How Did You Find Chastity Mansion?

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    #1 Mistress Jules, Aug 12, 2017
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    It would be interesting to know how people found Chastity Mansion so everyone can have an idea of where people are going for their information on male chastity.

    Personally, I was on a site called keyholder finder as that was the site the guy who introduced me to male chastity knew. Someone there had mentioned Chastity Mansion so off I went and here I am.

    Chastity Mansion is a part of the wider fetish community with its own twitter account and thanks to @latexbound its own group on Fetlife which you can join. Is that where you found CM?

    I know that on twitter there are many CM members including myself and Mistress Lucy Are on twitter why not follow CM using @chastitymansion and see what is happening with members when you are not in the forum. If you are on Fetlife, why not join the group, I am sure Mistress Lucy and @latexbound who are running it now would be happy to see you.

    So where did you find CM? Was it through another fetish site or was it a general web search?[/USER]
     
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    He did his best to persuade me to join.
    I wasn't interested.
    Time went by.
    His kink.
    I obliged.
    I recognized and seized the potential.
    We parted.
    My vanilla was tainted.
    I wanted to understand.
    I joined the site.
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    That's the short version.
     
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    I had a friend tell me about the site way way back when.
     
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    First came across the mansion when doing an internet search on femdom and male chastity forums , about 5 or 6 years ago
     
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    For me it was a general web search ... I just typed in Male Chastity Websites and Hey Presto there you where.

    So whats Fetlife?
     
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    When looking for a fetish that we had not tried yet on Fetlife, all we could find was chastity. Then I Googled it and found this and a few other sites. As simple as that.
     
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    Yep, same here...
    I googled fetlife and have made a log-in but there never seems to be enough time in the day to go any further and see what it's all about.
     
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    @Anonoman

    I got curious and looked up fetlife last night, well joined it actually.
     
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    Fetlife is commonly known as the Facebook of the fetish scene. It has groups for many different fetishes and also groups for local areas. I joined a local group (well not too local) and went to a few munches, which are basically vanilla meet ups in pubs or cafes. From there I was told about clubs and events and I never looked back.

    Fetlife can be very in your face, again it is online so people have less filters and there are fantasists of course. It is however the basis for a lot of those who live the lifestyle and are active in the BDSM scene listing events and local groups. Also there are a lot of photos to like, some of the people you link up with may like photos which will show on your feed, just like Facebook. Maybe some of those photos are not what you would want to be seeing or maybe you would like to put up photos for others to see.

    It is a pretty huge site but if you are looking to find the BDSM scene in real life, that is where to start.

    I am on there as Mistress-Jules if you would like to send a friends request.
     
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    I was using Tumblr primarily as a place to find out about and post details of my modifications. Then the doodoo hit the fan with Elle and, after she agreed to be my keyholder I started first my chastity and then our FLR journey. I deleted my original Tumblr and started up a chastity themed one. I was sent a message one day by someone who liked my stuff and they mentioned CM.

    In November 2015 I received my Holy Trainer and the next day I joined CM and started my journal here.
     
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    From Chastitylifestyle.com and reading Mistress Watchfuls posts there.
     
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    Been here that long I can't actually remember
     
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    I had been talking to a sub on fetlife for a few weeks, he told me a pack of lies and did a runner (as usual). I noticed he had a link to Chastity Mansion on his profile and here I am.
     
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    Had a long time interest and like so many google was my search resource. then lurked on several sites and picked the one that was talked highly about. Femdom only sites or just sissie sites weren't what the wife and I were looking for and this was the perfect site. a more even cross section. We have been on for awhile and find the best friends, information and opinions here vs the dozen or so sites we checked. So unless something changes, here is our main stay.
     
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    In 2009 I used a search engine for chastity and chat. Was interested but unfamiliar. The internet was a lot slower and smaller then.

    This sit popped up, along with a few others, but one wasn't used hardly at all, one was mostly about cuckolding, and this was the other. I did not have a keyholder or a device, so pretty much just absorbed knowledge, read about others, and didn't post. I would check in every so often, and a few times there were site issues and waited a few months before checking back in.

    I found someone to share my secrets and life with in 2016. I bought a custom cage...and more to come, and she agreed to hold the key. We both became members and I a somewhat active one. She has decided she likes to read and not share.
     
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    I was friends with Mistress Watchful at Chastity Lifestyle and followed her here! It has always been much more friendly here!
     
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    ooh i was on that one as well and the chatroom was lovely there. i come on here as well but i dint like it first and then afters a bit i did. Then my Mistress come on as well to see i was behaved.
     
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    this chastity slave was a member of another chastity community web site long ago when it was actually being regularly updated, monitored, maintained and contributed to by the sole Admin at the time and a member there mentioned Chastity Mansion in a post.

    that other old site is basically useless now. it does not have Moderators like Chasity Mansion which keep it ALIVE! ;)
     
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    Like some others I had had an interest in male chastity for some time and had lurked on a few sites. I found this one through a link from chastity lifestyle and tumblr and thought it was the most realistic in terms of real experiences from real people and so joined to share a journey I was about to embark on with my wife.
     
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    Like others, I found this site doing a general internet search on chastity. I also came across fetlife at the same time but didn't find that it met my needs like this site. This month makes one year that I have been an active member, and I look forward to another more than ever.
     
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    Like Danleft, I found CM as a link on the Holy Trainer website. What lead me to the HT site is another story entirely but one which I am sure is all too familiar. :)
     
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