Proof from online subs

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    I've been enjoying playing with a few online subs that I've met here. As they'll attest I'm very strict about requiring proof that my instructions are being followed. I don't want things to become routine and was hoping for some advice on creative ways to have an online sub verify compliance.

    I'd love to hear from Dom's, Domme's, Keyholders and subs what has worked for them and maybe hear some ideas that haven't been tried yet.

    Thank you.

    (No doubt my online subs and sissies will be reading this and dreading your responses.)
     
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    Yikes
     
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    Yikes?

    You'd be shocked by what some sissies are willing and eager to do. I think for some the act of providing proof is more exciting than the assigned activity itself.
     
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    As above 100% right.
     
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    Case in point.

    Someone I met online less than two hours ago just sent me pictures of the panties and chastity belt he's wearing at the office today. He thanked me profusely for the opportunity.
     
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    Hope that not some photo they found online.
    Real proof send them a code.
     
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    Hey who's idea are you on. lol
     
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    They did. He didn't fake it. I wasn't born yesterday.
     
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    You are absolutely right, the act of providing proof is the exciting part!
     
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    Sounds like the voice of experience!

     
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    I hate when I think of a good response too late. I should have said "prove it"!
     
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    Could be done by a pic showing collar, cage or anklet with tag with name of Domme/KH.
     
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    I had an online Mistress once who had me go shopping. I had to go to Walmart, Kmart, and Target and try on bras. Had to take / send pics of the store, prices, bras, then had to find a way to sneak them in and take pics. It was embarrassing, arousing, very degrading, and loved it all.

    Another mistress demanded one day that I was to never wear panties again. We were already in a routine where I would send photos of me in panties of the day. So this day she said no more. I was to remove them immediately. SO I went to the bathroom and removed them. Sent her a pic, then on the way back to the office, she texted and had me go back to the bathroom. She thought maybe I had put them back on and she asked me to send a pic of the panties in the toilet getting flushed (cheap gstring that day, thanfully), so I did it. the hardest part was sitting in a stall, taking off my shoes, pants, etc, praying nobody would come in and see my feet out of my shoes.

    So far, my current Mistress has not asked me to do anything like that. She just likes to see my daily panties (used to like to see me cum once a week, but I have a tough time doing that anymore as I rarely get hard, and I hate the let down afterwards).
     
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    Back in the infancy of the internet when my wife's girlfriend was not dominating me, I tried online Mistresses twice. In both cases they turned out to be men so I never did it again. You bring up a good point though, domming from a distance makes it difficult to know if the sub is actually doing the things you want him or her to do or just jerking off thinking about it. I know that I did not do all that I was told, even though I thought it was a woman telling me to do so. Once my wife's girlfriend moved in with us, she watched me do what I was told so it was completely different. To me it does make a difference if my Mistress is there with me to see what I do for her.

    I would think that these days you can have your sub video what he does on his smart phone. If he does not have a smart phone, order him to buy one. :)
     
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    Proof now is made a lot easier with smartphones.
    Most of us have one so proof can be almost instant.
    All @Mistress Jules has to do is text and ask me to verify I am locked.
    She will ask for a verification photo my locked cage and an item to be in the photo a coin, banknote, or pen etc etc
     
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    The site I run, chastitylocked.com, uses a simple method - it generates, randomly, a sequence of five characters. Those five must appear on a piece of paper in a picture with the closed belt on it. PM me if you want an example of one of my own verifications done that way
     
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    When hitting the send button when sending the picture that proves your accomplishment of an assignment you pass a point of no return. The Domme now have an eternal proof that you cannot change, she owns you a little bit more than before.
     
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    YIKES
     
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    Oh so very true! and yet that is what gives some of us such a rush!
     
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    My kh has had several people on cm ask her to be their online domme/keyholder...I don't particularly like the idea.

    I am her sub, and would feel hurt if she dedicated her time away from me to control another. I would rather she said she wanted to fuck someone with a huge cock right in front of me, than know someone was taking my place as hers. One would be animal sex with no emotional ties, the other would be someone committing themselves to her and accepting that commitment.

    Nope I wouldn't like that one little bit lol
     
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    Yes, when preparing and sending the proof, the heart rate increases fast!
     
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    i imagine this is true. A permanent reminder of submission.
     
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    I have held an online key for three subs before. It was interesting dreaming up proofs and tasks and the sessions seemed to be good fun on both sides. They all complied with any instructions and of course everything was and still is in the strictest confidence.
     
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