We read all kinds of stuff about penis size and no PIV, etc.. as reasons to lock the male's penis up. I have additional reasons. My wife does not find a penis or even a male's butt attractive. She is attracted to the female body. Her past attempts at sex with men other than me resulted in no orgas for he and an experience that she disliked because aside from no orgams, there was no passion and feelings for the other guy. She chose me as her only male but had sex with 3 women,with the last one moving in with us and being in our marriage and bed for 30 years. At first I was the focus of our nightly threesomes but over time the girls no longer wanted intercourse and lost interest in penises. Thy do not find a penis, male butt and unless the guy is buff, the male form to be aesthetically pleasing. So why am I locked up 24/7? My penis fits perfectly in a 1 1/4" cage. It triples in size when erect. Our girlfriend was my size and had a kid so she never could feel me inside her when we had intercourse. In fact she never believed me when I told her that I ejaculated because she felt nothing and would have to check by feel. Half of the time my penis would slip out an I ended up ejacualtiing on her rather than in her. My wife has medical issues with her vagina and never gets an orgasm from just intercourse so oral was our main sex especially when it was found out that I was sterile, another reasons why my penis was useless to the two ladies. No one remembers the last time we had intercourse. Best guess is 15-20 years ago, maybe longer. Then when I developed ED and anorgasmic problems from my various antidepressants and diabetes, my penis was truly useless for anything. That was handled BDSM play especially CBT and ballbusting. There were no good chastity devices in my time, at least any that would fit a penis less than an inch and a half long. When we discovered the CB series we bought one. My wife did not want to deal with semen or having sex so much so the CB6000 along with orgams denial appealed to her. Our girlfriend of 30 years was out of the picture by then. My wife now has 99% of her orgasms by her vibrator and reminds me often that she has no use for my penis anymore and If I die before her, she will marry a woman and be done with men. So I am married to a wife who truly has absolutely no use for my penis and it is not pretend fantasy stuff but the real thing. When it is make believe you know that your penis is really not that small and your wife still enjoys it, maybe not as often though. For me, no one enjoys my penis and during sex its only purpose is to be edged to produce moans of sexual frustration which brings on my wife's orgasms very quickly or to stay locked up so I do not even get the pleasure of being edged. She does like to hold onto my penis when using her vibrator though. It think it is a vestigial thing. Most times I cannot get erect without a lot of Viagra and even the, sometimes it does not work. In my current circumstances I can be the cover boy for male chastity. Unable to use his penis for anything a woman would need it for, married to a keyholder who does not even like the looks of a penis and treats semen like battery acid. It works because I no longer have to stress out about whether I can get hard or not and no worries about performing any intercourse or other sexual act. She will allow me to perform oral a few times a year but her orgasms was usually weaker than the ones she gets from her vibrator. I call them pity orgasms because she wants me to know that while she prefers women, it does not mean that she dislikes men. Just like enjoying the red M&Ms more than the chocolate ones. They are all good but some appear to you more. To tell the truth, I like being locked up all the timer. I do not have to worry about sexual performance at all. I like feeling sexually aroused all the time and even though I may ejaculate without an erection most times, I still have an intense one. My wife has been able to minimize time spent with my disgusting boy thing and enjoys teasing me to frustration. She likes it so much that she laughs at my sexual frustration. In short, chastity fits us perfectly. We do not have to make up reasons for locking me up in a cager and why I deserve teasing and denial. I could not give my wife a baby or even use a surrogate. Intercourse was uncomfortable for she and she hardly felt me. I often heart her ask me if I came or not. We do not pretend that she is superior because she is a woman or I do it for any of the reasons you read about on the web. I am in chastity because it perfectly fits our sexual situation and has turned what was becoming a bad sex life into something exciting and fun. My inability to impregnate women was both a blessing and curse. Without the worry of pregnancy I hardly ever wore a condom as STD's were very rare in our social strater and most of my sex life was preAIDS. Husbands whose wives was into sex without any protection sought me out and I would pretend I had impregnated several women and make it sound like the wife's chances of getting pregnant were high which in turn ramped up her excitement and orgasm level. Not having to worry about impregnating girls was the only good part of that. My wife's girlfriend used my sterility as a reason to punish my penis and testicles very brutally. No worry of hurting them and making me sterile and she used to tell me that she had wanted my wife to get pregnant at the same time as her but I could not make that happen and ruined their plans. So how much of a rule does your penis really play in chastity.? Is it really small and unable to sexually satisfy your wife? Other than mastrubation prevention, is it locked up for other reasons like cuckolding or D/s games. Mine is locked up simply because my wife has no use for it. It is not done to humiliate me. Even if not locked up the best I could hope for is a handjob, mostly done on myself. So I lock it up and make a fun sex game out of it. Does your penis really deserved to be locked up or it is just part of the chastity game?
My wife has told me that she likes it more now than before. She says " it makes her wet when she looks at my small penise with only bars to try and cover it "
Although small (3.5 inches hard), she can orgasm with me in her. She is one of the few women I've been with that actually want /need some sort of penetration. With me inside helping, she can grind against me till she cums. So my participation isn't just for me. She enjoys the intimacy and closeness we feel during piv and that cannot be replicated with any dildo. That being said, I used and watch her use the 9 inch very realistic dildo and the difference in her orgasms is night and day. The moans and climax are amazing, sometimes her legs keep shaking hours after. With me they are nice, sweet, and loving...but not giving her leg shakes if ya know what I mean. As far as options I'm sure she's a bit disappointed. There are many positions that physically are either impossible or awkward because I can't reach or keep slipping out. As far as looks...I think she thinks it's cute and easy to go down on if she chose to do so. I guess what she prefers depends on what kind of orgasm she's in the mood for. That and if she feels she doesn't want me to lose my subbieness. I will always remember the first time I used "Johnson " on her....we both knew this was now part of our routine without saying a word.
Difficult question as Xena rarely articulates her feelings about sex. It seems middle age has seen her going "off penis". So in part chastity is about taking my dick out of the equation/ She also seems to like the control implied by keeping me locked, and from time to time gets obvious pleasure in my denial.
She loves it. She cums so easily when I fuck her. Multiple times from hitting her G-Spot. She likes the tongue though too. She says I'm good at it and I'm getting practice all the time.
My penis is smaller now than it's ever been. It's definitely under five inches now possibly only four and half. About one to one and half flaccid. The CB 6000s is twice as long as I need. I am gay and always new that since I was about fourteen. I just lost my virginity heterosexually the other day at the age of 45. I was pathetic and ejaculated after about 60 seconds. My top who is also gay with a good seven inch penis and amazing girth soon had our lady freind moaning with pleasure. He displayed every reason why I am a bottom and always will be. He copulated with her for ten minutes and was amazing compared with my sixty seconds. My cum only served as lubricant for his large member. I am going to stay locked for as long as I can this time. My anus is very well stretched and is definitely the best thing I have to offer and my mouth. I am currently trying deep throat training so that I will be able to take a mans penis right down past the dangly thing at the back. We are trying with some dildos and the reel thing and it's getting better but I just can't stop gagging. O well practice makes perfect. My penis pathetic as it is will only get smaller i am sure and my cum is only fit for lube for a real man. At the end of the day I am not really a man lets face it I wear diapers which I poop often, get wheeled around in my Pram, ok so it's wheelchair but might as well be a Pram. My penis is like a boys, I can't piss but it goes into a bag on my leg and like a baby I can't even walk. I can't get a hard on because of my cage, what am I. I know, a bottom and happy to be. No honest I am happy to be one I really am. My anus is stretched my throat soon to be. My mouth is wet and my tongue is well practiced at cleaning sperm from men's anal passages or out of someone else's mouth. I will leave penile pleasure to others that know what they are doing.
Totally the same for me. She used to like my penis and what it could do; she particularly liked the feeling of the tip hitting her cervix. But as time has passed it has become irrelevant to her as she just loves cunnilingus so much. She hardly ever fellated me in the old days, so I think she is particularly pleased our sex life has turned out so much the opposite of societal norms, and she gets that caging my penis is an important factor in keeping it that way.
Well my ex wife seems to like mine way more now that it is caged and she has the key. Funny how she loves it more now....
My gf does like my dick, we're still in our twenties and she doesn't really see why she should do without it. Part of figuring out my chastity training is how to replace it - currently trying penis sleeves and/or condoms.
Thanks for the replies. If you note that my post was at 7:30 am, it was not written when I woke up but rather I had not gone to sleep yet I had an Ambien and a half sleeping pill in me and 100 MG of Xanax. That explains all the grammar and spelling mistakes, at least more than usual. I actually was very popular with women in my younger days. I had 30+ sex partners including two guys, many who were willing to share me, even my wife. All three of my relationships were with bisexual women because I liked sex with more than one woman at a time. I must give off powerful Pheromones because women often tried to pick me up and offer sex but never ask for a date. My wife shared me with other women most of our 44 year marriage and never got jealous or even asked what I did with other women or who they were. So when I hit my late 50's and gained weight and got ED, I was happy to let my wife control our sex life. I felt that I owed her at least that and more. Funny thing is that my wife used to complain that my penis was too big and hurt her vagina and mouth. Now it is too small. What a difference 5 decades and 100 lbs more makes. I went from 117 lbs. when we married which made my 6.5" penis look big on my frame to being considered too small to have intercourse now. That is OK as I am really tired after several thousand threesomes and as many as four women in my life at the same time. I would have sex with one during my lunch hour, one after work in my car, then go home have a threesome and followed by one on one with each of my ladies at home. Thank goodness for Viagra and a young man's stamina. Now once a week is more than enough for me.
My wife does not like my penis. She is not a lesbian, finds me attractive, but would be perfectly happy if I had no penis. It does nothing good for her. The only thing my wife likes about it is the way I respond when she touches it. And she only enjoys that once in a while. She would rather touch me other places while locked up most other times.
My penis is of not much importance to my Wife. We haven't had intercourse in 20 years, and She rarely touches it in a loving way. She does enjoy hurting it however. Normally, She refers to it as small, limp and pathetic. She is right on all counts.
My wife was bored taking the same penis in her for 25 years. So she locked me permanently. But at the same time, she says it's her property; and so she has kept it in a locker just like she keeps her ornaments in bank locker. So it is her property attached to me!
I guess that's one thing I forgot to mention. She has really liked the idea of its possession. The whole mine or my cock has really appealed to her. She really got into taking possession of it and the idea that it no longer belongs to me. In fact I think that was one of the first things that she was really on board with.
My penis is less than 4 inches long when erect. My (now-ex) wife enjoyed the intimacy of bare skin body contact and could climax only during penetration as long as I did a lengthy oral warmup. She often looked at images of men with big cocks but always told me she preferred mine because it was "real", even if it was small! I overheard her discussing cock size with her sister and she said the same thing so I am pretty sure she was being truthful. Like @Nicoftime my genitals belonged totally to my wife. She would regularly tell me that my penis was hers and "just happened to be attached to my body". She would play with my cock for ages in bed, often edging me over and over before falling asleep with her body spooned behind me. Now my ex is living with another woman and I am in Chastity with Miss Carol. She too considers my penis her property and often removes my cage just to look at my penis and watch it expand under her expert touch.
My wife loves my penis and loves sex with me. It was my idea about being in chastity and she had some questions but is 100 % behind it. I think after last night she is even more loving the chastity and teasing me
Very interesting question @Vinny... My wife and I have been doing chastity for about 18 months now. We previously had been having intercourse about 3 times a week and each time with me having an orgasm and then drifting off to sleep. I was very selfish, very. I don't think she really ever had an orgasm with me in her and recently told me that she was letting me in her for my pleasure only. I'm not very big about 5.5" erect last I knew and that was about a year ago when I last measured. Fast forward to today and she wants me to give her oral daily and have her boyfriend (pink rabbit vibe) as often. She now has multiple orgasms and said she really doesn't need or even want my penis in her. She said maybe on a special occasion I can enter her. I'm coming to terms with never having a full orgasm again and possibly never entering her as well. She says it's best for both of us this way. "I love you, but I don't want it in me anymore". The only way I get to orgasm is by having what she calls a Sissy one when my little "sissy thing" as she calls it stays locked up and I cum in my cage and make a mess in my panties. The real test was last night when we were playing and I thought for sure she would let me in her and cum. I would be away from home for a few days and in the past we would always have intercourse. Last night, no intercourse and I stayed locked while she spent time with her boyfriend having two great orgasms. I'm now really believing she doesn't want my penis anymore. My wife/KH is the most amazing woman I have ever known!
I definitely do love your penis and sex with you. I am also definitely behind it 100% and after last night even more so. I am thoroughly enjoying this journey so far!
My wife has never complained about my penis size or its ability to please her, although she has now discovered another realm which she also has learned to enjoy. She refers to it as her purple monster and it is a bit larger than myself. When she is keeping me locked and denied, she frequently enjoys this while I give her oral at the same time. We also have a ball gag with a firmer dildo attached which she occasionally enjoys. However, after she has denied me for a period of time, I do get rock hard and she is still happy to take full advantage, even if she chooses not to let me cum. So, lucky for me, I know she still loves my penis and doesn't want it locked for good just yet, thankfully. She still has some desire and use for it.
You guys are making me jealous. Even if unlocked I could do no more than I am doing now. I have to wait for my birthday this month to perform oral on her for the second time this year and I know she will have a small orgasm and say it was OK but I know it is nothing like her body cramping orgasms with BOB, her Battery Operated Buddy. Actually this is BOB II. She wore out the original BOB. I cannot complain though. I have a rich sex life up to my late 50's. Not many husbands can say that their wife picked out women for them to have sex with and then moved one into their home and gave him full access to her for 30 years. I am paying the price for my thousands of threesomes and fetishes. I am at peace with it. Only thing I worry about is that my wife keeps reducing the number of orgasms I have each year. After 3-4 months it really gets difficult.
My Wife likes my penis inside her and despite my own issues with my size she doesn't and hasn't ever wanted anything bigger. I am just over 6" erect but absolutely tiny when flaccid. As for my penis itself she did like it but never actually said so. Before we started using chastity my fetish was genital modification. I had all sorts of plans for having piercings, an ampallang through my glans and a complete scrotal piercing. My first stage, to split my glans was completed and freaked her out. She had given me permission to do it but hated the result. I don't blame her, I had shown her a picture but it hadn't registered what I was actually planning. Unfortunately there was no way back. I suggested that I wear a chastity device as a way of covering up what I had done, not as a way of introducing chastity. All that stuff and how much she loves it came much later. It developed slowly and now I get to have an orgasm on average once every two months, though I am way past that already at the moment.
M likes my penis. She likes stroking it. She really likes penetration. She likes sex. She even likes it when I climax inside her but has been very willing to give this up to deny me. One thing (of several) that she enjoys about chastity/bondage sex is that we are not chasing climaxes. She can climax or not as she feels inclined. I'm not invested in making her climax. I rarely get to climax. She likes like my climax but even more likes the effects of not letting me climax. M sometimes speculates that it is too bad she likes penetration so much. If she did not then she could be much more effective in denying me penetration. That idea excites me but I believe full time denial would be too much. But every person is different.
The only complaint I got from my wife about the size was, that it is too big. Anyway, her "feelings" for it are to declare it irrelevant in our relationship.
My Mistress touched my pee pee for the last time in my life in January. She let me take a picture, looked me in the eye and told me she would never touch my clitty again, she has been true to her word
My wife likes PIV, and she also likes it when I rub "little willy" between her legs during our tease sessions, but she does not touch "little willy" with her hands very often...unless she goes over a week without an orgasm (which rarely happens anymore). And it's not because she wants my penis between her legs, it's because she wants my tongue between her legs.