Man I hate being a "turtle"!

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    A three part preface:

    There is an old joke;

    Masochist: "Hurt me."

    Sadist: "No."


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    There is also a few among us that

    "God as my witness, I thought turkeys could fly!"

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    I got my first device Tuesday. A Birdlocked Neo.

    I posted a picture to the chastity subreddit on Reddit. I was informed that the device I got was too big. One thing led to another, and I finally am able to get to my question.


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    Why was I under the assumption that a "Turtling" penis was a regular thing? Furthermore, why isn't this thing talked about, at all?


    If my penis "Turtles" more often than not, what real options do I have as far being locked goes? Which options are actually reasonably priced?
     
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    turkeys can fly, wild ones. Your solution is a PA. Just make sure its healed before using a device.
     
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    Mine turtles too, which is very frustrating. My penis is normal, a little thick, but that shouldn't cause issues. I don't really want a PA, as I'm somewhat of a prude. That said I'd happily do it myself if there were a way to do it, I'd consider a frenum.
     
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    I guess I'm missing something. Why do you now think turtling isn't a common occurrence? Mine does it; you'd think it was Houdini, the way it vanishes and leaves behind an empty cage and two balls.
     
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    How do you then reconcile turtling with the advice that you should always, always fill your tube, with shaft touching the far "wall" ?
     
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    Fiction versus reality?
     
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    Would a jailbird with inverted rings help
     
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    Who says that? There is no 'Chastity Police' that sets down the rules. Do whatever you like or are able to do.
     
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    I wouldn't mind if there was a chastity police:D :spank: ...... But I take your point.


    I have concerns with when and if I un-turtle, if I can find the way to the pent-up house,
     
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    Depends on the device. I always had problems with the CB-6000 (and 's'), but not with the Mature Metal Jailbird.
     
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    You may want to check out tetheredchastity.blogspot.com
     
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    I don't think there is much you can do to alter your anatomy that much.

    Unless, and I am not saying you ,are a bit chubby . Plenty of photos on tumbler to confirm that tubby turtlers are quite common.

    The other point is if you don't fancy a PA then forget the frenum piercing. It won't last 5 minutes and not joking.

    Any kind of constant pull apart from the pain it will migrate as you watch.

    So I think ball trap devices are not for you.
    Not much help I know sorry .
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Woah woah woah! Turtling is very common, and you can wear a ball trap device. I know because I'm wearing one. Now if you have an unreasonable expectation put in your head by someone who doesn't know any better, then yes, you might be in for a let-down. You have to learn to ignore the idiots (I'm not talking about you, Wendy). This is a classic example of a newbie being led astray by bad initial advice. Forget trying to fill the shaft of the device 100% of the time. Maybe try a smaller gap so when you do turtle, it's kept in place by the tighter fit. And for goodness sake, don't think you have to walk around semi-turgid all the time. It ain't gonna happen!
     
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    My thinking was that even if you have a cage say 11/2 long trying to keep the head of your willy attached to the end and you bend over or its a bit cold ouch.

    Boy piercings are very prone to migration .

    Also a lot depends on how shy he is !
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Yes, but we're not talking about piercings. Has nothing to do with wearing a ball trap device.

    Glad you liked the pic, BTW. ;)
     
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    Suffice to say I'm not a grower. My growth is less than half of what I am flaccid.
     
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    I had to choose between keeping my frenum piercing and wearing the jailbird, those two just won't work together.
    Goodbye piercing.
     
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    If I may express my thoughs & experience on "Turtling"? Again, this is just my experience.

    Several years ago, my wife (Owner) & I lived the B/D & S/M lifestyle and I was her slave. My wife kept me in & out of a CB-3000 cock tube.
    I am 5'10" tall and at that time I weighed 280 pounds. When my penis was flacid it was only about 1" long, but when erect it was 6 1/2". But many times during the day, whether I was in chastity or not, my dick would "TOTALLY" disappear! My penis would go inside my body just like a turtle head retracting into its shell. It was sometimes embarrassing to be like that in front of my wife because us men think what sometimes makes us a man is the size of our penis. But we know other factors is what determines if your a man or not.

    I'll get back on track on Turtling. In 2013. I decided to get Gastric Bypass surgery for weight loss & all the health benefits that go with it. As of today (Sept/16/2015) I am still 5'10" tall, BUT I now weigh 155 lbs! My penis now measures 2" when flacid and still only 6 1/2" when fully erect. During my last prostrate exam with my Urologist, I asked him if all the weight loss would make my penis bigger. My Urologist said it will make a flacid penis look bigger because of all the "fat" in the pelvic area is greatly reduced, thus giving your flacid penis a longer look. My penis is still the same size, just no more fat to cover it up, which can cause "Turtling". Also my penis DOES NOT TURTLE ANYMORE!

    So from my experiences, I believe weight loss can really help the Turtle issue. You do have several "Fat" pockets in & around the groin area.
     
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    it best not to be fat anyways innit. my one don't turtle but it only small. but i don't want a big one but i do like them.
     
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    Definitely not @jemima length of your skirts !!:)

    Xx Wendy
     
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    You are correct. I also feel better & healthier after all that weight loss.
     
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    oooh, giggle. you means something might be showed coming out from under my skirt. That wud be dreadful.:)
     
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    Small is beautiful xx
     
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