Age question

Embracing aspects of sexuality is always scarey because of fear. As for 42 being too old, perish the thought!
Ss

 

Age is just a number, we just started, I am 53 and my K/H girlfriend is a bit older then me. Have at it and enjoy!

 

I agree. Age is not even a factor when it comes to sex, domination, chastity, kinky play or whatever you're referring to. The only buzz kill is when your physical limits (medical conditions or injuries) stop you from enjoying your kinks. So age, in itself, is not the factor. So be safe and have fun with it!

 

Started in my 40's

 

Started 3 Years ago, at 23. It's been tons of fun, so far!

 

We are older then you are... And it works fine...
A lot of people have to be older in the mind to let go and start having fun. Maybe the small evil people (also known as kids) have to move out. A lot of people are scared to death that the children will notice what they actually likes .

 

I was 22 when I realized I wanted to be in chastity. I stumbled upon a mistresses website talking about it after two months of no fap, surprisingly enough. Then it became an instant fetish.

I find older women tend to be more willing to dominate anyway. You might be in luck.

 

Started in when I was 48 now 53 and couldn't be happier whish I started way earlier

 

My wife and I started at 31 now 32. The only question I have is when I get older n if it stops working as good as it does now will I regret introducing this to her.

 

A few months ago(I'm 23). It is a life changing experience. If someone found me a few years ago and told me what I would want today, I'd tell him to get outta here. But now I can see and feel all the benefits.

 

We don't believe that you can be to old for kinky fun

 

i was 51 when i first got my clitty caged,Mistress eased me into it a few hours,then days now weeks.so far the longest ive been caged is a month be am told that will soon change .

 

Though many people who practice BDSM started relaviely young there are on the other hand quite a view pople who start pretty late. Why so ? Because sexuality (usually) is part of a continuous development and therefor some people discover some of their preferences at an older age. Should they be in a marriage or other kind of long term relationship by then it might take still longer to find a way to talk with their partners about their new found preferences.

Therefore I do not think early 40ties too late. Especially as one has not to be some hardcore domme to participate in this kink (chastity). A point many men would do well to acknowledge and remember if want their partner to participate and therefore need to reach an agreement about how things are done.

 

I came out as a submissive to my ex-wife last year after she asked me to watch 50 Shades of Gray with her. We started seeing each other again and now we have been living together for 2 months. I have been using a Holy Trainer episodically (a few hours to a day or a night at a time. Longer is too uncomfortable). I am 75 and she is 65. She is slowly feeling her way into expressing her dominance. We bought a number of toys together. She uses a whip, but too sparingly. I really want her to punish me when I disobey her or talk back to her. I see forward movement but it is way slow. She enjoys my taking her boots off after work and having me worship her feet (smelling them/kissing them). She has been leaving me her worn panties, which is a huge turn on for me. She has occasionally tied my arms to the beds posts and teased me with her pussy scent and jerked me off. I ask her not to let me come as I want to remain in lust for her. She has twice masturbated with a vibrator while I was under her kissing her ass and pussy and licking up her juice. Very sexy. These scenes occur at most, every two weeks. When she is at work I will play with her cock while smelling her panties and a small amount of come oozes out, but no ejaculation. I have difficulty getting real hard and staying hard and I come very quickly when I am inside of her pussy.

I have some questions:

Will chastity have a positive effect on: hardness?; staying power?

Is it reasonable to expect (given the facts stated) that she will become more dominant with time?

Is there anything I can do/say to encourage/speed up her dominance?

Any suggestions for further information about these issues?

 

Submissive since I can remember but had no idea that devices really existed until I saw it on some internet porn in 2004(had no computer till then). I had heard of Middle Ages belts but not modern day ones.

I was in my early thirties and thought how wonderful it would be to lose all that control where you COULDN'T get erection or orgasm. Even tried to fabricate a simple device...was terrible and unwearable. Secretly ordered a steel cage and wore it for a few days, but wasn't custom and I could literally fit it between the ring gap. Once I knew it was so incredibly defeatable I saw no point of wearing it. Never told my then wife about it and tossed it in the garbage.

I was 31 but didn't practice this with anyone till now and am 43. Never too late.

 

I started around 55, the Wife became involved with my chastity when she was 59. We have mentioned to each other that is might have been interesting to have started this at an earlier age, but that is water over the bridge. We are having fun with this now and that is what counts.

 

I'm 51 my key holder/future wife is 52. You are never to old to try something new!

 

i feel it's never too late to do anything! why did it take so long to discover the need for chastity??

 

I was 45 now 53 still enjoying it

 

I was 51 and my wife was 50 when I asked her to lock me up. We have never looked back but I wish we could have found my chastity many years ago. It is never too late right

 

Not sure if we frivolous part-timers really count but were in our mid 50s when we started chastity play and are now in our early 60s. Have gradually shrugged off the sexual straight-jackets of our upbringings to embrace more kinks as time goes on.

 

One may be "too old to Rock'n'Roll" and definetely "too young to die" - as Jethro Tull once put it!
And I admit, that nowadays I am not as fond of climbing up trees as I was when I was nine, but chastity is an ageless fun.
In fact it might make you feel much younger, as sometimes I still feel as horny as a bunch of Teenagers who found the peephole to the girl's shower-room!

 

I knew for about 8-10 years now that I wanted to be in chastity and been with my princess for 5 years now, but was extremely nervous about opening up my deepest darkest fetishes until recently( which she has stated she would have been open to it from the start if I would have asked)

 

I was 19, I remember the day I was locked for the first time it was on her birthday.