Getting Rid of an Erection

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  1. PouchPantyLover
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    New user here and still very new to chastity. One issue I haven't seen discussed here is getting rid of an erection after a tease and denial session. Usually I have a raging hard-on that doesn't go away. Tried forcing my device on once and hurt myself. Given enough time it will eventually go away, but my wife and I don't have a lot of time to play. Jobs, kids, you probably know the routine. It's also a challenge because my wife just being near me is arousing and she doesn't want to leave me unlocked and unsupervised. We both know how I would cure that erection problem if she did. Any advice?
     
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    walk it off. Or try a bowl of ice water to put your package in.
     
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    Ice water or a bag of frozen peas will too! Sometimes I find that if I pee after a denial session the boner goes away. Same with the dreaded nighttime erections while cages. Those suck truly and sometimes its so bad that it hurts to try and pee in a cage while sporting a fledgling boner. I don't really recommend that but it should ease the boner a little....
     
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    Any type of ice will work nicely, even my wife's cold hands.
     
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    A bowl of Ice water will bring you down better than anything, and quickly.
     
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    Some pushups will work too. It'll help pull blood to your muscles doing work and away from other parts.
     
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    For me im left free untill morning or later for a few reasons.

    • Im a grower and after being played with I cannot fit into my 28mm small cage.
    • Im also a high n tight baller so anything cold will shrink my balls untill there is nothing to put through a ring not even skin.
    • only when im warm can i even pull my balls into a ball trap device ring.
     
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    I struggle a bit with the same problem.
    I do like the push-up idea, my wife's cold hands will worsen the situation as I love Her cold hands on Her property - yes, I may be a bit of a masochist...
     
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    a solution may be to remove the cage, but leave the base ring on during tease sessions.
    if the ring has a post it can be rotated 180 to the bottom where it's less in the way.
     
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    If you suffer from one of those 4+ hour erections from viagra use I hear they give you an ice water enema in the hospital. So there's an idea!
     
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    Thank you all for the great ideas! Did a cold shower after being edged yesterday and it kinda worked on the erection, but made the boys really tight and hard to handle. Will keep trying. Going to push-ups next.
     
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    Tense the muscles in your legs. Push ups also work. You just need to get the blood somewhere else in your body.
     
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    Leaving the base ring on is good as is cold water .
    Be careful of frozen stuff as freezers are -18 °c or should be !

    Just go and do the washing up or something to take your mind off sex .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Leave some chores to do after the teasing, doing some dishes in te kitchen, or something else that takes away your focus on your boner.
    It helps me, but I must admit: teasing is hardly ever on the agenda for me :(
     
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    I reckon plenty of lube and a steady pressure pushing the cage onto the end of the boner eventually works. Initially it seems like no progress is being made but gradually I end up inside the cage (trying to burst out of the other end actually. Then its a case of getting the cage and the ring engaged without trapping bits if skin and punching holes in them (that tends to quicken the process of course!). The old 'Sentinal' cage was good for this (not great in other ways but...) as it had quite a flare to it which funnelled the junk inside.
     
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    My wife tells me to think about Hillary Clinton. Works like a charm. Seriously.
     
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    Thinking of Trump would be more effective
     
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    I also recommend leaving the base ring on and using a bag of frozen peas. Both those things work for everytime me.
     
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    Night erections are tough! I've used cold water most of the time. I can't piss until it subsides a bit. Also a lot of counting to get my mind off of the pain. As others have said, the first week or so is the worst in my experience.
     
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    If i have an erect cock wifey gets hold of my balls with one hand and slaps my cock hard with the other.
    If i'm in my cage and getting hard i have to jump in the bath kneel under the taps and turn on the cold tap letting the cold water run over my caged cock...soon gets me flaccid again.
     
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    Thank you all for the great replies. This has become less of an issue for me as I am getting out less. The cold and the chores has become my sort of go to option. It means I might be unlocked for longer than Mistress likes, but she has been patient.
     
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