Are you all locked 24-7?

Started off slow and over time it increased now my wife has me locked 24/7 for months at a time ....it is a lifestyle now

 

Why does it have to be if you have upset your Wife? I am locked 24/7 for weeks at a time because it pleases her. Chastity is very much a mind set and my response to being locked up is a positive reinforcement. I now prefer to be locked up and would prefer to go longer between orgasms due to the way it makes my Wife so happy.

 

Started off 24/7 and has been that way ever since. The longest I have been unlocked in last 14 years is 6 hours. Trust me, ypu get used to it.

 

I have been in part time chastity for many years on and off. This year was not much different but I have seriously abstained from masturbating - only three times in six months. I would like to progress to being held in chastity for more time overall and for longer periods. Being locked 24/7 or close to it is a dream of mine. I have only managed a little under two weeks at a time. Currently working through some issues with my wife so we have backed off for a while, but I hope to resume being locked up again in the near future. I am impressed by DeesHubby going cold turkey from day one. That must be mind altering at first. I wouldn't mind experiencing that. I briefly played a game with a previous girlfriend where I was allowed daily masturbation or full on sex at least once a day for a week or so, alternating with similar periods of 24/7 lock up. The idea being to see how frustrating it was to have frequent orgasms suddenly taken away from me for many days.

 

We have only been into chastity for a short time but it is 24/7 already. While it does get frustrating at times, the benefits to the relationship far outweigh the negatives, although all the negatives seems to be on my side of the table...lol. To be honest, many times I don't even know I'm wearing it anymore during a normal working day until I need to use the bathroom or start thinking about it. Truth be told, since we don't live together 24/7, if I wasn't locked up I really don't think I would have the willpower to not get myself off after a period of time and that would defeat the purpose.

Don't be scared, you will probably enjoy it!

 

I think it takes time for both people engaged in chastity to get used to it.

From what I see, many men tend to watch internet porn, chastity captions etc, that tend to be very hot and sexy, yet not very realistic. It takes time getting used to wear a steel/plastic/nylon/whatever device locked 24/7 on Your genitals, being unable to have an erection. It takes time to find a best way to put it on, how to wear it, how to lubricate, how to urinate and maintain hygiene.

From the other side, not every women will find the idea interesting right away. Some may seems curious, some may be more be a little affraid.

Someone said that patience is a virtue of chastity and it's 100% true. You both have to be patient. And communicate honestly with each other.

 

I'm locked 24/7 since January. I'm let out about once a week for a good cleaning and shave. Once every couple of weeks I'm let out for Mistress to play with me or a very seldom ruined one. Then it's right back in. You will get used to it in time. A proper fitting cage will make it easier to wear long term I've found. I've had to try a few devices to find one that's a good fit.

 

If your wife is not a natural Dom, my belief is that you being submissive to her will tease her latent dominant nature to come forth. My wife never played a Dom role, but since we started chastity this year, her dominate traits are coming out more and more and I can tell she is really enjoying it. I can feel it shifting from game to lifestyle.

 

I've been dealing with chastity on and off for about 5 years now. Last year we finally got really serious and purchased a Steelworxx revenge in which I was in 24/7 for an entire year. I was finally allowed to cum just just past weekend. Now I purchased a Steelworxx SteelHeart 2 which I am currently in and with no future plans of coming out until next year. I am currently planning on purchasing a Steelheart 1 but it is still afew months out. It definitely takes time to get accustomed to but well worth it.

 

If chastity is not 24/7, it is no real fun / excitement / lifestyle / discipline
Chastity for few hours a day is just fun, according to me!
The longer the lock-up period, different is the dynamics

 

I am locked 24/7 more often than not.We have played for several weeks at a time over the past couple of years.Since January this years I have been mostly locked. Wife does unlock me to use her toy every couple of weeks at bed time,then at 5 am when I get up ,I am locked back up.

 

We definitely worked into it. I see the journey as two parts the device side and the mental side. Both are needed to get there.

On the device side a few things are needed for good 24/7

• Fit - if it doesn't fit then not going to happen, and she can not have full control
• Cleanablity - if you can't keep yourself clean than it is not going be 24/7
• The little things - even if the fit is good there can be little irritations that either need to be worked out on the device or take time for your body to get used to. Go slow and figure them out.
• The ability to be active - Some devices do not allow this so the device needs to fit your lifestyle.

Then there is the mental side

Chastity can be confusing as it is full of paradoxes. Getting turned on by not getting off. Begging for release but hoping deep down that you will get a NO. Bringing couples closer by keeping some parts of them apart.

Wife

• It takes time for her to understand, embrace, and grow with it. Just like life, a continual process.
• Building the understanding that although I am in chastity it does not deny her pleasure.

Me

• keeping with it and making it work. There have definitely been times where I didn't feel like it. But if I don't put it on after she lets me out then it ruins the experience for her as well. It now hurts her feelings if it is not back on.
• Always say thank you (especially after begging really hard and they said no)
• Keep things simple. Any inconveniences will make it difficult and ruin it for both of you.
• Trying to integrate what she wants. This may have been your fantasy/kink but as she learns and grows with it, it may be part of hers now too. Everyone knows bringing fantasy to reality is hard. Especially with two peoples separate ideas and perspectives.

Most importantly enjoy the journey 24/7 or not.

 

I started part time. After work. Not through the night. I've been unlocked for about a week. I think I'm getting locked tonight for 16 days straight till my wife ovulates. She asked what I thought and my response was that it's her key.

 

For subbies that are in a relationship with a dominant partner, their length of time locked and denied is totally up to the one that holds the keys. If they wish to use the locked item, then it is unlocked and used. If they do not wish to use it, then they remain locked. Unless this is just a little game that excites the males fetish, and then.............. who cares.

 

To me this sounds like painting the world black and white. I don't like roleplay either, but there are enough gradations that I don't think that one can draw a line where ds relationships end and roleplay begins.

As for minas bitchs posting I think he got some good points as there can be a lot of diffficulties in the beginning - even if both partners want to head for 24/7. Sub has to find a device that suits him and get used to it - both physically and mentally. As this can take some time I think it natural to start with a couple of days, weeks and with time head for 24/7.

And no - there is no reason to be scared about 24/7 as 24/7 does not equal permanent denial.

 

We have been playing with chastity for years. But 24/7 was problematic due to the fact that cages like CB6k are problematicwhen it comes to cleaning. So 24/7 was only to about month or two.
But this all changed when I bought MM jailbird. She locked me in 2 months ago. And I'm still getting used to the fact it could be for a long time...

 

I am and have been since October 27, 2015... My feelings and desires have never been so alive!

 

I'm free (for now)

 

we also started slow, a few hours, the a day, then a few, now i rarely release him. and an orgasm is something he will never know. he is kept that way and loves it because it pleases me.

 

No orgasm ever again? Permanent denial forever?!!! Omg!!

 

if i have my way? yes....and i get my way.....lol