Dominant Outfits

YES!!!

 

Probably need two columns here:

Her List: His List:

Whatever she wants Well, it's long and it's specific because she can

I love her lingerie, I love hand- washing and caring for it and I love when she dresses in front of me for a rendezvous with her lover and she asks me how she looks. There's a wide variety of clothing that she wears that defines her feminine power. Yesterday it was a breezy summertime yellow sundress and white sandals that she wore out on her date with him. Today she's walking around the house in my Iron Butterfly t-shirt and panties. She goes where the mood takes her. For me (and her) that spells Dominance!

 

Sorry, I made a complete mess of the above post. Her List was supposed to be 'Whatever She Wants' and His List was supposed to be 'It's Long And Specific and There Might Be Some Cross-Over'. I think it lost something in the translation.

Anyway, I got the underneath bit right.

 

I really love to see her wear leather. There are a couple variants:

Dominatrix: Officer cap, corset, gloves, short/long skirt, high-heel boots, crop. Activities: Boot worship, supervised masturbation, licking her under the mini skirt, light ass whipping.

Riding Mistress: Top, pants, riding boots, crop, gloves; trainer bit gag, reigns. Activities: Pony training, masturbation on the riding boots.

All in all it probably is topping from the bottom that I choose her clothes. But I see us more as a loving couple with a leather fetish on my side than some FLR.

 

A good mix of posts here, the fantasy responses and the realism responses.

The OP asked what she should wear to look like a domme. Some great responses along the lines of wear what you feel is right for you. Are you wanting to feel good/sexy in yourself ? Do you want to look good/sexy for a particular person ? Do you just want to be comfortable ?

About the most dominant I ever saw my domme was when she'd just climbed off the ladder from painting the ceiling dressed in paint spattered jeans and t-shirt. Sure, taking time with an outfit and an image that works for you can be pleasing for all, but it's the attitude within that makes all the difference to the image.

I knew a sub on one site who even after many years was still emphatic that being a domme required a 24/7 uniform of leather corset, heels and a crop.

Choose whatever you want to convey your unique image, don't let yourself be forced in to a stereotype.

 

I knew a sub on one site who even after many years was still emphatic that being a domme required a 24/7 uniform of leather corset, heels and a crop.​

That is a nice fantasy and that is probably what they offered at the Other World Kingdom (OWK). This fantasy is quite appealing, but my girlfriend what would quickly tell me that this is not workable. But that does stop us from talking about how she could come home with leather boots and ordering me to kiss them.

 

Foundation wear is most definitely more attractive to me than any neglege or boudoir wear.
The sexiest , well one of the sexiest things my wife says to me is, "Let me get into something uncomfortable." I think I must have picked up my fetish from jacking off to the sears, Pennys, Montgomery Wards and Spiegal catalogs when I was a teenager. Can you believe it? My dad, rest his soul, had zero porn!
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While we are talking about our individual perception of sexy wear, I must say that while long legged high waisted girdles revv my engine, jodhpurs does it for me in a big way too. Another item I love my wife to wear is stirrup pants. There is just something about stirrup pants!
Of course another is her full blown cosmetology "uniform". There is something about the authoritative look and demeanor of a dominatrix hairdresser.
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STOP IT!!! Your stressing the limits of my cage!!! lol

 

I was dominated for a year when I was 19 and then for most of my 44 year marriage by my wife's girlfriend and my wife. All of them were just naked, the way I like my dommes to be. I like to know what I am not getting. Not into dressing up. Does nothing for me.

 

I so agree. Dressed in business attire, a party dress or casual jeans and top while wearing heels does it for me especially if showing cleavage and some leg. As long as its feminine. I prefer to be naked to offset her beauty appearance. No latex, leather or costumes needed. Me on my knees for worshipping Her.