Burning sensation (Noob Question)

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    We're new to 24/7 chastity. We're in week number two in a three day on and 2-3 days off cycle. Eventually the *on* time will be longer, but that's probably going to happen once we get a QueensKeep. For now, I'm in a poor quality Jailbird clone purchased from Amazon via Prime not marketplace. I am overweight and my scrotum and penis are of average length and girth.

    With the background bits out of the way, on to the topic at hand for which your feedback will be much appreciated.

    Is the scrotum supposed to get pushed out and away from the body?
    Are the balls supposed to be spread- the left one pushed more to the left and the right more to the right?
    When I'm sitting down, I bottom portion of the scrotum closest to the body burns. I feel an intense burning right where the bottom portion of the ring is on my scrotum. Is this normal? Part of the scrotum being stretched? (The burning sensation is completely gone when I stand up or am walking around.)

    If requested or needed, I can post pics in a reply so that you're not all needlessly subjected visual torture.
     
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    Yes. Your scrotum is going to stretch a bit when you get hard from the ring being there.
     
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    Sure. I do understand that the scrotum will stretch, especially when I'm hard. But the burning sensation occurs when I'm sitting down regardless of my or is being flaccid or erect.
     
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    Lube, lube and lube. Silicone type.

    You don't want a lube or moisturizer that fades quickly or one that traps odor and bacteria.

    Possible that the ring is a bit on the tight side? Can you slide your index finger up to at least the first nuckle in the ring while your wearing it?
     
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    @traveler
    We typically use organic raw coconut oil for lube, though we do have some PH neutral hybrid (<10% silicone) lube as well. That being said, I've not tried lubing up the chastity device. Won't it slip off?
    As for finger fitting- I can barely get my finger in to the first knuckle,but that involves squishing my penis a bit. The rings inner diameter is two inches.
     
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    This burning sensation is completely normal. I still get it occasionally after 9 months in my Holy Trainer but nothing like as bad as when I first put it on. I found that Vaseline was the lube that helped me the most, and I only need a small amount occasionally now.

    It is also very natural for everything to be pushed away from your body when you have a contained erection. I still find it amazing that what is becoming erect isn't actually my penis as that is very obviously still inside the tube of my device, unable to get erect at all. This bulging has become one of my Wife's favorite things about me wearing the device, it makes her giggle when she sees how frustratingly aroused I am.
     
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    I wear a CB6000s, it won't fall off. IMHO to me it sounds like the ring is just a tad too small.

    As for things getting separated and pushed away from your body, that's all normal.
     
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    @Jasmic68 @traveler
    Thank you for the insights/confirmation. Points taken regarding the burning sensation.
    Penis and scrotum being pushed away- especially the scrotum, it's definitely pushed away from the normal hanging position. But I take that to the case because there's a ring between it and my body. It gets extra pushed when immerect, but is always pushed away from the body while I'm wearing the device.
     
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    Additional question:
    How much does the scrotum stretch? Does it stretch enough to not be uncomfortable in the device any longer, or dies is noticeably stretch. In other words, can you see the difference? Or is the stretching visually negligible?
     
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    Oh, you can definitely see the stretch! I have gone from having balls that were high and tight to now having balls that hang much lower, in fact I could probably sit on them if I wasn't careful!
     
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    Pics posted in a gallery titled "Views of Cage".
     
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    Thank you for sharing. How do you get along with balls being so low?
     
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    I actually like the feeling. They are much more comfortable in my device though I am going to have to buy a smaller ring for my HTv2. They are also much more available for my Wife to use when she teases me. She can also pull them away from my body and hold a wand massager against them which feels incredible.
     
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    Wifey will be excited to read that last bit. We do not yet own a Hitachi manager style device.
     
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    I recommend the Lovehoney massager. It is the first vibrator that ever helped my Wife have an orgasm. I am sure all those penis substitute penetrative vibrators work for someone but they never got my Wife anywhere. The wand on the other hand worked brilliantly. It is quiet and is mains powered so no dying batteries to replace. We love it.
     
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    Once again, thank you for the recommendation. My wife is one of the fortune(?) few women who orgasm from penetration (g-spot stimulation); clitoral stimulation is an add bonus, as it were. None the less, a few of her special lady friends have used a Hitachi massager type device on her and she's liked it. It's just not the highest thing on her toy list. But I think she'll be optioning for one soon enough.
     
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    There is a g-spot massager attachment that can be put on the head of the Lovehoney wand. We haven't used it yet but we have got it, so I cannot give a recommendation yet but hope to be able to do so soon.
     
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    That's fantastic. Will be looking it up.
     
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    I wouldn't worry too much about your balls stretching that much. It's not that big of a deal.

    Persoanlly I already have low balls to begin with.
     
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    Lube solved the problem. Thank you all.
     
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