    Somewhat sceptical that they would be proper orgasms, maybe waves of pleasure in-between orgasms. Still, as long as she was enjoying herself, I suppose numbers don't really matter.
     
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    When we started tease and denial about 6 months ago, it was about more orgasms for her and less for me. She is up to about 10 to 15 (closer to 15) a month and I am down to 1 to 3 a month (moving towards 1).
     
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    At least 100:1
     
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    Who needs numbers right.
    When my wife wants to cum she either does it herself or tells me what to do. When she wants me to cum she she tells me what to do. Way more for her.
     
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    I think @LadyS said it best....
     
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