HowTo: Orgasm in the cage

I just last night had a Orgasm while locked in a Mature Metal Jailbird. All took place by using a original magic wand vibrator with alot of stimulation on ball sack and then on tip of cage. Was not very pleasurable and just oozed out for a good minute. There was no powerful shooting. More like a ruined orgasm. Was bulging through the cage and balls were getting squeezed quite hard by the base ring.

 

In the cage, for me, probably will only achieve a ruined orgasm at best, with a shot or two and lots of dribble. Ways to stimulate vary, but usually straight pressure pushing down the top of cage sometimes works. No toys involved. Also stimulate prostate, but doesn't provide much orgasm for me, just a lot of dribble. Even a simple enema gets me flowing in my cage, but not an orgasm.

 

Other than by vibration, you can grab the root of your penis and jerk it up and down. Some can just jerk off their cage if it fits them tight enough to touch their penis when it is fully or semi erect. You can also insert a swab on a stick through any opening and masturbate yourself that way. That is friction too. My wife knows that I can make myself orgasm anytime I want to no matter which of my 5 devices I wear.

My thoughts on chastity and cages is that we asks for being locked up and denied an orgasm and if we are going to try to cheat, why bother to ask for it because you are only cheating yourself. 99% of us are the ones who ask our wives and girlfriends to be our keyholders and often we have to convince them to do it. As my wife told me, she does not want to be a warden to a grown man who wants me to do something that he is going to try to undo.

For chastity to become a long time thing, both the locked male and keyholder have to be working towards the same goal. If you fight against your keyholder's wishes, she will soon find it a chore to be your KH. My wife has had an easy time of being my keyholder for the last 4+ years. I gave her my word that I will not masturbate and will lock myself up at all times unless she gives me permission to unlock. She does not have to check me daily or even have to lock me up. I do that automatically. All she has to do is decide when I get to orgasm and tease me to arouse herself. Shortly after I am moaning in sexual frustration, my moans trigger my wife's orgasm. She can deny me for a week or 4 months. I never know.

My wife does not dominate me. She plays the chastity game with me and we each have our roles in that game. it is just a game to us though. Although my normal state is wearing my Jailbird to the point where it feels as normal to me as wearing my wedding band, my cage is removed when it is not practical. There is absolutely nothing changed about my chastity if I take my cage off to go to a doctor or play a sport. I am not a crazed monkey who will grab my penis the first chance I get and jerk off like portrayed in many fantasy stories and posts. Some play a different game where they pretend that they are forced into chastity and therefore must be watched and controlled all the time. I call that Houdini play because he would ask to be locked up and then try to escape. That can be fun but it is not my fun.

 

Don't do it! I managed it once with a magic wand and was the singular least pleasurabe sexual experience of my life!

 

I would think that you could end up with very frustrating ruined orgasams and post climax blues .
For what a few seconds of something not very pleasurable.

Xx Wendy

 

Really? I mostly find that exceptionally pleasurable. It's messy for a start which is always fun, and if administered by one's partner I find the added humiliation is quite delectable.

 

As I'm allowed only locked orgasms (she calls them "non-penile" and that term makes me cringe! ) for more than 3 years now, I can assure you: they are still explosive, earth-shattering and toe-curling!
Maybe our access to chastity is a bit different, as Madame wanted to teach me, that I don't need to do things like plain old wanking to cum - and of course she was right!
So in the end it seems like when one playground is closed, another one opens up!
But as we all are individuals, I won't recommend THE way... believe me, this was a journey of trials and very frustrating errors für me, and by now I know a few tricks, but they still must not work for you.

 

Just experienced the new playground not like the old one, the playground never ends the same. Love that!

 

After a few weeks of denial having some kind of caged orgasm is ridiculously easy. If I have been mentally and physically teased by my partner for a good while I can achieve an orgasm of sorts by simply lying on my front and reading, completely hands free. The last time this happened I was reading a story on Tumblr about a guy in a slave relationship. The story affected me so much that I suddenly realised that I was about to cum and there was nothing I could do to stop it. All it took was the feelings of arousal, the feelings of my HTv2 being pressed into my abdomen and the built up feelings resulting from the teasing from my Wife.

This scenario has now happened twice. The second time I repeated the process as a way of testing whether it was repeatable. I lay on my front, read the same story and at almost exactly the same place in the story I came again.

I haven't tried doing this in a room with my Wife, that could be an interesting experience. Both times it did happen I had been sent to my own bedroom.

 

I don't suppose you'd share a link to the story? For..umm..research purposes.

 

My Wife/KH @n2toys has given me permission to cum while caged anytime I can during a teasing session; at times I have felt SOOOO close but can't quite get there - I'd Love to have ruined-O or a serious milking while caged - I'm thinking this now but would probably think differently in the heat of the moment; however, the Submissive After-Glow would probably be incredible!

One exception was a few weeks ago after spending some time locked and extremely horny - we we're cuddling and I felt like I had to pee when all of sudden I had a milky/sticky discharge; zero sign of any type of orgasm, apparently pretty much an instantaneous milking...

 

Problem solved

 

What power box do you use?
We have a decent regular cheap medical TENS unit along with the tubing for wrapping around shaft and an Aneros modified with copper tape that's setup in a bi-polar configuration.
We haven't played w/ the TENS unit since locked - may be something we need to try...

 

interesting but I don't think I want to orgasm in the cage. for me part of the point is to not orgasm unless its PIV with my wife.

 

I could but I have extreme niche interests! The story details how the slave was first strapped down and castrated and then, at a later date, strapped down and given a partial penectomy. The suprising thing for me is while I do have genital modifications I do not fantasize about having a penectomy, though I did go through a period of thinking about being castrated. Being put into chastity has cured me of that obsession as, without my balls, there would be no point in being kept chaste.

I think that the effect the story had on me was because of the total submission the slave demonstrated and the extreme levels the Master took that submission. There was no mention of a safe word being used or even considered.

Just in case you are still interested here is the story that made me cum hands free. It only happened because of how worked up I was in the first place and how it fed into past fantasies.

http://mister-thursday.tumblr.com/post/134560052229/eunuch-jackoff-free-solo-man-porn-video-4d

 

All that stuff and more is from PES

http://www.peselectro.com/pescontent/
I use this company's equipment

 

Not advocating that you orgasm in cage, just saying estim will do the job

 

Thanks! I have a wide variety of fantasy interests that aren't always in line with what I'd actually *want* to do. I get it

 

I can cum easily while being penetrated by my wife with her strapon or with a little lube while rubbing the little bit of exposed penis head, much like rubbing a clit.

Anyone interested in a good story, try this one...

https://lockedinlace.com/main/taxonomy/term/210

 

ORGASMS ! On those rare occasions I get unlocked,but "orgasms"while locked in my case are a mix of Jasmic68 and Subby Hubby 's comments:
Long stimulation of the prostate AND the tip protuding the cage,after weeks locked and either verbal teasing about one of my fantasies known by my KHwife or deep concentration visualizing a recently read story and lots of luck,because in my case it sometimes works and sometimes remains being just sweet frustration! Lol

 

It sounds like you want this and not your wife but you want to get her to do it. That is easy. Just say that you are curious to see if she can make you cum if she "insert whatever method you want here" while you are locked up. I suggest holding a vibrator or Prostate stimulation, although the latter is not as easy as it is reported to be. With the Prostate massage, it may take a few times of trying it before any results and failing a few times is not going to empower your wife.

My secret is to use psychology to give my wife positive re-enforcement when she does something I like. Then act your butt off. I have already had my wife use a vibrator on me when locked and when I came I made it sound like I was going to die of pleasure. Afterwards I told her how different the pleasures was that way. After a few times she learns that doing that is going to produce a very positive result so she will want to do it often.

Ask her to try it because you read that it is a unique experience or something and then provide her with a reason to want to do it again by showing your pleasure during and after your orgasm. I used to enjoy anal stimulation until I got an anal fissure that required surgery to fix. After that, no more anal stuff for me.

Personally I do not like to have an orgasm when I am locked up, even though we did it a few times. The reason is because my chastity period is ended, I no longer feel horny or sexually charged with energy and have to start all over getting past those first two weeks when a male's hormones are urging him to orgasm. If I am going to have to go through that again, I rather have an orgasm when I am not locked and by oral and not a vibrator. Give it a try though. Probably most of us have done it.

For me, the anticipation of an orgasm is what I enjoy more than the orgasm itself so having an orgasm locked or not is 10 seconds of pleasure and then days of feeling low energy and bored.

 

for the caged orgasm we use a G-Vibe2 with one ""tentacle"" pressed under the scrotum and the other one over the cage. works very well, but is really effective after at least 2 weeks of cage wearing. anyway is a rare treat for him, often replaced with a xl steel buttplug worn all night who gives, like side effect, a kind of milking.

 

As an update to my earlier post, this hands free unstimulated orgasm I described has now happened a third time, and this time I was lying next to my Wife when it happened. All I had time to say was "Elle, I'm... " and it happened. We had been in the shower together where I had got very aroused cleaning her and then she had teased me. After we had got out and dried we lay on her bed together, reading.

I realized the feelings were building up but was shocked with how quickly it happened. She knows I wasn't doing anything to help it as I had both my hands on my iPad when it happened. She was enthralled by it, and couldn't stop laying at me. Then she mentioned how much my body was shaking and started having fun poking, prodding and tweaking various parts of me, making me twitch.