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    Permanently locked sound good - Think of all the frustration you will go hrough :)
     
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    How does this work does the rivet go into the hole for the lock and does your wife hide your drill and bits while locked (or in this case riveted) :)
     
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    I still hope some manufacturer will come up with disposable CBs one day.
    No lock, it just snaps into place and voilá it's locked away. Can only be opened by breaking it. Needs some sort of code number to make it tamper-proof.
    Depending on budget and level of commitment, these could be made from poly or steel, woth or without PA-security etc.
    Must be enough ventilation for sure.
    Entry models should become available at every target or walgreens for mass use.
     
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    I don't have a problem with permanent denial but I think sealing up a lock is a bit silly. What happens when you go to the doctor?
     
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    That is the point of permanent lock up and denial. The humiliation it brings is an important part of the fetish.
     
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    I agree completely with the humiliation aspect (I get a big kick out of it myself) but I was commenting more on a permanent seal.
     
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    The idea is that once you lock it, it is permanent but not in the sense that it can never be opened, eg when you need to see a doctor or other emergency. Just under normal circumstances, opening is not an option. Whole different mindgame. Snap on, click, done!
     
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    Telling a subbie his cage is to be permanently locked is worth it, just to see the look on his face. lol. I have no doubt they can always be removed if necessary.
     
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    permanent locking ie only to be removed for Doctors appointments and cleaning.
    I just don't get it no hope of being allowed to unlock. I think even Mistress's would get bored with it.
    The fun of letting him think he might be allowed to unlock say on a Monday
    only to find himself still locked days later praying it will be soon.
     
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    an interesting concept would be to mail the key to a friend, do not tell the sub to whom it was mailed, then have that person to mail to another person and not tell you to whom it was mailed, and this can be done several more times, and each person not telling the last to whom it was mailed, and the key to be returned only with a signed letter with a code, this would make it impossible for the sub to get the key, difficult and time consuming for the key holder to retrieve the key, thus almost permanent chastity
     
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    Mistress and I discussed the subject of permanent denial and we both agree that the ongoing control that She has over me as a direct result of Her having the keys to my release contributes greatly to her feelings in control and mine of being controlled - each day on an ongoing basis. If the lock were permanently sealed that power exchange would lost to a large degree.
     
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    That's exactly right, you will have replaced your keyholder, your guiding star over this emotionally precipitous landscape with a blob of glue.
    How unimaginative.
     
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    1. Any chastity device can be destroyed, but KH can not allow it.
    2. Termless agreement is more practical.(scanners, medical)
    IMHO
     
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    If one ends up in permanent denial then where's the incentive to continue? Of course, it COULD be permanent if the decision for release is completely with the KH and release never happens but then, there's always hope. Without hope, I can't see why you'd bother.
     
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    Even if it's as little as once a year, I feel the keyholder has much more power over the sub if there's a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel.
     
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    You will have the hope not to have an orgasm again. ;)

    To be clear:
    People can not understand the reason for wearing a chastity device until it try (no doubt? agree?)
    People do not understand the long-term orgasm denial effects - just try it!

    Ps. I am 11 months, orgasm denial, I'm consider to asking for continue without release.
     
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    Well, I wil keep this balance in place - or try to
    To my husband - the reward is - that I will continue to deny him indefinitely... And power is never an issue;-)
     
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    I don't think we would ever go permament, but I understand why. I want to beg to cum, but want to be told no. I want the option to cum on the table, but her never to take it. But it's not my decision anyway.
     
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    This whole topic was nothing but fantasy material for me until recently, because we never had a device that I felt could be worn permanently. Now that we have the Tubejacket and I have just come out after 10 weeks with no health issues, that has changed. That being said, I dont know how I would feel if my wife did not have the option of letting me out. Knowing she has that power and can elect to let me out or keep me locked based on her whim is very important to how being locked affects me. However, now that we have a device that could be worn permanently, I find myself wishing she would decide to lock me up, if not permanently, then at least for severly long periods of time with no release whatsoever.
     
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    In terms of a relationship, though, wouldn't permanent denial remove much of the interchange between you and Her as well as the messing with your mind that she can do with and to you in the present situation? As a sissy, I need to have a way of knowing how well I am pleasing Her and her ability to reward me in that way is a large part of the relationship for us.
     
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    A blob of glue for a keyholder. Pfft.
     
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    I can certainly understand the kind of dynamics, but there is also great dynamics in a permanent denied setup, where he never knows when I will allow him to serve me orally or with PIV, if at all. He does his best to deserve this honor, and also to ease my day, pamper me, and to make me feel my power and beauty to a point where I am more aroused, relaxed and willing to let him please me:)
    I can understand why it would be hard for someone not engaged in permanent denial to comprehend, but there is a rare kind of dynamic taken place once the score has been settled, and the surrender is complete. The focus is shifted from his potential release, to be all about how to optimize my pleasures....
     
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    I live in a permanent orgasm denial relation too. And it is fantastic! I mean, I miss cumming. but it is a totally different kind of chastity when you have no chance of cumming. There is nothing I can do to get release, no begging to cum, no hoping to cum. The focus on cumming is totally gone to just pleasure her. And it is a big pleasure to see how much she enjoys it.
    I mean, there is still a lot of dynamic, even without the hope to have sex with another woman. You just focus on one woman and to pleasure her. And you are not sad that there is no hope in having sex with someone else. Its just a willing sacrafice you are giving. For me, its the same with permanent denial. Its just like being faithful :)
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    That's the way to do it!!:):):):)
     
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    "Funny you should mention that....", said the guy who has designed exactly that thing... ;-)
     
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