Am I a Mistress or Goddess?

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  1. leochaste
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    I recently called my Mistress goddess. This was totally unnatural and I'm not sure why it slipped out...maybe reading too much chastity porn...but she was unsure about it...later she brought it up with me saying she wasn't comfortable with it...I think it made her shy. Then about a week later while servicing her she told me to call her Goddess again. I'm not sure how to gauge the impact that name had on her but as I said "goddess" she had a very powerful reaction. Later when I said it she admonished me to call her Mistress...
     
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    bnd2plz I keep my favorite things locked up tight!

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    Sometimes I like to be called Mistress, sometimes Goddess and sometimes I love to hear my own name. I just let him know and make sure he does as I say, or else.... ;)
     
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    I'm a Cuckold and my wife is a Cuckoldress or Hot Wife.
     
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    Everyone is going to have their own preferences, personally I dislike the term "Mistress" I just feel awkward using it.

    But to each their own :)
     
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    steviepie inferior and unworthy male

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    In my humble opinion, her own complete full name (like Elizabeth or Catherine or Janice, etc) is most respectful and preferable (followed by "Ma'am", Ms., and Miss (in that order). Of course her preference should always take priority.
     
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    At the moment my Wife is still my Wife and I address her by her name. She has not decided yet what she is or what she wants to be called. We are still very new to all of this so this may change in time. I have started adding the capitalization as a mark of respect and the 'my' part is certainly not meant as a mark of ownership. This is another part of the relationship where I have no idea where it could go.
     
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    Sounds like you have the right mix.
     
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    You are in a mutual loving relationship and it's whatever title you are happy with and are comfortable with .
    Personally I don't think there are any "set in stone" rules about having to be adressed as anything and have seen some people so hung up on "please may I call you Mistress" etc which can put people off.
    Whatever you both are comfortable and happy with is fine....... by the only people that matter you two.
     
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    In the male mind, the woman who controls and regulates his sex -- is a Goddess. She has the ability to blow his mind and take his breath away.
     
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    You are definitely both... His Mistress and his Goddess... I wouldn't worry about names though... As long as he addresses you in a way that makes you happy, all is good! I guarantee you that he thinks of you as a Goddess at times and as his Mistress at other times.
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