Do you miss the freedom?

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    #1 Sunny, Sep 14, 2015
    Though rarely, but sometimes I remember the days / years when chastity was not part of our lives
    I was free to handle my cock the way I wanted, whenever I wanted; because it was my property
    After the first day in lock-up, all the dynamics changed gradually and later forever. Now there is no going back
    On one side I rarely miss that freedom but on the other side I immensely enjoy being locked up forever
    Do you experience similar thoughts?
     
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    #2 Surrendered to Bec, Sep 14, 2015
    To be honest, no, I don't miss my freedom.
    The positive side of being chaste, serving, and submitting far outweigh any perceived negatives.
     
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    #3 Billus, Sep 14, 2015
    Yep; that's what 'being denied' is all about. It's the fuel that powers the chastity engine.
     
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    #4 Lockdown, Sep 14, 2015
    Yes I do at times! Especially considering last night I awoke to erotic thoughts and cum flowing out
     
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    #5 kellysbitch, Sep 14, 2015
    I feel the same but I do miss not being able to touch my cock.
     
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    #6 Miss Lesley, Sep 14, 2015
    Who needs a cock? Just a personal perspective you understand ;) x
     
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    #7 DonnaSue, Sep 14, 2015
    I used to think of few things more than my cock; now, its' just another seldom used part of the old body. I like that!
     
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    #8 Miss Lesley, Sep 14, 2015
    Well said and my thoughts also x
     
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    #9 xcitedsisssy, Sep 14, 2015
    I do miss the freedom when locked up, especially the ability to have an erection. But on the other hand when I have my freedom I miss being in my device.
     
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    #10 jemima, Sep 14, 2015
    i don't miss it cos i don't like my willie anyways.
     
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    #11 DonnaSue, Sep 14, 2015
    My Mistress hid the key away
    And a friend she took her out,
    What used to be my sex appeal,
    Is now a water spout!
     
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    #12 chastitylockdown, Oct 5, 2015
    Yes, I miss the feeling of an erection too. I probably miss more than being able to jerk off whenever I wanted. But I crave the feeling of being locked up so it's a worthy trade off.
     
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    #13 leochaste, Oct 8, 2015
    I do miss not having my freedom to masterbate. My Mistress allows me release about once a week. I initated this as a game we would play but now it has evolved into a permanent lifestyle. And I have been wearing it so long now that I feel almost naked without it.
     
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    #14 steelwaiting, Oct 8, 2015
    Most of time I love being caged but there are occasions when I miss being able to masturbate or just stroke it a little, it is then that I truly realise my cock is imprisoned and that I must wait and do my time.
     
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    #15 leochaste, Oct 8, 2015
    I am truly trapped. She chains me to the bed before releasing my cock and makes me lock it back on myself to get released from the bed...I'm truly enslaved by my cock...It was my idea to play with chastity...now I'm trapped in it. I love the feeling of being owned tho...
     
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    #16 harddenial, Oct 10, 2015
    A bit yes, but this is more than compensated by my wife's new found love for oral sex. My long-term chastity has resulted in her having some of the best sex of her life, and having her husband's head between her legs is about as intimate as it can get, so she doesn't feel she is missing out on that. Her enthusiasm, suggesting we go to bed, sitting up waiting for me to realise what she is waiting for, great to see and I'm very happy supplying it. By comparison a quick spurt is not so great IMHO.
     
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    #17 allaboutHer, Oct 11, 2015
    Hello All.
    No, 90% of the time I do not. I like what chastity has done for me, i.e. the refocused attention on my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder, the cultivation of my submissive side etc.. I generally am, and always have been a "pleaser' seeking approval all throughout my life, so I have flourished in this dynamic. NOW, that said, the other 10% of the time my feelings differ. I miss being able to get a throbbing, rigid erection and being able to stroke it--it just plain feels good...and the reformed horny chronic masturbator inside me who used to do the deed at least once a day fantasizing about the latest female I would see in passing with the right waist-to-hip ratio adorned in yoga pants or leggings or clingy shorts or a skirt with hosiery & heels or a sundress with strappy sandals, perfectly pedicured feet with nice high arches and a toe ring truly misses the explosive release these images helped to trigger. Most of all that 10% of regret includes a longing for the days of feeling animalistic and manly buried balls deep in my sexy Wife/Mistress/Keyholder with her long legs upon my torso and her ankles upon my shoulders with her perfect feet only inches away to worship as I would howl in a gut wrenching ejaculation inside her...sigh. I need to stop thinking about it!!! Again, yes I DO miss the freedom at times, but chastity has inextricably changed our relationship for the better AND changed me for the better. I only wish chastity devices were as main stream as a wedding ring because I am truly proud to be locked by the most amazing woman I could ever hope to spend the rest of my life with and only wish I could openly brag about my sacrifice to the vanilla rank and file.

    allaboutHer
     
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    #18 Billus, Oct 11, 2015
    I wish it were socially acceptable for a man to be in chastity to one woman while married to another. :cool:
     
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    #19 Joroincharge, Oct 11, 2015
    Nothing wrong with that at all provided both women are OK with it. And if confidential nobody else need know.

    And it's been done on that basis before.
     
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    #20 Astarte, Oct 11, 2015
    Well - it has just has to be ok for your wife as she has to be ok with you having sexual contact to someone else and with not beeing able to have sex with you whenever she wants...

    For my 2nd sub - one I play with from time to time it's almost as you wish it to be though his wife has her own key.
     
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    #21 im283, Oct 12, 2015
    I always miss being able to stroke my penis. I am not sure what is more maddening, being caged and denied an orgasm while providing for her needs orally. Or being handcuffed and let out of the cage. It is a mind fuck either way.
     
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    #22 gary170, Oct 12, 2015
    I miss the freedom but I have the same feelings as allaboutHer what it has added to our wonderful marriage of 20 years is amazing and neither of us would go back I am locked basically permanently these days I get 2 orgasms a year and the longer I am caged the more i want to serve my wife and submit to her desires :) the two of us couldn't be happier
     
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    #23 Sunny, Oct 12, 2015
    It's not a mind fuck
    It's the "training" that we deserve for good discipline
     
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    #24 Joroincharge, Oct 12, 2015

    Or it can be OK with (and/or wanted by) both of them that you have sex with neither of them nor with anyone else.
     
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    #25 ladylionzsissy, Oct 12, 2015
    I absolutely miss it terribly, but it's important to my Keyholder that I be kept locked for long periods while continuing to server Her.
     
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