Im a newbie to the forum and the BDSM lifestyle. Im the sub of an absolutely GORGEOUS DOM wife who is new as well. We both clearly see the benefits of the lifestyle and have decided to pick and choose and use what pleases her. We'll see exactly what that is over time but in the meantime, being the sub at heart I have discovered I am, I have taken on all chores around the home that she deems EVEN THOUGH she is a stay at home mom with few responsibilities outside of her being a part time personal trainer. Its been about 3 weeks and so far so good, nothing but bliss, happiness and of course intense sex...moreso for her than I. After getting approval from my Queen I ordered her THE book (female dominance - elise sutton) that should arrive tomorrow. The anticipation of what will follow after she reads a few chapters is occupying my every thought. The changes in our relationship might be HUGE or maybe not? Either way I know its about pleasing her and in all sincerity that all that matters to me. My queen is the loving nuturing type but who knows? once she tastes the power I feel I OWE her that might all change? Its her call 100% and I will accept and support WHATEVER she wants.
Welcome to the Mansion!!! You have ordered a great book, I'm sure she will enjoy it, and so will you! It would be nice if you could ask your Queen to join us here as well, I'm sure she would enjoy the site and all of the knowledge she could learn here. Again...Welcome!! Mistress Michelle :sex020:
OBTW...I forgot to mention we are interested in locking me up which is how and why I found this site. She has caught me surfing porn on the net (that really pisses her off) and I had already confessed I masturbate daily. She knows my sexual habits but somehow seems somewhat hesitant??? After I made my case for a chastity device she says she was "all for it 1000%" but since I have begun having second thoughts. I have decided to arm her with the knowledge and let her ENFORCE her wishes, I wouldnt want it any other way. We'll see how it goes but Im thinking once she figures it out she'll have me locked up quickly.
:welcome: to the Mansion. You may find the hesitance comes from lack of knowledge! It has taken some of us quite some time to figure out the "why on EARTH would he want to do that?" along with "won't it hurt/be uncomfortable" and then of course "what will I do with him once he's locked up". I echo Ms Michelle, see if you can get her to pop in. One of the unique things about this site is that we have a lot of Dommes, who all speak to each other and help each other through the ups and downs. Have a great day. :manga_balloon: