Request for a Vanilla Wives Section.

Look at my first post the apology came after that. I did not trash talk I simply pointed how he was rude and vulger to my partner. five minutes later he is posting about somewhere safe for his wife to post. Just like you double standered. Had you not jumped with with both feet this matter would have been resolved.
just so you know again I will say, My post was in defence partner and the apology came after the post.
The only one that has a problem now is you.

I have traveled for 6 hours by train to be with @Mistress Jules all I want to do now is relax and enjoy the rest of my evening.
Perhaps you could do the same. Or will you want to have the last word just for the sake of it?

 

Thank you

 

I have given up trying to encourage my Wife to join the Mansion. I cannot really say why but the flavour of the place has definitely changed in recent times. I'm not blaming anyone in particular but there are an increasing number of argumentative posts. Long term members are checking out or being ejected, some of the newer members who I enjoyed interacting with have also given up and left. There is simply nothing here for my Wife to engage with.

I think @lockit was actually quite restrained in the way he wrote about the way @Mistress Jules was spoken to. But what I think isn't important.

I noticed a long time ago that many of the old, established members of the Mansion no longer posted anything. Now I am beginning to understand why that might be.

I honestly believe that a vanilla section is doomed to fail.

 

I agree. CM is not what it used to be. I have moved 99% of my activity to fetlife, where my wife is too. She will never return to CM.

 

I can't imagine fetlife is any less a problem in that regard. But to each their own.

I found fetlife to be a bit judgmental. Was told we were doing it wrong, anything less than a piercing device was just play, and I should be locked no less than three months at a time...after I told people to bugger off, many came around saying those were isolated incidents and doesn't speak for all. Too late, I didn't feel comfortable having her be bombarded with the "right" way to do this.

 

well i think its cos a lot of the Ladies have gone.

 

there is some Ladies join but they don't chat much cept for LadyS and i like Her.