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    Another thread inspired this. Couldnt find anything recent with the search, so:

    Has anyone talked with their sub/keyholder if not actually had a second person hold the key, or someone whos just not their as much as your SO hold the only one?
     
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    Thus implying that you have a close relationship with a third person?


    Why do I get the vision of a heavily sown minefield spring to mind ??:)

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Mhhm. You put more thought into that than i did haha. Not that im against it if it works, but who knows. Thank you Miss Wendy.
     
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    There are a number of people on here who have had some kind of arrangment as you described. I did in the past have my girlfriends best friend act as the keyholder online (she didn't have the physical key though I did get her a symbolic key necklace). This was because my girlfriend is very submissive (but she does like being a tease) so she needed the help of her friend to keep me locked for a long time. On occasion the girlfriend would put me through a tease session and let her friend know what was going on between edges where the kh wuld cheer her on and laugh at me (via chat not video). These setups can work well for the right people and if enough thought is put into setting them up.
     
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    It's certainly been done, and in two ways.

    1. KH gives a spare to a friend (usually gf but could be other), as other Dominant third or emergency backup.
    2. KH sets up or agrees a 'dual control' with both KHs needed for an unlock. Perfect for e.g. lesbian couple with joint male sub.

    Various options here.
     
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    Being locked by a lesbian couple; now there's a terrifying idea! they'd have no reason what do ever to unlock you! Guess you'd just have to hope they would enjoy letting you watch them together on occasion.
     
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    Yea indeed that would be.

    Not throwing off on anyone, but i dont think i could ever handle being cuckolded.

    Now if it was by a bisexual wife with her girlfriend, damn! Sign me up!
     
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    wife has key and her gf has key
     
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    Hows that workin out for ya?
     
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    The idea is very tempting, so much so that I've started to entertain it. Not necessarily keyholders specifically, but right now I'm under the control of authorized users, so that while I have determined the hard limit in terms of time, they are allowed control of what I do in the interim. It is still very new, but I believe it is exactly what I've been looking for. It allows each person to punish as they see fit, from line writing/typing, exercise or feminization, fulfilling everyone's turn-ons/fetishes, and allowing enough variance to keep me very interested, and of course denied. Too many cooks might spoil the broth, but too many Dominants might keep one sub just too busy to have orgasms. :)
     
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    Multi KHs easy to arrange too. All it wants is a lockbox for your keys, secured by a safety lockout hasp which can take up to 6 padlocks which can easy have a separate KH/owner.

    One of these:

    http://www.aspli.com/products/337/safety-lockout?gclid=CKOUxt7I9cYCFfMZtAodLGME1g
     
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    Very cheap too. I mean: £7.30 +VAT. Peanuts!
     
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    Geez, hard enough to find one keyholder, never mind multiples!!
    Interesting idea though, the lockbox idea is a good one. I think if you have the usual 2 keys to a lock, sending 1 key to each and ensuring the keyholders communicate with one another creates a very interesting scenario where they have to both agree to unlock. Would they ever agree? ;-)
     
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    Quite so. Also some devices have more than one lock, and can have the option of each needing a different key, or keyed alike. Behindbarz is one - the Lori 2C (locking screws but same principle) another.
     
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    Here is a spin on the multiple KH / multiple lock idea: You are provided 6 identical looking, but keyed different, locks. Each of the KH has a key to one of the locks. You get to convince each one, however they want to be convinced, to try their key. If you get unlocked, another random lock is placed on and you start again.

    Of course the convincing doesn't have to be sexual, it could be cleaning their apartment, doing something to humiliate yourself, even financial domination if your into that.
     
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    I suggested to my wife once having an exclusive third party KH. Once...

    On a side note this thread is a hoot!

    The possibilities with chastity play are seemingly endless and as written above need not be sexual to earn time to be unlocked.

    We have chatted about the possibility of a third party KH helping my wife enforcing my lock. So it seemingly remains a possibility for us. Though we have yet done anything about pursuing it.

    I think I will "Bucket List" this one for sure!!
     
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    I'm currently working out having a real person be my keyholder from another state but it will be through thechaste.com website. Still some kinks to work out but I'm excited.
     
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    If you do, lockbox is probably best for you. Keys in lockbox with wife, lockbox key with 3rd party KH.
     
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    I'm planning on using the nuset smart box 7060. It can be programmed via computer from anywhere. There is also no chance of guessing the code. The keyholder and website will be the only people with the code. This way I can still have an emergency release in case I can't get in touch with the keyholder. I'm hoping this works as planned.
     
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    I am sure this will be controversial, my wife has one key and almost never lets me out, My mistress who I spend far more time has my other key.

    Although I have told my wife I intend to play on the side and she said "I dont give a fuck what you do as long as you dont come near me" She does not know about mistress per say or that there are two keys although its not rocket science.

    If I ask very nicely my wife will let me out maybe once a month. I have to wear a condom and rub on her pajama covered arse ... however Mistress has forbidden me to cum in this manner so I have to fake it. If wife decides to have sex with me I am permitted to cum but thats only happened once in 9 months.

    Mistress is a lot more generous, and Mistress is the real deal and everything i could have hoped for. Sometimes she will secure her cock so she knows exactly when or if wife has let it out, though its been going on for long enough now that Mistress trusts me and I would not ever betray that trust despite how ironic that sounds. We dont have sex much, but mistress looks after me in other ways, her favorite is reverse milking with a ruined orgasm....or using her feeldo....generally she lets me have a full orgasm after using my arse.

    Why am I still at home...well unfinished business.
     
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