To cum, or not to cum... THAT is the question

brianna, my inclination would be to think that a good sub doesn't nag or attempt to top from the bottom. However, if Mistress asked, I'd be groveling and begging for the opportunity.

So, I guess my two cents is to not mention it. However, if Mistress mentions it, say "yes please!"

Here's hoping she asks! lol
mikecb

 

I think you should try to milk yourself. That way there would be no orgasm and you will remain interested in staying chaste for your Mistress.

 

brianna.....Do you have a clue what I am about to say??? I am betting you do! Now, you know you dont 'Need' to cum, you just want to. As you said earlier in your post, you promised to stay chaste untill your Mistress visited you, so its another month away, you'll live. I know its hard precious, but will be more than worth it when the time comes. So, No cumming for you naughty girl....you need to leave that totally up to your Mistress!

Mistress Michelle :sex020:

 

That's a sad pre"dick"ament gurl, but you did agree to not cum until she visits. Now things have changed, but without her permission you should not cum.

Of course you may ask if that is part of your relationship with her, but otherwise it may be left to her kindness to bring up the subject...

Hope it works out.

 

i agree with mike. it should be totally up to your Mistress and you should never top from the bottom. you should not even mention the subject. Mistress knows best. if She wants to reward you then by all means take Her up on it...after all at that point you are just obeying Her command.

 

Brianna,

I was just about to offer my opinion when I thought better of it.

First, I want to hear what Miss D has to say since she studies sissies like a science and I suspect everyone wants to know what she thinks too.

Respectful

 

I agree with chastityslavejohn on this... I don't think you should mention it, unless she does. Trust me. She KNOWS you're locked up.. She KNOWS you want to cum. If she wants you to beg, I'm sure she'll order you to. If she wants to know your honest opinion, she'll ask for it. I would presume that for now she is feeling a tremendous satisfaction that her slave is chastely sacrificing his pleasure, awaiting her arrival. arty-091:

mikecb

 

A good slave never tops from the bottom, a good slave has no needs of his own, blah blah blah.... I'm getting tired of this.

Your mistress is not a telepath, and she's not infallible. She's human. Kinksters are not that different from ordinary people, and I guess you want a *relationship* with your mistress, not just a kinky fuckbuddy.

The important word here is communication. *Talk* to your mistress. You wouldn't hesitate to ask about other things, would you? What is so special about your needs and your orgasms that should prevent you from discussing it? Of course, she might tell you to wait. But at least you'll know you've been honest and told your mistress about your thoughts, and she made a decision based on real information instead of on what somebody thinks she should somehow divine from a crystal ball.

 

There is a point reached, during the development of a proper sissy and perhaps even a male subby, when the chastity desire switches from wishing for a cum to wishing not to cum. This particular development occurs in varying degrees and is highly dependent on the individuals involved. I think the constant highly aroused state with no relief becomes an elixir - something highly desirable - almost like an addiction but not in the common sense of the word. I believe this state of mind is mostly unattainable for unowned subbies. It takes constant, remorseless teasing by a Superior to put subby in such a condition.

For brianna's specific question about whether she should ask for a cummy or promise to remain chaste as a show of devotion - it's largely, irrelevant. Mistress will do as Mistress pleases I am sure. Of course, it is not inappropriate for brianna to state her case either way - as mentioned previously - Mistress is not a mind reader. On the other hand, once a decision has been made, attempts to sway that decision should and often are, met with a harsh punishment.

brianna is well aware of the drop-off in her state of mind that accompanies a cummy - that's the down side of relief. You don't want to be a downer, do you brianna? I'm not picking on brianna - the fact that this issue has raised such consternation within her, is clear proof of her need to be controlled - she is swaying about - waiting to be told what to do - unable to make a decision on her own. What a good sissy gurl brianna is becoming - she no longer has the capacity to decide. If there is anything we should take away from this thread - it is that. brianna is helpless without direction - totally under the sway of her Mistress - fearful of a mistake. That state of mind is exactly what a Mistress loves to see in her sissy.

:sex020:

 

Hi Brianna,

How is the 'elexir' of tease and denial going sweetie?

 

In my opinion, begging for an orgasm has nothing to do with "topping from the bottom". It only shows your mistress how much control or power she has: without her permission, you gonna stay in chasity. Only with HER permission you are allowed to feel satisfaction.

Most times my Mistress allows me to cum, she links her permission to some kind of requirement... e.g. serving her as her toilet first or licking up my own cum afterwards. And i love her for that..

 

I have no say on the matter whether sex, cumming or chastity. Its Mrsstrapon who makes these decisions.

 

Mistress Michelle, I totally agree. there is no need to cum unless told directly to by your supreme FEMALE GODDESS. hahah

 

i have been lock up at periods of time
longest with out cuming has been 6 months
unless my KH wants to use me i do not get to cum at all no milking nothing
this slave boy has no say in thismatter i dont have control over my genitals at all
lock in cb3000 shaved panties

 

obedience

you must be obedient and your `cumming`belongs to yOUR Mistress...and you should never have a say in when, how and if you cum.......

 

No orgasm until Mistress sees you next. :whipbang:

 

ok you have the desire to cum but you dont want to for your mistress
well you can do is either milk yourself you wil not get eredtion you will not have orgasm like when you jerk off
just keep the cb on and dont do anyhting

i assume that you may have way out of the cb from what you are saying
if you are heading that way just for one cum session not worht it if you want to be ture to mistress

maybe you need to have the cane apply to your ass something for you to think about insitead of you cumming