Have any of these things ever been said by a woman on Chastity Mansion?

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    I love to hear about how much a cock has been leaking.

    I love hearing about a male eating his own cum.

    I love hearing about cock piercings.

    Has any woman ever called a penis a clitty?

    Just curious.

    I'm not saying any of these things are wrong, I'm just curious if any women are interested in them.
     
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    I am pretty sure I have never used those phrases or words.
     
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    The women on CM don't get chance to say such things.
    As soon as she says hello she gets to hear them.
     
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    I've never been the type of man who has said them and I've never heard Elle ever say any of them. She does have a good giggle if I ever get a bit leaky because of something she has done though!
     
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    My keyholder askes all the time about how much I'm leaking. It turns her on to know how horny I am and that I need her for any kind of relief. That's about it on the above list though.
     
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    Oh how hearing about a leaking clitty that just got to have an major O.

    These are deffintly thing I don't come on here to ready about :p

    I fact I faind it slightly offensive to have a man call his dick a clitty!

    A clit is part of a WOMANS VAGINA.... a very special place... a feminine place...a place that certainly is not a wormy penis.
     
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    Nope! Well at least not pertaining to anyone else. I don't like any of that unless it pertains to my locked boy. He is pierced and I love his piercing, I make him eat his cum only if I want to and trust me, it embarrasses him to no end, and I like when I make him leak - he rarely does it spontaneously unlike a lot of the posts by other locked members I have read. I would never refer to my little locked toy as a "clitty" in fact, it actually gives me a kind of gag reaction when I hear penises referred to that way. Penises are in no way comparable to clits. Clits have more nerve ending per square inch than the whole entire penis does. So more nerve endings in such a small organ makes clits extra special, lol!
     
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    Oddly enough, my wife does not want me to even talk about chastity. She has a rule that if I talk about it I get 10 whack of the paddle. I did go through a phase at the beginning where I spoke about it all the time to her annoyance. That stopped in year 3 and now we do not talk about it. It was that way even when my wife's girlfriend dominated me. We just did not talk about sex outside of the bedroom. No matter what she did to me, once it was over, it was over and did not bleed into our non sexual life. It was not that I did not want to talk about it, it was my ladies who were not interested in hearing it. At most I might say that my butt or back was sore from a whipping and they would just say, "Good.". If I said it again they would tell me that they did not want to hear about it again. So I had many years to learn that women do not want to hear about stuff like that.

    In chastity the problem is that the man is always aware of it while his KH is not. She is not locked up sexually aroused 24/7. She does not think about it all the time. We who are locked up, are constantly aware of it so it is our condition all the time. We feel the need to talk about it but I found out that it was mostly due to my wife not acknowledging my chastity. When she started to say that if I kept annoying her with my constant chastity talk she would not want to keep doing it, we compromised. I told her why I was talking about it and so now before we go to bed she will kiss me and fondle my cage. Just that let's me know that she is acknowledging what I am enduring because she said so.
     
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    Not trying to kiss ass as I only enjoy that of my KH..... But I am sure there are a fair number of men who don't say these things either on the mansion.... Not they they are offensive, just not interesting or that thing that does it for them.... Similarly as some just not being into girls, peircings, urethral, dress ups, etc. it shows that there are a lot of kinks under one chastity roof.

    Now if you are a man seeking a woman to be you dominate or keyholder, I agree, there are things you just don't say as the likelihood a woman is into that would be almost zero... (You have to save those things for at least the third date and after you have slept together... Haha! Sorry for the semi movie quote.)

    So despite my initial reaction to be ashamed for men or on the defensive for saying these things, I am not. As each person deserves their kinks and where it takes them.... the diversity is some of my favourite things about coming here.

    I do wish there were more everyday in the life of vanilla chastity postings, but I could see how some men would feel like that is not the stuff worth sharing after seeing the almost pure fantasy and imagination behind some members. Which is a shame...

    Good concept in the post, just redirecting the premise a bit...

    As a technicality, I have wondered about leaking as I was convinced it was a sign that everything was still working and my device wasn't chocking the life out of my penis, as it had been decreasing. After sorting through the dripping panty posts, I was able to decipher some good advice to confirm I had not killed an important part of chastity. The man in prison who wants to get out and is willing to do what it takes for the KH to grant me that wish. If you kill the man, the man in the cage game is over. Useful, but not something I am into... Nor my KH
     
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    Not interesting.
    Despite the amount of times they have been written at me.
     
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    LOL what a great post.
    Okay so firstly calling a penis a clitty is just eugh, such a turn off. I get it if you're trans and need to redefine terms but yeah, never sexy.
    The other three though, I'm starting to change how I feel about them, I was discussing this just the other day with hubby. Cock's leaking precum has always been a bit sexy, so not a turn off, but it's only my husband's I'm turned on by, but other guys, it's kind of scientifically interesting to hear about. We're doing a long term 'medical test' game at the moment and one of those will be putting a condom on him during the day and seeing how much he actually leaks!
    Cum eating and piercing, I've gone from revulsion to acceptance to maybe even more recently though. Again, not a turn on hearing about it from guys, and sometimes a turn off, but the whole 'he loved making me swallow him for years, it's only fair to make him do it now' idea really has won me over - it's bordering on a turn on, sometimes, making him do it (I rarely go through with it, it's mostly just a tease).
    As for piercing, it still gives me the willies to think about, and even more so for hubby but, I honestly think the way we're going we'll end up doing it in a few year's time, and that is a mildly exciting idea now.
    So yes, I love three out of four of those from my hubby, ambivalent about it from guys on a forum like this, and clitty is always a turn off.
     
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    So, if these things are a turn off for women to read... who are the males making the posts about these topics for? Themselves? Other men? Do they care that they are putting women off them?
     
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    For themselves, and in hopes that women will get off on it. They imagine women getting off on it because they themselves, love the humiliation. As they are submissive males, it's no surprise. But submission is about doing what your mistress wants. It's like the holy Grail to find a mistress that enjoys doing whatever humiliates you most. Which would be topping form the bottom. But I'm sure there are Mistresses that enjoy making our wildest fantasies, or more likely our nightmares to come true.
     
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    Agree, for themselves. But disagree that it is for themselves for women, or for themselves hoping there are women into these things. I think they are just into these things and playing out the fantasy on their own for their own enjoyment.

    I have fantasies that I play out with only myself, as the kink is great, but in the context of my relationship and my life I don't feel safe sharing it with anyone... yet. They just don't have the same boundaries.

    I could see that exploring these fantasies behind the screen name of the mansion would be a release for some. As they get the fantasy and are only in it for themselves as that is all they really have to get their release ( and a few others who share there same kink)

    I support your thoughts that many of these fantasies are one sided and many in chastity or sub would never be good with an actual person trying to assert their fantasies. And by calling them out, you help a few of them define what women really want out of chastity and submission. Actually to be more direct, it would be useful to post "what women want out of chastity and submission". A little direction on good behaviours would go a long way for those who actually want a two sided relationship.
     
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    Well I certainly wouldn't enjoy any sexual activity with other men on my own. But I'm not speaking for anyone else by any means. Everyone is different, but we seem to have overlapping themes of what we think it takes to be submissive. What we imagine in our mind is almost never the same as our Mistresses wish to carry out.
    I'm not attracted to the male body one bit. However I would like a woman to take me out of my comfort zone with bisexual humiliation. If I was truly gay or bisexual.... It wouldn't be humiliating. Simple logic.
     
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    I'm sorry but I fail to see what relevance your reply has to the topic of this thread. Can you please explain?
     
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    For me a lot of the threads I have participated in or started with some of this type of content has been for informational purposes from either other chaste males or their KH's. I'm curious as this all so new to me. I started a thread yesterday asking how much other men "leak" as from what I read I'm abnormally dry. I'm curious if that's true or if this concept of "leaking puddles" is fictional chastity porn. From what I've seen most of the active members are in relationships with varying degrees of participation from their spouse or significant other. CM isn't a hook up site so much as an informational sharing site. I doubt the threads on here are intended as come ons to anyone. It's intended for people to have an open dialogue about a subject that is difficult to discuss in their day to day lives.
     
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    If I ever saw a post that stayed on topic it would amaze me :)
     
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    I was just talking about how my Mistresses fantasies differ from what I would imagine her fantasies to be.
    Maybe I rattled off about it for a little too long. My apologies.... I actually thought I was pretty on topic, as I was replying to someone else's comment.
     
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    My wife says the first two (she's not on this forum). She would be repulsed by three and four.
     
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    Not said any of them....nor intend to!
     
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    There are many discussions on the forums that I find distasteful and when I come across them, I quickly turn to another page. This is a chastity site and a great proportion of the membership are single males who are self-locked and write this stuff. It is an admirable thing to try and improve the quality of the discussions on here but I fear that unless half the membership is banned, it will sadly fail.
     
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    Very true. But Lucy's OP still resonates. The background is : so many wannabe subs are thinking solely of themselves and trying to top from the bottom. This is a theme from a number of Lucy's other recent posts and in this analysis she is not IMO wrong.
     
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    When the content of the thread is posted in the title, it's not so easy to turn to another page.
     
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    blimey, ive forgotten what the question was now, I need to be spanked and stood in the corner.
     
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