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    My name is Raidyn. I am a transmasculine Dominant keyholder, and I'm looking for a submissive and intelligent like-minded conversation. I found this site years ago and recently decided to return.
     
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    Welcome to CM I hope you will find some interesting folk who have taken the time to read all your profile first and carefully.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I hope so too. Though, I am certain plenty will not.
     
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    Welcome and good luck.
     
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    Thank you Richard
     
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    @Sir_Raidyn Welcome (or welcome back :) ) to the Mansion. Perhaps this thread would be more suitable in the "seeking" section and would get more attention. I will move it there for you.
     
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    Thank you
     
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    That's very presumptuous of you, I think most on here are very fastidious of the way they read the Forum and post within it o_O
     
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    I tend to be an optimist usually so I hate to sound like a pessimistic realist, but it's just my experience with most forums.
     
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    Looks like you could be in for a refreshing change of perspective then, but that doesn't surprise me here, I have very very low expectations of my views becoming anything other than reality for you, but I have nothing to relate your previous Forum experiences to. I am only a member here and Two others, one a very Vanilla but totally honest chastity site and Fetlife which I never visit tbo SO lets see !!
     
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    welcome, Sir Raidyn.
     
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    Hi @Sir_Raidyn - I just read your information page in your profile. One of the things I have loved about CM is the way it has really broadened my mind over the past year., and meeting people like you is very definitely part of that process. I really hope you decide to share your experiences with us with a journal, and to that end do hope you find a submissive who can help you find what you seek.
     
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    @SissySlaveOC While I like broadening my mind through interaction with other members of the Mansion, there are limits! I know that the Mansion is a place that explores a very definite set of kinks, namely chastity and D/s or FLR lifestyles, but the Mansion does have a policy of trying to tone down peoples avatars to make them more socially acceptable.

    One of the reasons is we are very aware that many people have a vanilla partner that they are trying to convince to get involved in this lifestyle. If they seek help in the Mansion and are confronted by avatars like yours it can confirm many of their fears and put them off altogether. So, If you don't mind, could you find an alternative avatar than the one you currently have on display.

    Ta!
     
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    Touche @Jasmic68 thats jut TMI before breakfast, yes its late im on a weeks leave ;-)
     
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    @Jasmic68 - so so so sorry. i had no clue there were rules about avatars. i apologize for not knowing this. i guess it must be in the rules somewhere but i did not see that. please accept my apologies. i have deleted my avatar.
     
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    Thank you for taking the time to read it. I was considering starting one yesterday, though I was unsure how it would fair considering how I identify. I do like the idea of helping to broaden people's minds though.
     
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    I experienced it previously in the past here as well as fetlife, though this time around seems to be a lot more refreshing. I'm enjoying getting to know people that actually seem to want to know me as a person not a fetish.
     
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    Unfortunately we do have our fair share of fantasists and fetishists as well. The good thing is there are plenty of 'real' chastity members of all different persuasions to balance out the more 'enthusiastic' members! I see you as yet another example of what makes the Mansion such a great place, the variety of the members and the way in which they practice chastity is so varied it just makes everything more interesting. There is also much more chance of finding someone who you can identify with, or at least make you feel that you aren't so different or weird!
     
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    It seems I have already brushed a few the wrong way. Though, I guess that can not be helped. I came back here, because of how diverse and accepting it was in the past.
     
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    Welcome sir raidyn .Of course most on here would love to hear your views just because your opinionated and Dom.welcome
     
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    Not sure how I should take or respond to your reply.
     
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    Hello Raidyn. This one would like to chat if you have intrest please let me know here Be well 11
     
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    Welcome back.
    I just read your FL profile. I'm not sure how to say it's interesting and hope you find what you're looking for. Also hope you'll find friends here, then what you seek.
    Like you I recently came back. I mostly lurk, but I do post some when I find a post that I think I can offer something, or just feel like saying hi.

    Anyway. Good luck. And hope you post about your journey as I'd love to hear about it as I always enjoy hearing about people who seem to like writing about it.
     
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    Had I met you in my younger days we would have been perfect for each other. I am heteroflexible having had sex with both males and females. I have always wanted to submit to a male since it is one of the very few things I have not done but wanted to. I am a product of private schools for gifted children and most people I met pick up on that by the way I speak and things I know. Yet I valued sports more than academia. I love good conversation but finding others who can hold up their end of the conversation is difficult. That is one of the reasons my wife brought our girlfriend into our lives. She has two Master's' Degrees and can challenge me. I used to be hot looking but old age had changed that. I feel the same about government as you do and am married to a bi wife who shared her girlfriend with me in our 30 year poly triad. I am a switch although I prefer to be sexually submissive to someone I trust and have feelings for.

    I live in the south and my main hobby is collecting and shooting guns. I also teach senior citizens how to shoot and self defense with a gun. I have never allowed myself to be dominated by anyone I was not with friends first. I need to have at least a friendship emotional feeling before I can submit or have sex with anyone.

    Too bad we are generations apart. In my day a man like you would be almost impossible to find. I made due with two gay friends. Funny thing is that my wife always attracted girls and I attracted gay men. Most of my friends up to the end of high school are gay and due to our lifestyle, most of our friends are sexually all over the map.

    I wish you luck but we never had luck finding anyone on the internet. It was always people we met or within our group of friends. I am really fascinated that we share so much in common. I have never connected with anyone in so many areas.
     
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