Milking! An Explanation for Women Who Feminize

I'm not sure where I found this piece any more, but its still pretty good:

 

For today's lesson Wendy and her feminized husband 'Jenny' will assist as subjects:

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Most of the 'milking' we are concerned with today is for husbands who have already been feminized. But - please note - a lot of wives use 'milking' for other purposes.

Now: there is little point in attempting this procedure unless you already have a reasonable amount of control over the subject. 'Jenny' for example is 'house-trained' and feminized. Wendy will retain her control as I use him for this demonstration. See the way she has given hip girlish flanks? See how passive and malleable he is?

Our reasoning is simple: it is a man's sexual aggression that makes him the beast he is - once he has been 'drained' he is far less likely to become violent of sexually demanding. And - other male traits are eliminated by constant 'milking.

There are two types of 'milking'; one - prostate milking and two - penis 'milking'.

Once a man has been feminized properly - and by that I mean given breasts - I prefer the prostate method.

Wendy has already given 'Jenny' nice pert breasts and he is happy with his progress. Let's have a look at him.

The prostate gland can be accessed via the rectum, where it can be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum.

A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate.

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During sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts.

When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.

Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal dildo is one way - see how 'Jenny' reacts when I bend him and stand behind him? He has been used to accepting the dildo! - but perhaps a more reliable way is to simply use either the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum.

Now - don't let that stop you if in fact you already use the dildo! I am, as you know, a firm believer in 'penetration' as a means of control. Using dildo and prostate 'milking' is an excellent way of combining pleasure and training.

The massage will force the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate.
But - what if you want to eliminate his pleasure?

A variant of the prostate massage - that is quite effective in limiting any tendency to orgasm and the pleasurable sensations of fluid passing through the ejaculatory ducts and urethra, - is the "ice massage". At least 10 minutes prior to the prostate massage, plastic bags full of crushed ice are packed around the male's cock and balls.

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The bags remain in place during the prostate milking. When the massage is completed, the bags are removed. This technique also makes a very appropriate opportunity to install a chastity device on the male's shrivelled penis. (This technique works best if the male if fastened down - it's very hard to get a man to stay still when his genitals are being frozen.)

Naturally, hubby will not be at all pleased to be denied the small amount of pleasure of the surrogate orgasm as the milked fluid is forced through his numbed ejaculatory ducts. But - he now depends on his 'female' persona to provide his pleasure. He now needs the mental and physical stimulation that derives from being feminine! He no longer associates his penis with pleasure!!

A condom may be used to collect the ejaculate, so that he mistress can gage when an amount of fluid normal for an orgasm has been collected. At this point the prostate massage can be ended.

While the prostate massage is (without the ice) very pleasurable, most men are unable to orgasm by prostate massage without some kind of penile stimulation. Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

This technique may be used to frustrate male masturbation and orgasm if applied at appropriately timed intervals. That may need to be once every day or two unless the male is secured in a chastity belt. Belted males will still need to have their glands drained every few weeks to maybe 3 months in order to avoid nocturnal ejaculations with orgasm.

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Wendy here is a lesbian. She wanted 'Jenny' to be a non-masculine, non-sexual partner whilst she continued her lesbian liaisons undisturbed by any masculine interest or aggression. Milking was the only solution - a totally 'drained' hubby can be used, not only for housework, but for assistance in her sex acts. Knowing he doesn't want or need any stimulation she can relax and enjoy his presence.

With regular prostate milkings, a male may be deprived of orgasmic release for an arbitrarily long time with no deleterious effects. How long to go between milkings will have to be gauged by experiment. You want to go as long as possible without triggering an orgasmic wet dream, since the pressure of fluid build-up increases the urgency of orgasm denial. That's the whole point, right?

I'd guess that 6 weeks between milkings might be a good start. Then add a couple of weeks to that each time between milkings, until a wet dream is triggered (but don't go longer than 3 months between milkings). You should add a clause to your contract that hubby must confess any wet dream or other spontaneous orgasm. I'd suggest that you restart the one-year chastity period from that day if one occurs. He's already had his orgasm, and will have to wait the full period till the next one.

A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm-deprived male's sense of sexual frustration between prostate milkings is to masturbate him once a day every day to just short of orgasm, then install a chastity device. I'd say this at least triples the urgency of orgasm denial. If you do this, you will need to milk him more often, maybe every 2-4 weeks. After milking, the cycle can be started over. One woman I know sometimes masturbates her hubby to just short of orgasm several times a day between milkings!

 

Penis Milking - otherwise known as: Milking by Masturbation!

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Of course a better-known - but still misunderstood, method of milking is straightforward masturbation.

I know many couples who use this method already - but I feel it necessary to explain the reasoning behind it. And note - he must never be allowed to milk himself! I know some wives prefer to order their husbands to relieve themselves - but that is not 'milking' - remember, we are talking about you taking control over his sexual pleasure.

Regular milking achieves two things almost immediately; it reduces the males need and ability to provide penetrative sex - and it hands sexual control to the milker!

Masturbation milking also has a number of long-term effects.

If a man (already dressed and treated like a wife) does not engage in penetrative sexual intercourse he 'forgets' his masculine role. From being a 'giver' of sexual pleasure he becomes a 'receiver' of the same.

His masculine resistance to being penetrated himself is lowered - he will readily accept the dildo, plugs and even fisting!

As the penis provides less and less pleasure 'he' begins to understand that his breasts and nipples, his buttocks and thighs are all 'pleasure zones' - his resistance to surgery and extreme feminization is lessened.

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He can be 'loaned' or 'trained' or 'shared' with others without any fears of sexual arousal on his part. 'I can leave him with my mother for long periods knowing he won't have an erection.' Explains one wife. 'He does her housework and she helps 'milk' him during the day.'

So - the practicalities.

Ritual is vital. I strongly suggest that when you start this method you do it at the same time, in the same place and wearing the exact same outfit. He must not associate this act with sexual pleasure. And he too must wear an appropriate outfit. The bathroom is a better place to do it than, say, the bedroom.

Allow me to explain my own way of doing things. I wear a nurse's smock made of navy-blue starched cotton, a white PVC full-bibbed apron and clear latex surgical gloves. The moment my husband sees me in my 'milking uniform' he knows what is to happen. All I have to say is 'get dressed.'

He gets into his own milking outfit - always ready hanging behind the bathroom door - which consists of: a white latex hood (I find the aroma of rubber provides a 'medical' sensation), a pink satin dress with a tight (button-through) bodice and a flared (and incredibly short) skirt, snow-white lace wrist gloves and a pair of five-inch ladies satin slippers.

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By the time I join him in the bathroom he is wearing his cute and sweet milking outfit with his hood over his head. And what has happened? This 'man' this 'husband' has dressed in a crazy 'lickle girl' outfit. He has blinded himself (I could easily walk in with my mother). He has in effect surrendered to me.

I now stand behind him with my groin nestling against his buttocks. I make a fist of his penis with my latex fingers. I begin to pump. If he is slow to respond I open his dress with my free hand and play with his 'titties'. I talk to him constantly, each whispered word reminding him of his status and gender - 'you are a wife, you are a woman, you belong to me, you are my slave' - until he ejaculates.

Regularity, repetition and persistence! He will enjoy his initial milkings but as you insist on doing it over and over again (hourly in the first few weeks), he will complain. 'I can't do it, I need time to recover.' He will tell you. Ignore him. Pump away, play with those nipples, caress him, tease and talk to him. Make him cum. Again and again and again. In fact you will know you are succeeding when he tells you he hates it.

Yes - it will become hard work. Now you will begin to understand why so many wives introduce a third-party. Your mother, your lover, a neighbour. Another woman who can tug at his shrivelled and useless penis for long periods!

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Conditioning: after a month he should be mentally and physically conditioned by your constant milking. Now you can slow the process to about half the usual milkings. Offer him this relaxation of the milking regime (he will be incredibly grateful to you) on one condition. He must accept the need for constant 'penis' checking. In other words you, or your third-party will put your hand under his skirt and grope him for signs of an erection many many times during his working day. Every time he serves you a drink, or a meal. Each time he walks past you. As he sits beside you watching television - he is crudely 'checked'. Any sign of arousal and he is instantly 'milked' on the spot no matter who is present or where he is.

The first time this happened to my husband we were at my mother's house. He was fidgeting nervously next to me on the couch. I carried on talking and slipped my hand under his tight silk skirt. His penis stirred faintly! I raised an eyebrow. My mother was shocked. 'I only milked him an hour ago', she said, 'perhaps it is his new bra and girdle, he was quite pleased with them.'

I didn't care what it was. I forced him to stand facing my mother. I stood behind him and worked his thigh-hugging skirt up his hips. I made a fist of his penis through his silk panties and milked him then and there!

I never had to do it again because my husband was so horrified by this experience he now tells me when he is getting aroused. 'I think I need a milking,' he will whisper. I can then arrange for a private milking to encourage his acceptance of the situation.

 

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