How do folks deal with the temptation to touch your device / junk durng the day? I'm at a desk a lot, and finf my hand wandering to adjust, then getting aroused and continuing touch myself. Not trying to orgasm, but just to reduce frustration. Of course, it only makes it worse, but I dont have the self control not to do it. Any thoughts?
If you find yourself needing to adjust you might not have a proper fitting cage or your just not used to it. I rarely have to adjust and if I do I get up and use the restroom like @boisub said.
I think @Greggy is asking about managing the desire to touch oneself more than the technical method of making adjustments. If so I've got nothing useful to tell you. I still struggle with it. I tend to use Mistresses magic wand on my cage to pleasure myself. I stop short of an actual orgasm, but it really pisses Mistress off. A couple of weeks ago at punishment time she let me have it over this issue and it worked for like 10 days. Than I went and did it again a couple of days ago. Tomorrow is punishment day and it's on my list so she doesn't know yet. I'm pretty worried about tomorrow though
I touch my device a lot. It is not what I do but rather what I don't do, which is not give myself orgasms as that would go against what I asked for. As to frustration, I got used to that after 4 years and share my wife's orgasm. When I am very horny she will edge me, give me a ruined orgasm (rare) or let me give her an orgasm. I am just used to it.
I realize I am touching my device here and there. I don't know if its a re-affirming my status, or if its checking placement... Still getting used to it being on all the time, But I agree I will use the bathroom when something isn't comfortable and make my adjustment there
I work from home. I struggle so much with the temptations of the internet. My willpower is total pants. After a week in chastity I just think about sex.
I agree with suzy maid. Working from home can lead to all types of frustration, especially if I have a light workload. After a few days of this I am so fired up that it becomes almost overwhelming. Add to that multiple daily sessions with my Aneros prostate plug and I'm pretty much a walking stack of frustrated desire. After a three or four days or at most a week I end up giving myself a ruin or two just so I can concentrate. Then it starts again. My last ruins only gave me about 6 hours relief before I started to boil again. Sigh. There is nothing for it, unless you can get a cage/belt that completely disallows touch. Or if you have the self-control of a monk. Or a eunuch.