A little submissive girl saying hello :)

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    Hello all!

    I'm a new member here. My name is ellendrilla and I'm a 28 year old submissive girl. I've been introduced into the BDSM and D/s world about 4 years ago by my beautiful girlfriend and Mistress. Although I had been interested in all of it for far longer! You indeed saw correctly that I said girlfriend, I'm a bisexual and in a very happy relationship with a wonderful woman! I love her to bits!

    At a party a little while ago we met a (kinky) couple that was, among other things, into chastity. We both knew about the existence of chastity, but never before had we met a woman that was locked (they were actually both locked!)
    This really got my Mistress interested, and I must admit I do get excited thinking about it.

    Long story short, I've been doing some researching online and found this forum.

    What I hope is to find some (obviously) like-minded people that can tell me a lot more about all this. And maybe even find some other woman that are locked. But I'm not sure many of them find their ways to these kinds of online forums. Seems to be a lot of boys ;)

    But feel free to start a chat with me or as me stuff, I'd love to get to know you people!
     
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    You will love being in chastity.
     
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    I don't know how the ladies feel, but there is a certain loveliness in being caged.
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    Hi @ellendrilla and welcome to the forum!

    You're right that it's a bit locked-guy oriented here, though there is a section for locked females, sparsely populated though it is. That said, I think a lot of the dynamics are the same for either gender in terms of the power shift and denial and probably much else.

    There are some great people here and I'm sure you'll find them, and more than a few fantasists - which is fine too, space for all here.

    There's a great search function, alternatively do ask any questions in threads or by pm. And if anything starts bothering you or you'd like some advice on how best to use the site, please do get in touch with one of the mods.

    Enjoy the forum!
     
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    Hello @rongeo Thanks for that, I'm curious if I would. The few woman I talked about that are in chastity really loved it, although it indeed seems to be a lot different for woman compared to men. So maybe someday I'll find out and I can tell you ;)
     
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    Thank you for the welcome @SubVerity !

    I'm sure I'll find my way and as a woman you'll learn how to sort out the people online that are worth talking to don't you? ;)

    Think you're totally correct concerning the dynamics. And it's exactly those dynamics that got us interested in chastity and made us explore and see if it might be something for us to try. Sadly it seems that there really are no (relatively) cheap female chastity devices. So if we would decide to take the plunge, we'd have to be very sure we're going to give it a fair chance. :)

    If I need anything I'll know where to find you!
     
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    I hope you find what your looking for. Their are alot of people hear that know a lot more people. I'm confident that someone will help to leed you in the right direction. Welcome to The Mansion and the world of Locks with out keys
     
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    Thank you @Mash2214 I'm sure I'll find my way and will meet some nice people. If you ever see me online, feel free to start a little chat :)
     
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    a warm welcome ellendrilla. hope you get locked soon. ;)
     
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    Welcome Ellendrilla, I would suggest to start describing your story, your couple, your kinks
     
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    Thank you @iome343 Thanks for you suggestion, I will sure tell everyone more about that in the future :)
     
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    Welcome to the mansion. I wish you and your lady all the best on this new journey you seem to be about to undertake. I'm sure the dynamic of chastity will add much to your lives and i wish you both all the best on your journey
     
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    Thank you very much @elliot_r That's very sweet of you to say :)
     
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    Hello and a warm welcome to CM. I know it's more male oriented here but I do think you can find some information about the dynamics of a chaste lifestyle. All the best to you and your Lady friend. Hope to see you around the boards.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    welcome,

    would love to find out if these devices could prevent an O on a female. Since an O is possible through outside vibration, I would imagine that would be a difficult task to prevent. I get the act of penetration can be thwarted with the belt fairly easily but the clitoris is a whole other animal. Looking forward to hearing all about it if you do decide to give it a shot.

    I think being mutual keyholders would be kinda fun....but it also denies me of pleasing her, maybe for little stints just so she knows my predicament lol.

    anyway, welcome and good luck
     
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    Locked Lali on tumblr probably has a bunch of useful info for you on ladies in real life with chastity. Hope it helps. https://lockedlali.tumblr.com
     
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    You may be interested by http://www.beltedgirls.com/forum/
    That site is mostly about female chastity and, in particular, there are female wearers who post about their experience.
     
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    Thank you @Nicoftime I'm also curious to find out more about those belts. Concerning the vibrations, I've also heard that this is the exact same for boys. Enough vibrations will make it able for them to have an orgasm while locked. So I guess the vibrators will just have to be locked away too ;)

    Maybe I was a bit unclear about it, but although mutual keyholding sounds interesting, this is not what we are looking for :)
     
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    Thank you @ineverknew I'll definitely have a look :)
     
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    Thanks @zorglub I had already found that forum, but thanks for helping me ^^
     
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    Maybe you should date with a likeminded male too. You would be a beautiful sub couple like KeyholderWife.
     
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    From the perspective of a caged sissy who seems to be thinking and acting increasingly female, it is especially exciting to think of a female in chastity!
     
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    And why is that @DonnaSue ? :)
     
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