Flacid shrinkage?

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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    ok I will start off that I am in the camp that the penis doesn't permanently shrink, given enough time and erections, would bounce back. That being said I have recently realized I am also shrinking the flacid size of it.

    I have a custom cage. It also has a rigid prong for my piercing that is part of the cage that does not allow for ANY movement. It fit perfectly, Now after 4 months of almost continuous wear, I noticed I'm getting smaller. I don't really know how much smaller when hard...I don't really have time to measure when I get let out...but I do know that I now have almost a quarter inch more room inside now. I know it's not just movement because I can feel it gently pull on my piercing.

    Again I know if I gave it time and freedom it would return to normal, but I had not heard of anyone's flacid penis getting shorter. Only really concerned about fitting my device. I had went through a lot of trial and error, money, and time finding one that was perfect...would hate to need to keep buying devices.
     
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    Haven't you fatten a little? Thats usually the main reason for flacid shrinkage. On some it even can totally turtle in!
     
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    lol I might have gained a few pounds, but I haven't hit the fat pad near my groin stage yet thank god!

    I just have always thought that once you have it the most flacid it can get...that's it, it won't ever shrink down more.
     
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    Dude when I'm sick my wang goes full awol vs jangly dangly on any given day. It's such an active organ...so there is definitely possibility for even more changes than just hard or flaccid. Maybe you're just swingin to the shorter side for a bit. It's also possible that you're body is breaking in to the cage a bit and it's moved a hair.
    Time and further study required ;)
     
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    i have found that being constantly locked for 5 years and entering its mid 50's that its flaccid cock has indeed become smaller also. And it has also developed atrophy where it will now not become any more erect then the size of Mistress' 3.8cm / 1 1/2" long tiny custom Jailbird. Was able to humbly have 17.1cm / 6 3/4" erections.

    Sorry for the expense and trouble you have gone thru to achieve was was the perfect fit but ......

    Mistress Sonia is absolutely thrilled with Her cock shrinkage since She has a use for it. Her slave on the other hand, whimpers.
     
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    @Nicoftime when you am caged a lot it does shrink i think so really you has to have a littler cage after a bit.
     
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    I seem to have been a bit premature in my assessment. Seems to be fine now, not pulling on my piercing this am. It still is a little shorter but not enough to pull on it.

    Might be the weather(hot) has everything a little looser and pulling down a bit more than usual. Looks like my three and a half inches is safe!
     
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    Thankfully I have not experienced any shrinkage due to age or the length of time I have been wearing a chastity device as I only measure 1 1/4" when flaccid. However when my wife teases, embarrasses or humiliates me my pee pee retracts until only 1/4" of wrinkled foreskin is visible.
     
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    That would explain your handle lol
     
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    Penis shrinkage is a real thing. I am old and know it does happen. Here is an excerpt about things that happen to your penis as you age. There is droopage, ED and curving too.

    There Will Be Shrinkage—Permanent Shrinkage
    No, not the out-of-the-pool constriction we all know. This is a persistent, progressive loss of size as you age.

    What does that equation look like? Normal cells, once hale and hearty, get replaced by non-elastic fibers called collagen, which just sort of reel in the whole apparatus.

    Want to make it worse? Keep building up that beer gut. As your belly gets bigger, the fat pad pushes out and a larger penile percentage gets buried under the skin. Gain weight, loose length. Simple math.

    Since we age while we wear our chastity devices, we tend to blame them but in fact, locked or not, there will be shrinkage.
     
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    I think pelvic fat has a lot to do with it. It may not seem like you have gained weight in that area but honestly who measures their fat? lol. I have lost about 30lbs since december and have noticed quite an increase in flaccid length even though the fat seems the same in that area. I actually look in the mirror and don't notice that I've lost any weight but I think gaining or losing weight is so subtle that its nearly impossible to notice.
     
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    Jangly Dangly lol I literally laughed out loud.
     
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    My wife insisted that I use her pet name for my penis when I asked her permission to join Chastity Mansion, even though it's true she knows how embarrassing it is to have to utilise it every time I make any comments.
     
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    I here ya, not very endowed myself. She has started with that kind of talk as well, told her I wanted total honesty and to not worry about my feelings and she took it from there. Although she knows the honesty turns me on, have found that she enjoys not having to tip toe around an ego, pretend, or worry about me... she looks and sounds very liberated.
     
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    Any body part will atrophy if it's not exercised. Except for bone structure of course.
     
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    Like Vinny say's - your winky will shrink eventually, chastity or no, but a year long lock-up with no erections can also shrink your dink. Fortunatley it only takes an erection or three to regain normal size again.

    Unlike the poor spacemen and women who's bones do indeed atrophy from lack of use.
    Astronauts on the space station have to exercise 2.5 hrs each day so as to reduce loss of bone density which can still occur at 10 times the speed of osteoporosis. Indeed, the densest bone in the body, the femoral head, loses 10% of it's mass during a 6 month stint and it takes 3 to 4 years to return to normal density after.
    On earth though, gravity is generally enough of a stress to keep bone density in good health.

    Even the collagen chains in your age old winky can be stretched (regular massage and...er....stretching... may help) in the same way scar tissue can be massaged to become less tight. Getting it up is another issue ;)
     
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    Bones also weaken if they are not stressed regularly.
     
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    I suspect that chastity alone causing shrinkage may be a myth. Any readers of Thumpers blog will have read that he has been into chastity for nearly 10 years and has reported no shrinkage. But of course, as they say, YMMV.
     
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    I was told that even if I lose weight, that fat, which is called a fat pad, will not reduce much. I lost 50 lbs and it is still there. I am losing it in my face, neck, stomach and even fingers. My wedding band can slide off my finger easily. It has not done that in a very long time. However, my penis still looks very small. I can feel it under the skin though.
     
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    I went from it is too big and hurts to where is it and we cannot have intercourse even if it was allowed. My wife is 4' 11" and 90 lbs. Back then she was 79 lbs. So 6 1/2 inches on my 114 lb. body looked huge to her, especially since she was a virgin and never saw a penis since there was no internet or cable TV.

    On the plus side, as my penis got smaller, anal sex was on the table and preferred. My wife liked giving me oral because she could deepthroat me like the porn stars did. If life gives you lemons and all that.
     
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    Yep...works fine for ME! Kind of like that saying about premature ejaculation...."premature? I came, so your timing must be off"
     
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    well i don't know bout Thumper but it migt be that he aint cos he migt has a bigger cage.
     
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    That's pretty funny!
     
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    A while ago Vinny posted a link to a Men's Health article about penis health. Can't seem to find it now, the article not my penis I know where that is. It was very enlightening.

    Probably everyone knows a man’s testosterone peaks at 18-20 years of age and then slowly declines. My big take away from the article was that physical trauma to the penis eventually catches up with a man and effects his performance. Scar tissue develops and as we age are not as quick to heal. Obviously scar tissue in the penis is an impediment to a strong erection. Trauma is not necessarily BDSM/CBT, just normal vigorous intercourse takes a toll after a while.

    OK, dangerous territory coming up. Please do not flame me. Perhaps this is why CM seems to be filled with men with performance anxiety? Be it older men with ED or younger guys with small units.

    Big generalization I know, please be kind! :)
     
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